Seriously? Has this thread seriously turned into such a hornets nest?
Tom, you should know, that if someone doesn't quote you, that doesn't necessarily mean they're talking to you. Basic forum common sense. Don't make assumptions, especially in regards to "tone" in written word where it's easily misinterpreted.
Deb, while I'm fluent in the technical end of things, I do agree with Tom that I think you'd be chasing your tail with pursing this. I don't think the laziness expressed by their tech department would budge from anything anyone here says. Anything is worth a shot though, but I wouldn't get upset if you get the same lame response.
Didn't someone post somewhere that donations go to whatever the University decides, regardless of what you specify its for?