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Hanover Herps (Bob Fisher) - BAD GUY

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Hanover Herps were extremely helpful and caring in the beginning. However, 6 months is too long to wait for animals. They had some good excuses for postponing my order, but there is no excuse for this type of behavior in a business. Here it goes...I'll try to keep it somewhat organized:

12-23-02. My payment cleared for $200 to purchase 1 young adult normal female bearded dragon and 1 young adult red sandfire female bearded dragon who was handicapped (missing partial leg/s). We decided to wait to ship until after the holidays.

1-7-03. I asked to ship but only gave 1 day's notice (my fault) and Bob didnt get the email in time. No big deal. Shipment kept getting delayed until...

1-13-03. I asked if he could hold the dragons until the weather warmed up a bit because winter was starting in northern MN (here.) He was very helpful to hold them for me at no cost until shipping was not a big risk anymore.

1-26-03. I emailed the temps here to Bob and he thought we should wait until it got a little warmer to ship. I agreed.

...we had a few emails back and forth discussing shipping and the cold weather and decided to hold...

3-24-03. I asked Bob if he could ship them out but he said he could later this week or early next week because his wife was in the hospital now. Of course that is a valid excuse. He said he would contact me in a day or so...nothing...

4-6-03. I gave up waiting and asked Bob if he could please ship out Wed 4-9-03 and get ahold of me.

4-7-03. I got a response that said he would let me know tomorrow (Tues) if he can ship Wed. If not, he will ship Thurs 4-8-03.

4-9-03. I heard nothing Tues night so I asked if he sent them out today (Wed.) He replied he didnt, and that he couldn't get them out this week. He said he could skimp on shipping and send them out through the post office. I paid for UPS Overnight shipping. It was not my fault he spent the money I paid. I said I didnt want him to send them through usps. He replied this same day that I would get the dragons in the next week or so. "You will get them soon."

4-21-03. I have heard nothing at all, so I email and ask if he can ship this week. He said yes, he could get them out the middle of this week. He said he'd let me know later today.

4-23-03. I had heard nothing from Bob once again, so I emailed him asking if he could ship out Wed 4-24-03. He said no, he ordered some shipping supplies from some idiot on kingsnake and they didnt come. He could ship DEFINITELY Mon 4-28-03.

...in this time I tried several times to get ahold of Bob...I heard nothing and it had been over a month so I threatened to turn him in to paypal...

5-24-03. Bob contacted me and said he had to go out of town last minute. His computer locked and he lost all of my contact information. He also said that when he was gone he took in some rescues and his kids played with them and mine. They may have transmitted a yellow fungus to my dragons. He gave me 3 options: 1) refund my money 2) give me babies in place of the adult females 3) send me the originals and hope they do not have the fungus. I replied asking about the fungus and if it can be detected through laboratory tests. I was wondering if he could get them vet checked for the fungus. I think this should be his responsibility and at his expense. I said I didnt want babies, or I would have bought babies. It is a bad situation, but not MY fault. I have heard nothing in return...

6-18-03. I emailed Bob again and suggested he get ahold of me. I explained my view of the situation. I haven't heard from him since 5-24-03. It is now 6-27-03.

If Bob's excuses are, indeed, true, I am very sorry for his bad luck. However, it is very rare that he lose my contact info once and then lose it again a month later. I dont know about you guys, but I think I'd have learned to write it down or something by now.
I was also very revolted when he told me he could maybe get them out if he "skimped" on shipping and sent them out through the post office. I PAID FOR UPS OVERNIGHT AIR. It should not have even been an option for him to "skimp" when I had paid in full 3 and a half months ago.
Throughout the whole transaction (after I paid him) he never got back to me when he said he would. He always claimed he would email me at blank time or day and let me know what was going on, but he never did. He also promised shipment many times but never got around to that either.

I want from Bob Fisher 2 adult female dragons.
1.) I think most could understand why I dont want babies, because I could have bought babies for a smaller price.
2.) I dont want a refund because I have been keeping my males only until I can breed them to my females, then I am selling the males, and after a few clutches, selling the females as well. I cant afford to keep the dragons and my other herps and decided the dragons to me are the least enjoyable and the most expensive by far. If I were to simply get a refund I would have lost 6 months worth of bearded dragon food (expensive in winter,) space, time, light bulbs, etc that I put into my males. I am not in the reptile business for profit, but I am majorly in the hole with dragons and was hoping to be able to watch some hatch, grow them up a little, and then sell all, except maybe 1 holdback for a pet. Watching them grow and hopefully breeding them eventually was the reason I bought the ones I have as hatchlings. 2 were supposed to be boys and 2 girls. Unfortunately, this didnt turn out to be so as baby dragons cant be accurately sexed easily.
3.) I dont want to get the ones I paid for without a vet check for obvious reasons. No one would. If anyone here would want that, please let me know and I will apologize for speaking for you.

