royalkreationz
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Yes I did
I told the officer when I called from Lubbock that I wanted a civil standby. When I got there and called, I was told that it was a civil matter and to handle it on my own. When I went to Ed's house, I used no profanity or threats. I simply told him that I was there to collect my money or take the snake back. Ed started making up excuses saying the snake wasn't there when I had talked to his mother-in-law and she told me they were in the barn. She said she would help me, but she was scared of the snakes and that is when she gave me permission to go to Ed's house, which was on the property, and talk to Ed. I didn't do anything wrong when I was there.
The day after I returned, Ed sent me an email saying he filed charges. I called the officer and asked if it was true and told him that I would take of the charges if there was any. The officer told me that there were no charges, so evidently he was just trying to bully me around about being arrested. I knew that I didn't viloate any laws while I was there because when the officer told me that Ed didn't want me at his house, I left. And when the officer told me that, I wasn't even at Ed's house. I was at the gas station where Ed told me his buddy would bring me the snake. I never went to his house other than the inital attempt to get my snake or money.
As I stated before, I made those calls to try to scare him into making good on the deal. It obviously didn't work because he was a coward about it. It was a wrong what I did and I know that. After I didn't get any response from him, I began pursuing the small claims suit against him.
I still send him emails from time to time to make the offer as I wrote above, but he refuses to answer me. I posted the offer on this thread, which I feel is an adult way to handle the problem, but he refuses to make good on the deal. I have used no profanity or threats since I apologized and
The way I see it is this, He screwed up then I screwed up. I offered an apology which I know can't undo the phone calls, but is the only thing I could do about the calls at this point. Other than an apology, I don't know what I can offer him. Some on here can't except an apology but that is their deal. I hope they never do anything wrong in life that they want an apology accepted for. I do believe in forgiving people. I can forgive him if he makes good on the deal, and it is up to him if he forgives me.
Thanks,
Jody Barnes
I told the officer when I called from Lubbock that I wanted a civil standby. When I got there and called, I was told that it was a civil matter and to handle it on my own. When I went to Ed's house, I used no profanity or threats. I simply told him that I was there to collect my money or take the snake back. Ed started making up excuses saying the snake wasn't there when I had talked to his mother-in-law and she told me they were in the barn. She said she would help me, but she was scared of the snakes and that is when she gave me permission to go to Ed's house, which was on the property, and talk to Ed. I didn't do anything wrong when I was there.
The day after I returned, Ed sent me an email saying he filed charges. I called the officer and asked if it was true and told him that I would take of the charges if there was any. The officer told me that there were no charges, so evidently he was just trying to bully me around about being arrested. I knew that I didn't viloate any laws while I was there because when the officer told me that Ed didn't want me at his house, I left. And when the officer told me that, I wasn't even at Ed's house. I was at the gas station where Ed told me his buddy would bring me the snake. I never went to his house other than the inital attempt to get my snake or money.
As I stated before, I made those calls to try to scare him into making good on the deal. It obviously didn't work because he was a coward about it. It was a wrong what I did and I know that. After I didn't get any response from him, I began pursuing the small claims suit against him.
I still send him emails from time to time to make the offer as I wrote above, but he refuses to answer me. I posted the offer on this thread, which I feel is an adult way to handle the problem, but he refuses to make good on the deal. I have used no profanity or threats since I apologized and
The way I see it is this, He screwed up then I screwed up. I offered an apology which I know can't undo the phone calls, but is the only thing I could do about the calls at this point. Other than an apology, I don't know what I can offer him. Some on here can't except an apology but that is their deal. I hope they never do anything wrong in life that they want an apology accepted for. I do believe in forgiving people. I can forgive him if he makes good on the deal, and it is up to him if he forgives me.
Thanks,
Jody Barnes