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An overhaul and new way of using the Warning System

Sort of flattering how you come out just to post in the threads I'm in. Sorry things aren't going any better for you yet, I'm sure it'll look up soon.
I am just wondering why Adam always brings up my home life.


oh yeah.....here is why

You know what, I'm an idiot, sorry for the typos and I need to just go to bed. I spend time in here just about any time I'm depressed. I shoulda never moved to SC, so I'm working on ANOTHER move but the whole isue now has me depressed. Hence my large amount of time in here.
 
Sort of flattering how you come out just to post in the threads I'm in. Sorry things aren't going any better for you yet, I'm sure it'll look up soon.

Correction.
It is flattering how you always have something to say about me.
Even threads I try to stay out of. You have to go mentioning my name. You are not lucky enough to be me. So just keep dreaming.


anyway back to the topic.

I think if you totally make up a story just to try to crucify someone and destroy their good name. I think you should be banned.


Lets say you post a story about a breeder. Lets say you pretend to have a partner that bought from said breeder.
lets say you pretend the animals stayed with you for a certain amount of time.....
lets say you posted a story that would totally destroy someone.
lets say the whole thing is a lie.
lets say a year later the truth still has not been told.
lets say a year later you try to impress your so called "integrity" or lack thereof upon others.
lets say you were already banned.
lets say you came back promising to be good but have failed miserably.


I say BAN the f l_l c l< # r





If you ask me he'd be foolish to slap warning points on a guy stupid enough to spend hours every day working for his site free of charge!
1. no one asked you
2. I do not work for this site.
3. Definately not everyday.

You should get them for posting about NERD in two thead today alone. It's called bias pal, Rich got your leash too tight for you to see that? Must be nice being clueless, enjoy, someday you're going to have to wake up...
I did not post about nerd.
i was posting about a participant in the thread....which is you.
nerd happens to be one of those facts when posting about you.
Also if I get warning points...you should to.
Because this thread has nothing to do with my so called leash.
It has nothing to do with my family life.

But here you are again Whinning about other people points and posts.
you fail to see that you are doing the exact same thing those other people are.

For the most part I've done little to get warning points even though people have called me everything from an idiot to an ass in threads without being issued a point, so.
Does this mean you want warning points for calling me clueless and an idiot savant?
or should warning points only go to other people and not adam?



point.
Before you tell people they do not have warning points......READ and make sure they don't
before you tell people rules should apply to them because they did wrong......check yourself first.
Before you tell people to disclose all sorts of information..............check yourself first.

Everything you try to impress upon others.......you should be taking your own advice.
 
Posted by webslave
OK, this stops HERE and it stops NOW.

There are a couple of people on this site who feel they can drag any thread they want off topic about an ongoing battle between themselves. I am not mentioning any names, and not accusing anyone in particular. But if you even THINK this refers to you, then I suggest you STOP IMMEDIATELY.

Anyone who continues such an argument in THIS thread, or any other thread where an offtopic argument will be STARTED or CONTINUED will get to try out an ENFORCED suspension from this site. That includes anyone who may even REPLY to such a post being made.

Enough is enough. And I really do not care WHO is involved or WHO I have to suspend in order to get it to STOP RIGHT NOW!!

If the person you have a gripe with or about is not either the person in the topic line, nor the person who originally STARTED the thread, then you will be walking on extremely thin ice.

I don't care if it turns out that when the dust all settles, that I am the only one remaining on this site.

AM I CLEAR ABOUT THIS?

Crystal clear.
it stops now.
 
Does this mean you want warning points for calling me clueless and an idiot savant?

Are you saying something negitive about idiot savants? From the quote above I'm getting the impression you think they're less then human or something... I have the utmost respect for your gut feelings Ritchie, I think it's great you're good at finding quotes and trying to twist peoples words.

Understandable you're unhappy I won't play your game. But if you search users by number of posts, you'll see I have a life to tend to. We weren't all able to rack up 5,000 posts in the BOI, oh I'm impressed, very nice job buddy! Oh and that count doesn't even include all the time you need to spend on porn sites!

Go ahead post some more quotes, I'll have a little laugh and get back to them when I get the time.

Your number one fan:)
 
Guess what Adam? You get to be the first one locked out. I thought my warning was pretty explicit.

Here's how it will work. You are going to be locked out of the system until you pay a $10 fine to get back in. If you figure it is not worth $10 to come back here, then so be it. Your choice.

Next time it happens, it will be a $20 fine. Then $40. Then $80. get the picture?

I'll copy this to Adam via email so he will get this message.
 
Well, that's going to be the policy from now on, or until I see a reason to change things once again.

I will need to take a look at the warning structure and adjust it accordingly. There will be warnings still placed for minor problems, and some major ones as well. Warnings will not be cumulative except in the sense that I will use it as a monitor to how someone is behaving on this site. There will be no automatic point where a fine will take place. This will be completely subjective on my part, based on my interpretation of the events in a given circumstance. Everyone can lose their cool every now and again. That is acceptable. But if you exhibit this behavior habitually and frequently, eventually you will exceed a threshold of what I feel is reasonable and tolerable here.

The one being fined will certainly not agree with my decision, but I doubt it will come as a surprise.

What the fines will be levied for is someone who insists on continually causing problems or will come across immediately as someone who will be such throughout their stay here. As such, this is going to have to be a seat of the pants judgement call on my part.

But it will be similar to getting a speeding ticket. The financial aspect of having to spend money for violating a speed limit while driving tends to keep many people from speeding. Those who do speed, know the risks and have to pay the fine or they may lose their license. This warning system will act a bit differently, however. In this case, you lose your privilege to being here FIRST until you pay the fine. The fine is not mandatory, of course, as you can just choose to stay away. Which will probably just suit everyone just fine.

Some people won't agree with this, I am sure, but this is just one way I am trying to make management of this site work. If someone wants to be a real pain in the butt, and is willing to pay for that privilege, well more power to them. I can tolerate them until they run out of money, or the price to get back on just gets too high for them.

The scale for the fines will be as follows:

First offense - $10
Second offense - $20
Third offense - $40
Fourth offense - $80

And so on and so on. Each subsequent offense will double the previous one. So yeah, a rich pain in the butt can have the run of the place.
 
Okay, I have no intention of getting any points - heck, I hardly ever post anyway being a confirmed lurker (I think I'm going to be a 'new' member forever, lol) but I have couple of eejit questions about the new system.

I think the fines idea is a good one, and would have no problem paying if I did bad but how are you collecting the money? I guess Paypal would work for the large majority of cases, but I know that not everyone uses this (I don't). Have you thought how people from far flung places would settle up if not by paypal?

I'm only asking to check you've considered that kind of thing as I'm wondering if collecting the money might become a headache for you, maybe dealing with different currencies and the like.

I guess it would only be a teeny percentage we're talking about here, so the system is probably fine - just playing devil's advocate and thinking of obscure problems that might arise.

Right, I think that's it, will head back into lurk mode now :)

Yvonne
 
Well, to be honest about it, if someone went so far as to get fined for their actions, I think the burden would be on them to figure out how to get the money to me. Otherwise, I certainly will not be losing any sleep worrying about it. If you catch my drift... ;)
 
Lol, darned good point :)

Well here's hoping the fine sytem works, cos while some of the arguments can be amusing for a while, it doesn't take long for it to get tedious. I do start skipping stuff after a point and of course sod's law being what it is, that's when you miss something useful.

Yvonne
 
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