I think he should pay for a vet check for MY dragons (its not THAT expensive) and send me proof. If they are clean, I want them. If they aren't, I think Bob should find me 2 young adult healthy females that are similar to mine. I would love to get mine also if he treated the yellow fungus and sent me proof of another vet check that they are now clean. I am sorry about the yellow fungus but it is not my fault and if they would have been shipped out as promised many times it wouldnt have happened.

If he has a good excuse for why he has failed to communicate I'd like to hear it and maybe I would understand. However, it would have to be a d@*m good excuse to make up for his horrible business practice. A death or hospitalization or so on are good excuses, and I would understand, but it has been over a half a YEAR. That would have to be over 60 deaths giving each one 3 days for him to go to a funeral, etc. Communication is a key to a good business, and I'm afraid Hanover Herps is in need of some badly.

I will post copies of emails from/to Bob Fisher in the next message. (I'm not sure how long this can be.)

Thank you,
Nicole Gustafson
Coal's Cold-Blooded Creations
 
I'm not sure what all I'm supposed to post as proof, but here are some emails. If I need more/am doing anything wrong, someone let me know. I've never done this before...
These are only some, starting in March since that's when I really started to try to get things going.

From: Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>
> > > >To: Coal's Coldblooded Creations
> ><[email protected]>
> > > >Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
> > >Available!
> > > >Date: Mon, 24 Mar 2003 11:34:30 -0500 (EST)
> > > >
> > > >Hi Nicole!
> > > > It's good to hear from you. I just got your messages today. I
>will
> > > >most likely not be able to shipp till later this week or the
>beginning
> >of
> > >
> > > >next. My wife has been in the hospital since last Thursday. She
had
> >to
> > > >have surgery to fix one of her kidney's and hopefully will be home
>this
> > > >week. Between being at the hospital and shuffling my kids around,
I
> >can
> > > >hardly find any time for much else. As soon as she gets out and
>things
> > > >settle down a bit, I can ship them.
> > > > They are doing great. I'm sure you will be more than happy with
> >them.
> > >
> > > >Hope this all doesn't cause problems, but everything has stressed
me
> >out
> > >a
> > > >bit and I've been a bit overwhelmed.
> > > > Thanks,
> > > > Bob

From: Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>
> > >To: Coal's Coldblooded Creations
><[email protected]>
> > >Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
> > >Available!
> > >Date: Mon, 7 Apr 2003 20:30:04 -0400 (EDT)
> > >
> > >Hi Nicole! I will let you know tomorrow night if I can send on
> >Wednesday.
> > >If not, I can on Thursday. I will be using UPS next day, morning
> >delivery.
> > > I'll let you know tomorrow night!
> > > Bob

> >From: Coal's Coldblooded Creations
><[email protected]>
> >Sent: 04/09/03 05:05 PM
> >To: [email protected]
> >Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
> >Available!
> >
> > >
> > >
> >Hi, did you get them out today?
> >Thanks, Nicole

From: Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>
> >To: Coal's Coldblooded Creations
<[email protected]>
> >Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded
Dragons
> >Available!
> >Date: Wed, 9 Apr 2003 17:59:12 -0400 (EDT)
> >
> >Hi Nicole,
> > Unfortunately, I couldn't get them out today. I'm not sure if I'll
be
>
> >able to get them out this week after all. I hope you can work with me
on
>
> >this for a bit longer. With Kim being laid up and not working, I also
>have
> >not worked much in the last three-four weeks, since she needed someone
>with
> >her constantly. I'm self employed and am trying to finish a job up to
be
>
> >paid and as soon as I can, I will get them to you.
> > I could skimp and save a good bit on shipping through the post
office,
>
> >but would rather wait till I have the extra money for UPS. I hat
risking
>
> >the health and safety of them to save a few bucks. Hopefully you can
> >understand this and wait a little longer. Usually I wouldn't have any
> >problem, but with the lack of income here lately it has been extremely
> >tough. I'm also waiting for an insurance claim check, so maybe I'll
get
> >that in the next few days and be able to send them out then. I'll keep
>you
> >informed on what's going on. Just let me know how you are with this.
> > Thanks
> > Bob

