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For all the Single Ladies

Would you consider a long distance relationship?

  • Yes (if we have enough in common to possibly make it work)

    Votes: 7 53.8%

  • No (I have no desire for a long distance relationship... no matter what we have in common)

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • Other --- PLEASE make a post and explain

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • Total voters
    13
Southern Wolf said:
Amanda... let me impart a little bit of wisdom from my own life.

I was engaged... and it was a long distance relationship. While we were engaged I found out she was cheating on me with a married man. IT DESTROYED ME!!!

It has taken me 10 years to get to where I can trust a woman again with my heart. Please dont go down that same road I did. I have missed out on so much.... I even missed out on a wonderfull woman because I could not open up and let her in.

10 years later... and I am trying a long distance relationship again... and this time I think I have found a wonderful woman that will like me.... for me. It has taken me a long time to heal... but I am willing to open up and give her what remains of my heart.

Please dont shut yourself down completely. I have been there... and I wish to god I hadn't.
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Thanks for sharing Kevin... wounds are fresh, hopefully they'll heal over and it'll all be good. The initial sting is just still a lil strong.
Good luck with your lady though, glad you've found someone :thumbsup:
 
Heart4Dragonz said:
Thanks for sharing Kevin... wounds are fresh, hopefully they'll heal over and it'll all be good. The initial sting is just still a lil strong.
Good luck with your lady though, glad you've found someone :thumbsup:
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I know all about those wounds.... they had me contemplating things I am not happy about.

I will offer this.

I've been there... I understand what your going thru.... if you want to talk... you can PM me. I will offer any insight I can on how I got thru... or just listen.

I wish the best for you.... its gonna be tough right now.
 
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