I'm merely stating facts regarding PayPal's Terms of Service.
I bought several snakes this year, and all but two sellers asked me to send payment via Friends and Family through PayPal.
My point is that, as sellers, you all have no right to expect buyers to waive their protection through PayPal. You also have no right to circumvent the rules regarding Paypal's fees for using their service. When you open an account, you agree to abide by their account policies.
When you cheat them out of their fees, you're basically expecting them to work for free. Do you show up to your job just out of the kindness of your heart, or do you expect to be paid? I expect payment for the services I perform at my job. PayPal is no different.
No worries about any business transaction between us. Your customer service stinks, and the way you talk to people is beyond rude. Thankfully, there are many other breeders out there who offer quality animals, and are able to conduct themselves appropriately.