From: Coal's Coldblooded Creations
<[email protected]>
>Sent: 04/09/03 09:54 PM
>To: [email protected]
>Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
>Available!
>
> >
> > Hi,
>what's going on here is that I have decided to get out of the bearded
>dragons to focus on my boas and corns. I have had my heart set on
>breeding
>bearded dragons for a long time, so I wanted to breed them once before I
>sell them, since I probably won't be able to get any more for a few years
>when I'm through more or all college and have a stable job. I was hoping
>to
>get the females and breed them, and then sell the adults, cage, lights,
>and
>babies all together to try to make back some money on them, since the
>dragons are the project that I have spent more money on than anything
>else.
>I just don't want breeding season to pass me by.
>How long will they breed? I think my males are ready now- how long will
>they stay ready if they don't have a female?
>As long as I get to breed them, I'll be ok, but am pretty anxious.
>I really do understand though and realize there are tough times and the
>less
>stress the better.
>I hope you all take care and get better soon,
>Nicole

From: Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>
>To: Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>
>Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded
>Dragons Available!
>Date: Wed, 9 Apr 2003 19:50:15 -0400 (EDT)
>
...You will get them soon, hopefully in the next week or so. How soon
will
>you have to be getting rid of them? And when you do, what all are you
>getting rid of? Just curious....
> Bob

From: Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>
Sent: 04/21/03 10:15 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
Available!

>
> hey just checking in again... can you ship this week?
Thanks, Nicole

From: Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>
>To: Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>
>Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded
>Dragons Available!
>Date: Mon, 21 Apr 2003 21:29:32 -0400 (EDT)
>
>Hi Nicole,
> I should be able to get them out the middle of the week! Things are
>starting to look better on my end. I'll let you know later today which
day
>I'll be able to get them out. Thanks for your patience!
> Bob

From: Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>
Sent: 04/23/03 12:30 AM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons
Available!

>
> Hi Bob,
it would be great if you could get them out tomorrow (WEDNESDAY) I dont
like
to ship after wednesday in case of carrier error and them getting caught
over the weekend. UPS is usually pretty good though. I would fell better
if
you shipped wed. though.
Let me know,
thanks!
Nicole


Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>

To :
Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>

Subject :
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Message about: Many Bearded Dragons Available!

Date :
Wed, 23 Apr 2003 21:07:45 -0400 (EDT)

Hi Nicole,
Unfortunately I couldn't get them out today. I ordered a few shipping
supplies via some idiot (advertising) over at kingsnake.com and was told I would
have them by today. Needless to say, I didn't get them yet. I put in another
order with Superior tonight, so should have the stuff by the weekend. I could
definately get them out to you on Monday, without a hitch. That way, we
wouldn't have to worry about the weekend thing either.
Hope this works for you. Also, send me your shipping info again so I have it,
with a phone number too.
Thanks,
Bob



Bob & Kim Fisher <[email protected]>

To :
Coal's Coldblooded Creations <[email protected]>

Subject :
beardies

Date :
Sat, 24 May 2003 23:58:13 -0400 (EDT)

Hi Nicole,
Sorry I could'nt get in touch with you earlier. I had to go out of town
unexpectedly for three weeks, right after our last conversation. Our computer
went up as well, locking all of our e-mails and any information we had on our
computer, which included all of your contact info. We have just recently been
able to get things back together and get back on line.
While I was away, we took in some rescues. Unfortunately my kids got a hold
of them and were also messing with my dragons as well. The rescues were not in
the best of health, and they were also carrying yellow fungus. The yellow
fungus has shown up on some of my dragons, but I am pretty sure the better part
of what we have was unaffected. They have all been seperated and I have been
keeping close watch on all of them to make sure it hasn't spread.
As for the dragons you purchased, we can do one of three things. I can ship
you the original ones you puchased, which I am pretty sure they were not
infected by the rescues. I can replace them with babies we just hatched out two
weeks ago, which are from our german male and hypo female, of which I would give
you four or five to compensate you for your troubles. The last thing we could
do is refund you the original puchase price and leave it at that.
I will do whatever I can to make this deal right, as we have never had any
unhappy customers in the past and we don't intend on having any now or in the
future. I hope you can see from our contacts and conversations in the past that
our actions here lately are not the norm and only happened because of unforseen
problems.
Let me know what you would like to do, and we'll go from there. I am not
going to be home from Monday till possibly Thursday, but there is a chance I can
make it back by Wednesday. I have a job to finish up out of town and hope to be
done by Thursday at the latest.
Sorry for the troubles,
Bob

