hhmoore
tired & cranky shadow
To all the people that keep saying it shouldn't have been brought up on a forum, this is hogwash. People talk, get excited, share their new acquisitions. How many people that you know do not tell ANYONE that they are getting a new animal until it is out of quarantine and past all guarantees. I don't know ANYONE who does this.
I think we may be reading two different threads...what I saw people saying is that Beth should have contacted Amy about her concerns first, rather than taking them to a discussion forum (and, yes, she did mention the "lump" and that she thought they were mislabeled in her first post in the linked thread). That is a simple matter of courtesy and respect. By all means, post up pics of your new acquisitions, and share the joy with forum friends...but don't draw attention to problems and ask for opinions/advice before talking to the seller.
Again, that criticism doesn't make Amy's response the right one (IMO), but it does make it pretty understandable to anyone who has found themselves in that position.