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So I know there is another thread that talks about a bad deal involving Dean and I have kept my mouth shut about my dealings with him until now. I bought his weird super pastel female before the winter time and with the weather he was unable to ship. I have kept contact with him until about two weeks ago. I tried calling him last week about shipping and again today just to find out his number is no longer working. Does anyone have any other contact information for him so I can either get my snake or my money back? Or know of a way I can get back my money. I know with paypal disputes are only within like a month or two and I purchased her paid in full of a total of like $975 with paypal fees back in November I believe it was. I can show whatever conversations I had with him over email if need be. I'm not labeling him a bad guy or anything cause I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt and would like for him to just make things right. However, with his recent dealings it's hard to have hope in this situation. But if anyone has any type of info on him it would be appreciated. This is my first time posting on here so if I did anything wrong I apologize.
Thanks
Josh Berlinger
 
I'd say go ahead and post up your information of the transaction... that way it is here for all to see.
 
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. Do you have any emails that you can post up here. If you can post all of your emails that would be great. I hope you can get what you paid for, or your money back.
 
I would still suggest to plea your case with paypal. Sometimes if you prove that goods were not sent, they can help.

Can't hurt to try.
:iagree:

Very true and if they dont listen, atleast you tried.Whats the worst that could happen?

Unless you still want the snake and not your money back that is what I would do.



During that period I would post all sources of communication you can.

Emails and fauna pm would help the best.
 
Thanks for the help. I got in touch with Paypal I am just waiting to hear back from them. I wanted to try to get the snake cause she's just gorgeous but it appears it's not going to happen so I'm going to have to try and get my money back. I'm posting everything I have so everyone can see. There were a few more emails that I sent before this last one asking him about shipping but this is just where he stops answering me because his email was no longer working. I can't seem to pull them up though. I also attached the pictures he sent me of her. And the rest of our conversations was done by phone. And I tried calling him last week on the 5th about shipment and I got his voicemail and I called him again today and now his number is no longer working. I just want to get this resolved.

Hey Dean,
I have tried to email you a few times but no response. I know it's the middle of winter and shipping is not possible right now but if you could just give me an update on her just so I know everything is all good. I know your busy getting your business set up most likely. But if you could please email me back I'd appreciate it . I'll also try giving you a call just incase your not getting my emails I believe you gave it to me in one of the previous emails.
Thanks
Josh

Okay sounds good. I will try and patiently wait ha, I'm really excited to see what she looks like in person. Thanks again.

Josh,
I never felt that way whatsoever. I feel for you having that much cash out on a snake that you haven't received all due to weather. I am just thinking in the best interest of both of us as well as the snake herself. I know you realize this too.
I will absolutely give you some sort of notice when I can get her out to you and will be taking care of her in the meantime. She will continue to feed while in my care as well.

Regards
Dean

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On Dec 8, 2010, at 11:42 AM, Josh Berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Hey Dean,
I apologize if I came off like an ass. It wasn't intended like that in any way. If you could just let me know like a few days in advance when you think it's good to ship so I can take off work that'd be awesome. My address too is:
10 neilson place
Oak ridge NJ 07438
Thanks
Josh

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On Dec 6, 2010, at 6:08 AM, Strictly Exotics <[email protected]> wrote:

Josh,
I just checked your weather and I am a little concerned about shipping her with the lows in your area in the teens. I mean, I will ship her out but if the risk of guaranteed arrival is solely on me, I would prefer to wait (especially with how much she is). I know it's the tine of year and all but I don't normally ship in that cold of weather in case there is some sort of delay. Last week, I had a fedex delay due to weather so they didn't get my package to me until 5pm. Personally, I don't think she would stand those lows for very long. Let me know what you think.

Deam

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On Dec 5, 2010, at 6:32 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

It's saying partly cloudy with temps around the 30s.
Thanks
Josh

That's what I am planning on. What is your weather like for Tuesday morning?

