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BF wanted
- Thread starter Lucille
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Stardust
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Awww, come on Brian, something must float your boat???
Something must make that temperture rise????
Having been around the block several times you should have some kind of rise, either that or you havent been around the right blocks.
Something must make that temperture rise????
Having been around the block several times you should have some kind of rise, either that or you havent been around the right blocks.
Stardust said:Awww, come on Brian, something must float your boat???
Something must make that temperture rise????
Having been around the block several times you should have some kind of rise, either that or you havent been around the right blocks.
Not really....
Stardust
human
Well you left that wide open, not really too what?
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"Piece of meat" and I can have him, Lucille? LOL!!
Ahhh...I see what the problem is Brian. I bet that you haven't found what you're looking for because the emotional investment isn't there. Sex is bland without love. One must at minimum have that spark of chemistry to carry it over until love comes in, or not. If you're a womanizer, and you've just been out to sample, I doubt that you've ever experienced a true love-love relationship. The emotional tie brings out passion in women and without that, I think that some would seem rather frigid and bland to you.
It's ok to have the mindset that you're "out to play" as long as you're happy with it and your partners have that understanding too BUT if it isn't meeting your needs anymore, a change has to be made. Maybe it's time to reexamine your own wants and desires, and think about what you need to do to get them. Of course, if you want a tiger in bed, you'll have to make sure that you find someone playful and openminded in this area...but I know you'll find what you're looking for if you spend some time getting to know your partner, inside as well as out. Remember, women need to be wooed forever...not just until they are "won." The more you put in, the more you'll get in return.
AND, things will be different now because women over 30 are MUCH different than 20-some year olds. You'll see.
Ahhh...I see what the problem is Brian. I bet that you haven't found what you're looking for because the emotional investment isn't there. Sex is bland without love. One must at minimum have that spark of chemistry to carry it over until love comes in, or not. If you're a womanizer, and you've just been out to sample, I doubt that you've ever experienced a true love-love relationship. The emotional tie brings out passion in women and without that, I think that some would seem rather frigid and bland to you.
It's ok to have the mindset that you're "out to play" as long as you're happy with it and your partners have that understanding too BUT if it isn't meeting your needs anymore, a change has to be made. Maybe it's time to reexamine your own wants and desires, and think about what you need to do to get them. Of course, if you want a tiger in bed, you'll have to make sure that you find someone playful and openminded in this area...but I know you'll find what you're looking for if you spend some time getting to know your partner, inside as well as out. Remember, women need to be wooed forever...not just until they are "won." The more you put in, the more you'll get in return.
AND, things will be different now because women over 30 are MUCH different than 20-some year olds. You'll see.
Sex is bland without love??? I don't think so. How bland can it be having two willing partners at a time? Not very.. But you are right during the act(s) it is great, after isn't. Someone always ends up getting some crazy idea in her head that we will be an "Item". If I was looking for that it would be one thing, but so far i haven't met a woman who can keep me interested for more than a couple of weeks tops.
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That is truly a sad post Brian.
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Oh Brian...It really IS bland without love. When you haven't had any in a little while and you just have a romp session, it can be very fun but it's the...nevermind. It's just that this is exactly why you haven't found any girls that can hold your interest for more than a couple of weeks. Like I said, without the feelings behind it to sustain your drive, sex is bland. And, you have to get past the "newness" in order to be comfortable enough to be experiemental...especially women. I don't know how else to explain it to you. It sounds like you're not happy with your life like it is and if that is true, I deeply hope you figure this all out soon. Otherwise you'll be "looking" forever and never really happy with anything. I'm not saying that your choices are bad...you have to do what is right for you. I'm just trying to help because you really don't sound happy with the way things are going.
Have any of you seen Something's Gotta Give??
Have any of you seen Something's Gotta Give??
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Not happy with life as I know it?? Oh I am more than happy with the way things are in my life. Now if I could find a way to avoid the type of women who end up stalking me I would be even better. Quite frankly I am getting tired of buying new tires every other month because they end up getting slashed by some nutcase woman with dreams of a relationship that isn't going to happen.
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Oh my my... do post a pic. I would love to see a man so great that every woman he comes in contact with goes crazy over him and just has to have him for the rest of their lives.
I don't care WHO he is, I know how to show some one the door, and keep it closed.
I don't care WHO he is, I know how to show some one the door, and keep it closed.
Stardust said:
Well mistakes are made on my part but I am trying to avoid that from now on.
As for pics I don't do pics that could be used to put a face with a name. It would ruin certain aspects of my happy life, such as work enviroment, and certain aspects of private life.
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Hmmmm excuses
My pic is posted here, twice as a matter of fact, hasn't hurt me any.
I just can't see where posting your pic would hurt you any, and talking that big talk you should be able to walk the walk.
My pic is posted here, twice as a matter of fact, hasn't hurt me any.
I just can't see where posting your pic would hurt you any, and talking that big talk you should be able to walk the walk.
Stardust said:Hmmmm excuses
My pic is posted here, twice as a matter of fact, hasn't hurt me any.
I just can't see where posting your pic would hurt you any, and talking that big talk you should be able to walk the walk.
Oh I can trust me.. But a shot with my face in it would be bad for business. And it is bad enough I have to have my name here for the BOI but thankfully I have a name that is quite common.
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Yeppers, Lucille has a point, from the waist down, private or public. I am curious as to what this person who just makes every woman go crazy is all about.