pinkdemoness24
Amanda Feuerstein
I paid for a snake from this guy on Halloween and every day he keeps saying he'll send it the next day, never does, and refuses to give me my money back. Also does not really respond to any attempts to communicate.
Some of us may think that all the scams are getting old. You appear to be taking the stance that it's ok for the "seller" to choose not to follow through on several occasions, but the buyer's choice to try to get what she paid for by exerting a little pressure is somehow damning. Interesting perspective...Ugh... the lawyer, small claims and police threats are getting old.
He gave numerous excuses. Everything from forgetting which day it was to blaming it on FedEx not showing up. Temperature was one of the few excuses he didn't use. By the time it's fairly clear that someone is trying to screw you over, it's best to keep all communication via some written and verifiable medium. It's much easier to be taken seriously on the BOI when you can present a substantiable case that's backed up by more than "he said-she said" phone conversations.Has he given you an excuse? You do know that nationwide shipping right now is a fairly bad idea, due to dropping temps. Have you attempted to call and get an actual person on the phone vs. texting? It may just be a misunderstanding, lack of communication or the like.
I feel this BOI was posted hastily and you should see if he attempted to make it right come next week ie: tuesday morning.
Some of us may think that all the scams are getting old. You appear to be taking the stance that it's ok for the "seller" to choose not to follow through on several occasions, but the buyer's choice to try to get what she paid for by exerting a little pressure is somehow damning. Interesting perspective...
He gave numerous excuses. Everything from forgetting which day it was to blaming it on FedEx not showing up. Temperature was one of the few excuses he didn't use. By the time it's fairly clear that someone is trying to screw you over, it's best to keep all communication via some written and verifiable medium. It's much easier to be taken seriously on the BOI when you can present a substantiable case that's backed up by more than "he said-she said" phone conversations.
How could this possibly be a misunderstanding? He thought that she was sending him a MoneyGram as a gift?
Hastily? Hardly. Based on what has already passed, if she'd waited until Tuesday, there's nothing to suggest that she would have received anything other than a new excuse. Wal-Mart money transfer, constant excuses for a total lack of follow-through, generally poor communication after receiving the payment; all of which can easily be seens as adding up to having been scammed.
If the snake magically shows up on Tuesday, she can easily update the thread to reflect that he did end up completing the transaction. Even if that is how it plays out, there's more than enough information here to give potential buyers cause for pause.
You and I must have wildy differing views on what exactly constitutes "half-hearted" effort. Several text messages every day definitely looks to be sincere effort. It's entirely possible that she didn't even have his email address, and that text messaging was her only viable means of communication, as opposed to phone calls, of which I already gave my opinion.I feel she made half-hearted efforts to contact and was quick to threaten legal recourse, which we all know was a lie unless she proves otherwise. That inherently shows she is not-truthful, as well as the seller. I've seen people crucified on here for using that exact tactic of word manipulation and threatening.
Trust has to be earned, and I can see where he failed to give her any reason to give him the benefit of the doubt. Each situation is it's own separate animal. One can only cry wolf so many times before you'd have to seriously question their intentions. I might be more inclined to agree with her supposed need to be more patient if not for his daily choice not to live up to his word. Every single time that he claimed he'd ship, he always managed to find some reason no to.I have read many on here (not as much as you obviously, you always have good insight and input as to the scenarios imo) where it was a legitimate misunderstanding and then people harp "poster should have been more patient".
My post was more of a "he promised via Tuesday, give him the benefit of the doubt". It's been slightly over 1 week and that to me is a fairly FAST period of time.
If one researches the consumer law in one's state, sometimes one finds that there are statutory recoveries for attorney fees if one wins. In any case, these days, many attorneys will give professional advice for a small fee or even pro bono.we all know anyone in their right mind will not contact a lawyer for a 100 dollar(ish) suit.
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Ugh... the lawyer, small claims and police threats are getting old.
Has he given you an excuse? You do know that nationwide shipping right now is a fairly bad idea, due to dropping temps. Have you attempted to call and get an actual person on the phone vs. texting? It may just be a misunderstanding, lack of communication or the like.
I feel this BOI was posted hastily and you should see if he attempted to make it right come next week ie: tuesday morning.
I was calling several times every day between texts to see if I was just catching him at a bad time. He never answered a single time. He would also only respond to texts after I called him several times. I had no email address to go by, and when I called the home phone number of the address he gave me, the woman responded that she didn't know him. As for the lawyer thing, my school provides lawyers on retainer, so would be of no cost to me. As the weather, it's been in the upper 50s, middle 60s here the last week so it wouldn't have been that dangerous to ship.
Ugh... the lawyer, small claims and police threats are getting old.
Has he given you an excuse? You do know that nationwide shipping right now is a fairly bad idea, due to dropping temps. Have you attempted to call and get an actual person on the phone vs. texting? It may just be a misunderstanding, lack of communication or the like.
The OP says her weather is in the 50s which is fine for shipping.
WTF? How else is someone supposed to get their money back from a scammer? That's what the court system in this country is supposed to be used for. Also, what do you mean "nationwide shipping right now is a fairly bad idea"?Some people get warm weather year round. The OP says her weather is in the 50s which is fine for shipping.
I know it's only one side of the story, but right now from what the OP has posted, this guy had plenty of time to ship the snake and kept saying that he would, but he didn't. He didn't seem to offer any excuses other than being at work or arriving too late, etc.
Safeguard their purchase via responsible business practices such as using a service that provides fraud protection? The best defense is a good offense right?![]()