Dean
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On Dec 5, 2010, at 4:24 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Hey Dean,
Is shipping for a Tuesday arrival of this week possible?
Thanks
Josh

--- On Tue, 11/30/10, Dean Stemple <[email protected]> wrote:

From: Dean Stemple <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: Super pic 2
To: "josh berlinger" <[email protected]>
Date: Tuesday, November 30, 2010, 5:02 PM

She is gorgeous and I will miss her like you wouldnt believe.

From: josh berlinger <[email protected]>
To: Strictly Exotics <[email protected]>
Sent: Tue, November 30, 2010 3:43:29 PM
Subject: Re: Super pic 2

As soon as I saw her I knew I wanted her even though I should be trying to cut down on the spending. But I just couldn't pass her up. Thanks. Just let me know about the shipping.
Thanks again
Josh

Got it. Thank you sir and you will be very happy with her.

Dean

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Your payment for $952.75 USD to [email protected] has been sent.


Payment details
Amount: $952.75 USD
Transaction Date: November 30, 2010
Transaction ID: 53L03198TC442981P

Subject: You've got money!

Shipping Address:

10 neilson pl
oak ridge, NJ 07438
United States
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On Nov 30, 2010, at 3:17 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Payment sent. And my zip is 07438.
Thanks
Josh

Josh,
My paypal address is the same as this email [email protected]. I will shoot for a Monday shipping for Tuesday am delivery. Please email me your zip code so I can check weather as well. As soon as I receive your paypal payment, I will mark her sold and disappoint a lot of people.

Dean

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 3:04 PM, Josh Berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

What's your paypal address? And tomorrow doesn't work for me. Cause I need to take off work so I'm home. And yeah I understand how it all works out I waited like three months for an order one time. So it's all good. But like I said if the weather is okay for a Tuesday arrival next week that'd be awesome.
Thanks
Josh

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 3:58 PM, Strictly Exotics <[email protected]> wrote:

I prefer paypal, USPS money order, or cashiers check.

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 2:45 PM, Josh Berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Okay when would you be able to get her out to me? I definitely want her. I live in NJ so the weather here is starting to get colder. I have a shipment coming on tuesday so if we could do it on the same day that would be awesome. Also what forms of payment do you take?
Thanks
Josh

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 3:37 PM, Strictly Exotics <[email protected]> wrote:

Josh,
Yes I guarantee sex and live arrival. With live arrival this is the deal... I will ship her as soon as I feel that will be safe all around since I will be taking all of the risk. I use heat packs 1/2 in to 3/4 in styrofoam insulation plus popcorn or poly fiber for added insulation. I will ship her to a business address or at hold a your fedex hub, whichever is most convenient.
As for doa, notify me immediately and freeze the snake. With her, it's fairly easy to tell that she is mine.
During the summer, I fed her rats, mice whichever I could get ahold of. She has been eating small rats every week since September and doesn't hesitate, especially when she has a hide in her tub. Now, she has been feeding live but has taken fk or thawed at times.

Let me know if you have anymore questions

Dean

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 2:21 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Just a few more questions on her and if everything checks out you will be receiving a payment. She is feeding on rats right? And just a question about your terms. Do you guarantee sex? live arrival? and terms if there is a DOA?
Thanks
Josh


Josh,
I agree with you that she doesn't look like a normal super pastel but she definitely isn't a yellowbelly as I have 12 yellowbellies for sale...lol. She is absolutely stunning though.

Dean

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 1:41 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

She a very nice looking animal. Is there anyway I can see a belly shot of her? She just doesn't look like a normal super pastel. And all my pastel yellow bellys have weird markings like that on them as well so I'm thinking somehow the yellowbelly gene got into her.
Thanks
Josh


Hey Josh,

I will take some pics with my phone and email them to you that way.