*THESE NEXT 2 ARE MESSAGES I HAVE SENT TO BOB. THEY DONT HAVE THE BEGINNING HOTMAIL STUFF LIKE ADDRESS, DATE, ECT. BECAUSE THEY ARE IN MY SENT MESSAGES FOLDER. I PROMISE THEY ARE REAL AND ANYONE WHO HAS A HOTMAIL ACCOUNT CAN TELL YOU THIS IS HOW IT WORKS. IF HANOVER HERPS HAD REPLIED THEN I WOULD BE ABLE TO POST THEM WITH THE DATE AND EVERYTHING.*

~This was sent to Bob May 27, 2003:

Hii, its nice to hear from you. I was worried as I have been ripped off before but was hoping this was just a comunication error. There are steps you could have taken to get through to me, like posting on the classifieds like many people do, but everything should be ok now anyway.
Can you see the fungus? Is there any way to be sure the ones I have aren't infected? Could a vet run a test or anything? I am not looking for babies and have kept my males for a lot longer and have a lot of extra money into them. I am selling them after I get the females bred because I just cant afford to keep them anymore. I was planning on selling the males months ago. I dont want a refund for the same reason. I would prefer to get the 2 healthy adult females that I paid for.
Let me know,
Thanks.
Nicole

~This was sent to Bob June 21, 3003:

It has been 28 days since I last heard from you. I have tried multiple times to get ahold of you but cannot. I paid you in full Dec. 23, 2002. I realize there was time that I asked you to hold the dragons until the weather improved and it was very nice of you to do so. However, I have been trying to get this worked out for months. On May 24, fianlly, you contacted me to apologize for not being able to get through to you and gave me 3 options: get the dragons i paid for that are possibly infected; get refunded; get babies. I emailed you asking further details about the yellow fungus. No reply, and now it is Jun 21.
I have tried to be patient with you, but I am getting angry. I am sorry for your bad luck, but there is no excuse for this. I was going to take one of your options, but since I have gotten no reply for 4 weeks I am not being nice anymore.
I paid for 1 healthy normal female adult dragon and 1 healthy but missing partial limbs red sandfire female 10 month old dragon. It is not my problem that your rescues may have infected my dragons. I do not want babies. If I would have wanted babies I would have bought babies for a much smaller price. I only bought them because I was looking for ADULT FEMALES. I do not want to risk infecting my reptile collection with a fungus, which I'm sure you understand. I do not want a refund...if I was getting a refund I would have gotten it a long time ago and bought myself 2 adult female dragons. It should be your responsibility to get my dragons checked out at the vet at your expense. I realize that vets cost money, but it is not my fault. In the time I have spent waiting I could have babies hatching already. If you are indeed the responsible business that I thought you were when I decided to purchase the dragons you will get MY adult females checked out by a reptile veterinarian, act to fix the problem if necessary, and GET THEM SHIPPED OUT TO ME as soon as you are sure they are HEALTHY.
Please respond to this now before I take further action.

Nicole Gustafson


It has been 6 days since this last message. They have my address, email address, and phone number.

I am going to email right now and tell Bob about this thread so he has equal opportunity to fight back.

Thank you for reading.
Nicole Gustafson
 
Nicole,

If I were you I would take the refund. I don't know about this yellow fungus thing but would you even want to take the risk even if a vet said they were OK.

Also, Bob offered you two options, neither of which included a vet check, its pretty clear that he will not want to pay for that even if that is the route that will make you happy. Then there is the possibility that the two dragons you do want do have the yellow fungus, Then will you wait another 6 months for him to find you some replacements. Personally I wouldn't waste the time to get the vet check done, I would take the offer for a refund and leave it at that. Sell your males and get out of the bearded dragon business like you planned. I know why you want the females instead of the money but at some time I think you have to cut your losses. Of course that is not saying that get your refund any quicker than you would have gotten the dragons.

Steve Schindler
 
I definitely agree with Steve. If this guy is sincere about offering you a refund....TAKE IT AND RUN!!!!!!!

There are a million bearded dragon breeders so there's no reason to deal with this kind of BS. You can be selective about who you purchase your beardeds from.

3 Reasons to take the refund:

1. He's played games and ignored you for 6 months

2. He doesn't quarantine his animals from sick rescues and allows his children to play with animals that are already sold and payed for.

