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I keep mainly larger boids, and I will admit, I have never kept any lizards or other "footed" reptiles. I have a neice who frequently visits to see my "zoo" and her family is interested in getting her a beardie. She is 12 years old and very responsible, but as I know nothing of their temperments, I can't give advice on the matter.

For those of you who raise beardies and also have children in the house, how are they together? Will a young CB beardie be able to grow up and tolerate a child's attentions?

I do understand you can't tame a reptile. I relearn that almost daily with my guys here. :)
 
Bearded Dragons and Children

I left out the word "small" in this case, since I don't consider a 12-year-old to be a "small child", but one which IS definately old enough to understand and follow through with responsibilities.

Comparing Bearded Dragons to large boids, or any snake, is like comparing a dog to a 'possum. No offense, I love my snakes, and I've kept several species over the years, but my Beardie is a whole different ballgame! Beardies not only tolerate human attention, but actually seem to crave and seek it. I know mine will do whatever he can to get my attention and be picked up and held. As long as it's a well-bred, good-tempered Beardie, it's not really necessary to purchase a very young one to raise in order to have a rewarding pet. Many adults are just naturally very friendly, even those that have been primarily kept as breeders. They are not typically flighty or prone to nipping, though there are, of course, exceptions. I would most definately consider Beardies capable of being tame in the same sense that ANY animal can be tame, and given the generations of selective breeding in human-controlled situations, for size, temperament, and colors, you can almost consider them to be domesticated.

pitbulllady
 
I have 4 Beardies and a 6yo. He loves them and they are actually more tolerant than the family dog. :) Adults are especially interested in what's going on in the house and beardies are extremely social by nature. I let them run around loose in the living room and my son just watches with amazement.

I'd recommend them as a great beginner reptile.
 
Comparing Bearded Dragons to large boids, or any snake, is like comparing a dog to a 'possum. No offense

I only stated my own limited experience to show how little information I know about beardies. I wasn't comparing them at all. I just wanted it clear that I needed advice as a "newbie" to the bearded dragon. :)


Would a younger bearded dragon be best, or should she start out with an adult, a more hardy animal?
 
Go With An Adult

or a sub-adult animal, one that is already well-established, since babies can be quite delicate. If she can find an animal that is already eating commercial Bearded Dragon food, that's even better. Be aware that lizards have much more complex needs, especially insofar as lighting and vitamin supplementation is concerned, than snakes, which makes them much more high-maintainance. It's often possible to find older juveniles that are "hold-backs", kept by the breeder to determine how well they will fit into a breeding program, which are offered for sale. I have not seen any difference in personality between males and females, though, unlike iguanas.

pitbulllady
 
I would agree that an older Beardie would be better suited for a child. They tend to be much more tolerant of handling.
 
Kids and Beardies

We have a 4 yr old and 2 yr old. All our dragons, adults, juvi's and babies are held by our children. Like it has been said it is better for the kids to handle juvi's and adults, due to the fact baby dragons are jumpy and skiddish and tend to scare my kids a little. :)
 
For all of you waiting at the edge of your seat... here's an update :)

I bought her a sub adult beardie from a breeder at the show. I took your advice and verified it was eating commercial food. I handled quite a few and chose the one that seem alert, yet not too skittish.

I have never even touched a beardie, so this was a new and fun experience for me. I can totally see how easy it is for these little guys to steal your heart!
 
Hey Danni, come to my little store. Got the perfect beardie for ya. Just as long as the little bugger hasnt sold. Calm as a can be, not to jumpy or any of that, actually fell asleep on my shirt one day.
Anybody who has seen my in the petstore knows Im not alone.
Either got the Arizona King, or Uro, even back in the day a big ole Red Tegu. I don't like wandering the store alone, and the beardie had his cute lil head poking of my my pocket, on the chest of my shirt, his little front extremities out, and sleeping. I was on the verge of buying him. Until I realized I had no room at all.
 
beardies are great with children. we have 8, 6 who live with us. our oldest is 15 and youngest 3 months. they all but the baby handle them and hand feed them and have never been bitten by any of them. they bath them and sit with them on their laps feding them wax worms and locusts. the only thing to be aware of is hygiene, we are very hot on this beacuse of the baby and make sure they all wash their hands after handling them. we even have a frilled dragon who is not as tame yet and has had a bite at the kids but it doesnt hurt them and has not made them frightened of him,
 
That's awesome.
Teaching kids the right way earlier on is the way to go.
Aside from you letting them have some beardie priviledges, without them noticing, maybe without even you noticing, they are getting a whole lot more responsible from it.
Sounds like a fun place to be with all those pets.
How many beardies do you have?
 
we have three bearded dragons, 1 male and 2 females and we have at the moment 30 babies the last few hatched yesterday. we have had our beardies a year and must be doing ok with them as they have laid 13 clutches of eggs between them and so far we have successfully hatched 75 out of 80 babies in a home made incubator. we have made it educational to the children and we have cut eggs so that they have seen how the babies grow we had to do to this to make sure that we were doing things right, we have have cut eggs and the babies have survived. we had several eggs that didnt hatch so we cut them and the baby was alive but had no eyes and no chance of survival. we have had one without a tail who we will probably keep as the kids have fallen in love with him and we have decided to keep another one that has some lovely colors in him and he stood out from the rest. he is 3 weeks old and has already shed. it takes up a lot of our time but we do this as a family and a year has passed and the kids are still as interested in them as they were on the day that we got them.
 
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