• Responding to email notices you receive.
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    In short, DON'T! Email notices are to ONLY alert you of a reply to your private message or your ad on this site. Replying to the email just wastes your time as it goes NOWHERE, and probably pisses off the person you thought you replied to when they think you just ignored them. So instead of complaining to me about your messages not being replied to from this site via email, please READ that email notice that plainly states what you need to do in order to reply to who you are trying to converse with.

  • IMPORTANT! PLEASE READ!! About the Google Adsense ads being displayed

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    Yeah, I know. They are a pain in the butt. But they pay the bills to keep my server running. Just a fact of life, I am afraid.

    Want to get rid of them? Simple. Just become a Contributor level member or above and they will be gone. -> Please click HERE."

    Is that too much for me to ask of you to keep this site running? Well, sorry about that. I too wish I could get everything for free. But alas.....

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    Google Adsense ad revenue for December, 2025 was just $30 over the cost of the lease for the server running this site. So, in effect, the money providing the incentive for me to continue running this site is coming SOLELY from the paid memberships and sponsorships here. Which honestly ain't much....

Competence and sex

Do you think competence in men and women is sexy? (More than 1 answer OK)

  • Keep them barefoot and pregnant

    Votes: 4 7.1%

  • The ideal woman should be a kitten: soft, weak and playful

    Votes: 3 5.4%

  • The ideal woman is a tigress: strong, fierce, awesome

    Votes: 20 35.7%

  • Competence and sex are totally unrelated; witness famous politicians

    Votes: 10 17.9%

  • I do not care about personality, I take what I want regardless

    Votes: 2 3.6%

  • Powerful, aggressive men are VERY sexy

    Votes: 12 21.4%

  • Competence and competition can be different; be the best you can be

    Votes: 13 23.2%

  • Men have always been helpless, women let them think that they are otherwise

    Votes: 7 12.5%

  • I love and admire competent women

    Votes: 14 25.0%

  • It is sexy when either gender excels; it indicates self respect and ability

    Votes: 35 62.5%

  • A total lack of competence in anything is a negative trait

    Votes: 15 26.8%

  • Duh, could you like, repeat the question?

    Votes: 3 5.4%

  • I would never have sex with a useless wimp of either gender

    Votes: 20 35.7%

  • I wandered into this poll by accident, which way to the exit?

    Votes: 5 8.9%

  • Other, describe below

    Votes: 3 5.4%
  • Total voters
    56
I think Ken is just very busy providing a good time.....

I was hoping for the Hairy Thunderer myself! (Maybe one with blue jello :dgrin: )
 
I need some help, confused LOL

Being dazed & confused is normal for me however i'm sure someone here can clear this up for me LOL

I was just playing in my profile and noticed a section called: latest reputation received. There are 3 comments there, all very nice, two of which are based on what i posted here in this thread. Now it doesn't say who posted the comments and it was by accident that i came across that section cause i had to go through my profile again searching for it after i updated it.

I just want to know if i can respond to those comments? They were very nice and i'm in awe actually. Its made my day :)

I think we all need a bit of a boost at times and today was one day where i needed it. Thanks to those who sent the comments :)

Leigh
 
Click on USER CP

scroll down to LATEST REPUTATION RECEIVED

the third column to the right should have the name of the person who left you the reputation

I just make my comments off peoples posts.
 
kiote9 said:
Click on USER CP

scroll down to LATEST REPUTATION RECEIVED

the third column to the right should have the name of the person who left you the reputation

I just make my comments off peoples posts.
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Thankyou :) now i can find it easily. The columns don't say who sent it though. not that it matters really. I'm just happy that they did send them :)

Thanks again
Leigh
 
lucille said:
Leigh, I believe in order to check those identities you are required to be a contributor to the site. Site membership is extremely reasonable and an investment in the high quality of this site; and joining by using Paypal is easy.
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Hi Lucille :)

I agree totally about the site. It is wonderful and i always enjoy posting and reading posts here. I'd actually like to list it in my favourite sites list on my site.

I'll have to set up a paypal account first i guess, right :) i'll check it out :)

Leigh :)
 
You can join via snail mail too, but setting up Paypal is a good thing and I remember that it did not take long.
 
lucille said:
You can join via snail mail too, but setting up Paypal is a good thing and I remember that it did not take long.
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I'll probably go the snail mail route. Trust that moreso than the computer lol.

HandsomeRob, when i send important mail like that i always send it next day or two day etc. That way i get a tracking number and can check on if its been delivered :)

Leigh :)

P.S. i'm goign to go check out the details about being a contributer :)
 
handsomeRob said:
ok, so as far as the reputation things go, whats the points thing for?
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The reputation system is to rate each others posts. You can leave positive for posts that you agree with, or that touch you somehow. You can leave negative for those that offend you or that you totally disagree with.
 
well, $10 wasnt too incredibly important (no, i wont give you all $10) and i joined up because i had fun playing the movie quote game.

also, if it wont show your number until 100, why does mine say 44? or do i have to wait till 100 to read what kind of an a-hole people think i am?
 
handsomeRob said:
well, $10 wasnt too incredibly important (no, i wont give you all $10) and i joined up because i had fun playing the movie quote game.

also, if it wont show your number until 100, why does mine say 44? or do i have to wait till 100 to read what kind of an a-hole people think i am?
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Even though your reputation goes up (your little green boxes) you don't get your rep power # till you hit 100 posts.

And Rob, if you are ever an a-hole I am sure SOMEONE on this forum will find a way to let you know.

(I happen to think you are adorable.)
 
"Competence" and "sex" in the same sentence. Well, now, isn't that a stretch???
 
i love a man that can man handle me in the bed room but has to be very sweet out side the bedroom!! anything goes in the bedroom!!!!! whips chains play rape EVERYTHING!!!!! rougher the better!!!! but outside the bed room he has to be a completely different man!! may sound weird but thats me lol
 
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