I had already sent him a message on pangea, fauna and via his email to alert him the moment this thread was posted.
In all honesty, I think chad is mostly unorganized and incapable of regularly checking up on his customers (per people who have completed transactions with him.)
I feel that, assuming he really did have car problems he probably had to use everyone's money to fix his car. If that were the case, I've actually emailed him telling him I'd pay for shipping again (though, over the phone directly to the UPS store or online or something- we'd have to talk about it.)
I can understand getting in a bind and getting in a tough situation, its happened to me before. But ignoring the problem and then walking away is just really disappointing.
I intend to call him this evening when my boyfriend's out of the house. Specifically because this situation is stressful enough, I don't need my boyfriend knowing someone's ripped me off.