Kind of got caught up, although I may have missed a post or two. So, in no particular order:
Not if its just a DBA, if that. Let's not get carried away with what we're dealing with here. Someone has gecko's in a room in their Mom's house. They are headed for jail. Maybe paid $1000, if that, for what's left behind, likely more compensation for money owed. This isn't Mercedes buying controlling stock in Chrysler.
Jeanne, you complain how it took you "8 weeks" or something, and I said that you were fortunate that Ali helped you with your problem. Your claim was with Wendy. You were owed blood, with only a turnip to go after. That's your problem, although not necessarily your fault. Ali worked with you. Wendy left no escrow, did she ? You were demanding all shipping be paid, and refunded, by Ali. Yes, at one time in the negotiations to straighten out the mess, you were told that shipping would be paid. Further on in the negotiations, the offer changed. Would have been nice if she didn't say it earlier, but she owed you nothing, and you were under no false assumptions or promises when you chose to return the animal. You don't like it, keep the animal. Maybe it sucks, but Ali helped you out. You were lucky.
Ken hit the nail on the head, that all things point to Ali being in over her head at first, trying to fix things, as the takeover evolved. If you haven't figured it out yet, extricating Wendy was a nightmare. I hope you can do better than this in the future.