Rozann,
Sorry if I didn't answer all of your questions. I guess I didn't think they were all directed to me personally. What else would you like to know from me? I have no problem droning on, but I was trying to keep it as short as I could. If there's something pertinent that I didn't see, please restate it so I know you meant it for me to answer.
I really DO think everyone is welcome here. I also believe that anyone who comes on here with a respectful attitude of the knowledge/experience of others (in relation to Fauna and the herp society as a whole) and does not try to scam people will be accepted warmly. I have seen people err in one or both of these ways several times, and their hands get smakced, but otherwise, it's usually a good experience for people.
One of the things that really gets me riled up is the idea that anyone can understand what is going on in any long-standing community of posters in just a brief period of time. When someone comes here and starts lecturing us on how the BOI "ought" to be, well it seems rather infantile to me. After all, many of us have been here since the very beginning (or shortly thereafter), and the BOI works as it does, in part, BECAUSE OF the input we have offered Rich over the years of its existence. To me, it is a terribly arrogant thing to go into a community of posters, read some threads that tick you off, and then pontificate on how things SHOULD BE. Again, maybe it's just me here, but I would never do that on some other site at which I was in the "newbie" position.
The other thing that will get everyone cranked up here is lying. I'm not just talking about lying about huge things either. When someone is shown to be a liar about stupid little details, trying to make themselves look better than they really are, their whole credibility is blown. Now, I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but once I know they're a proven liar, I'm finished with them. Everyone has their own level of of what it takes to write someone off, but lying does it for a bunch of us!
Finally, let me assure you of this, Rozann: I have never been sorry for encouraging you to post here . . .not even when I've disagreed with you!