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On Nov 30, 2010, at 1:46 PM, josh berlinger <[email protected]> wrote:

Can you email me some other pictures as well?
Thanks
Josh

Hi Josh,

No she was not in shed in those pics. She is just really bright and has some great markings. As you can see by the ad, I had some nice trade deals but I just wasn't looking for anything in the deals I was offered so I out a price on her instead. Trust me though, you will not be disappointed with her.

Regards,
Dean

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I understand why you want her.She is a real looker.

I hope you get what you deserve.Preferabley the snake but if not maybe the cash wont hurt.

I wish you luck in this endevor.You will need it!
 
If you happened to use your credit card via Paypal... contact your CC company and file a dispute. You may have better luck thru them with reversing the charges.
 
Chances are at this point I don't think you'll even get excuses from dean. In other words don't hold your breath thinking you'll hear from dean. He has shown himself to be nothing more than a liar and a thief. Now that he has been found out he'll slide back under the rock he came from until he finds a new way of screwing people. Maybe he'll try and get diapers for free claiming to be having triplets next. :shrug01:
 
Chances are at this point I don't think you'll even get excuses from dean. In other words don't hold your breath thinking you'll hear from dean. He has shown himself to be nothing more than a liar and a thief. Now that he has been found out he'll slide back under the rock he came from until he finds a new way of screwing people. Maybe he'll try and get diapers for free claiming to be having triplets next. :shrug01:
:iagree:

He could always do the "cancer" scam that the oe lady pulled off several years back.
 
:iagree:

He could always do the "cancer" scam that the oe lady pulled off several years back.

I can only guess the "I'm getting a divorce" :bawling: story is just that. Anything to attempt to make the other person feel bad for pushing them is used as a diversion. What gets me is with all the effort ilk of this kind put into scamming people you'd think that they could actually get somewhere in life if they were to direct these efforts in a positive direction. Personally I would think one would feel better doing something good versus doing something bad :)D I helped the old lady with her groceries > :NoNo: I helped myself to the old lady's grocery money). Like I said in the other thread, people that scam others are damaged. :notallthe
 
I almost bought this F from him because I knew who bred her.I also have her brother.I'll try to contact the dude I got her from @ the show Sunday.If I can get any info @ all I will forward it/post it here.He was trying to get me to pay more than I did for the brother & wanted me to sweeten the deal by adding snakes in as well.I haven't been on in awhile.This is disgusting to be reading.
 
Chances are at this point I don't think you'll even get excuses from dean. In other words don't hold your breath thinking you'll hear from dean. He has shown himself to be nothing more than a liar and a thief. Now that he has been found out he'll slide back under the rock he came from until he finds a new way of screwing people. Maybe he'll try and get diapers for free claiming to be having triplets next. :shrug01:

Since he's supposedly getting a divorce... I know someone that is supposedly having twins that we could hook him up with. They would make a perfect pair. :rofl:
 
Not sure if this worth a try, but maybe contact the local police in Dean's area and see if you can get a sympathetic ear. At the least maybe they can turn you on to the local postal inspector who might give you some options, especiall for the amount of money we are talking about. Just trying to help.
 
I can only guess the "I'm getting a divorce" :bawling: story is just that.

Neither Reagen or Dean has filed for a divorce. She claims that she left in November, and that she is filing for divorce, but she has not filed for anything.
 
Thanks everyone for the suggestions. Paypal doesn't seem to helpful since it's past the user agreement time frame there is nothing really they can do to recover the money. However, they did accept me filing a claim against him so he will have that on his record. I'm going to try to get the money through my credit card company and see if it will work that way. I also am going to contact my local police department and see if there is anything they can do. I believe I have to go through them and they will contact his local police and try to handle it that way. I was hoping that he would see this and send out the snake but apparently thats not going to be the case. And I have to go ahead and try to recover the money.
 
You might as well start searching for the yellow brick road, the Dean we all thought we knew blew away to Oz in a tornado, and now occupies the role of brainless, heartless coward AKA TinScareLion.
 
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