varnyard said:
Clint I have not seen where anyone defamed you here, however we do require proof. If you think asking you questions is defaming you, then I do not know what to tell you.
I do have a few more questions.
(1) Do you still have the pictures of the box?
(2) Did you not know something was a miss when you got the box from the driver, an adult female ball is not the same weight as a empty box.
That said, you do have some very valid points above. I think John has a few questions to answer as well.
1. no i dont still have any pictures(wish i did) but i didnt see any reason since i called John and asked him if he wanted me to send him picts, help him file the claim , etc. and he said no. John shipped UPS and as you know they dont allow shipments of snakes (unless that has changed)so maybe he couldnt put a claim in??? Also, the reason he didnt label the box as such and this may be part of the problem. Most of my snakes come Delta dash or at least FEDEX. so im not too familiar with the pros / cons of UPS.
2. the box was left on my doorstep. The driver never nocked on my door and asked me to sign for it. I dont know if this (no signature) was an oversight on the driver's or if no signature was required. It's a gamble either way. With a signature you get verification of delivery but if the driver misses the customer the box rides around in the truck all day(until 5:00pm, i think) when it arrives at the ups office and can then be picked up. If your gonna ship UPS , best to ship with a Pre--10:00 am (morning delivery) shipment.
3. I have never had a snake somehow get out of the box/ or bag. This doesnt seem possible to me and i still dont understand what happened. At first, i thought maybe john got distracted when packaging the snake/box i.e. multiple shipments, different boxes, etc. and he still had the snake. But i called him and he said he shipped it, so i dont get it? and since we talked on the phone, i really dont understand this whole blast on me.
4. Defamation. I dont mind questions. but dont they have to be asked of me? i mean if someone is slandering you on some internet site that you are not aware of and cant defend yourself against is that really a good thing? I know our intentions are to protect our friends, but the road to the truth can be unclear at first blush. I dont rush to judgement as quick as i used to (getting older), i find most of my problems( im in business for myself: construction) come from misunderstanding/ miscomunication.
5. the thing that bothers me is i have the same phone number, address, email, etc. why didnt John contact me?
6. I do however appreciate you giving me an opportunity to present my views/facts, etc.
sincerely, clint