3. If he is in such bad financial shape that he can't afford shipping costs to ship an animal that has already been paid for then he probably can't afford to properly feed or care for his herps.

Take the refund....when you're looking to purchase reptiles as common as bearded dragons there should be no reason you should have to settle.
 
The yellow fungus excuse must be true, and I never fully doubted it. I didnt doubt it at all until I inquired about it several times and got no reply. Thank you for the link to prove it. When a response isn't given for months at a time it just kind of makes you doubt everything that was said a little.

I see what you mean about taking the refund. I'm not sure at this point that I can get anything from Bob. I can't even get an email or a call.

I really liked Bob and read at this very site's BOI a few good words about him before I purchased them. He even stated that he has never had an unhappy customer and never plans to. This confuses me because I want to believe Bob means well and this is just a communication error...

However, customers, especially PAID customers, should not be left in the dark. He should have figured out a way to get through to me a long time ago. Its not that hard.

I would never leave a customer in the dark, whether I had $20 of their's or $200. They deserve to be in the know once the money is transferred. Even a day of no communication if the customer is trying to get through is not good, but I realize stuff happens and everything isnt perfect. But now this is way too much.

If he posted that question about yellow fungus May 8, that is in the time from 4-23 to 5-24 that he said his computer locked and he couldnt get my contact info. Maybe he is using another computer, but if he did a search for me in the kingsnake forums, kingsnake classifieds, or HERE at fauna he could have very easily found my email address-VERY easily.

To some, $200 is not a lot of money, but to me it is a pretty large amount. It took time to save up that much and I try to make careful purchases. That is why I checked the BOI here about Bob and purchased from him over others who I couldnt find a past on, or found a shady one.

As I said, I am sorry about this yellow fungus and that his children played with his and my dragons and infected some of them. I have tried to be understandong and patient as this fungus happened, his wife was in the hospital, his computer crashed, he had to go out of town, his shipping supplies didnt come, he couldnt afford the shipping, etc...

But I deserve to talk to him NOW.

A refund will work...if it is even possible.

Opinions please: how much time should I give Bob to contact me before I notify paypal? I dont want to but I dont know what else to do.

Thank you,
Nicole Gustafson
 
He has been notified of this thread...I will see what (if anythign) happens.

Thanks you.
 
Sorry

I am here to publicly appologize to Nicole for the lack of communication. I have e-mailed her with an offer to settle this, and left it at her discretion and choice whether or not to post it. Communication is a major key in working things out, and for that I am at fault. I have dealt with several people here that use these forums, and have not had any bad business dealings on my part ever. Do a search if need be. I will not make any excuses and am admitting I am at fault for a lack of communication.

I am also not going to get into any pissing matches with anyone else here that has posted, as I have no desire to defend myself against unfounded accusations, as most who know me do know how I care for my animals and what kind of person I am. Nobody on this earth is perfect in every way, all the time, including myself.

I do again admitt to lack of communication, but I will also add again that an offer for a refund and such was made and still stands. To be labeled a "Bad Guy" on this deal in my eyes, was a bit harsh, but so be it. If everyone here was labeled a bad guy for one screw up in their business life, there would'nt be too many good guys left.

Bob
 
Bob,
It's nice to hear from you.
I did do a search in these forums forums for your name before I paid you. I got all good responses, so I went through with the deal. That's why I tried to be patient with you, and I was extremely patient.

If you cannot see why I posted here and why I was afraid of getting ripped off, please read this thread again. I dont know how you could not understand this from my point of view as I have outlined it as neatly as possible.

If you are going to say I was in the wrong to doubt your sincereness after having no dragons or money after over 6 months, fine. I didnt doubt you for a long time even though you repeatedly promised to send them and never did. I still stood by you. On April 23 you emailed me saying you would definitely send them out April 28 and you would let me know. I didnt hear from you for 31 days. Then you apologized and said you were out of town...etc...and you gave me the options. I emailed you May 27 asking more details about what you knew of this yellow fungus. I just heard from you today (June 27; 31 days later) In the time in between I tried to contact you repeatedly and posted a message here asking if anyone had your phone number because I was having trouble getting through to you. No one did, so I took action. I dont see how you can blame me.

Please read through this thread and act as if you are the customer. Ignore your name as the company and see if you wouldnt feel the same way.

In our conversations I felt like you cared for your dragons very well and I dont doubt that and never did. If someone else here did I had nothing to do with it.

I only posted the honest, straightforward truth about our transaction. I did not try to bash you or call you a thief or destroy your reputation- I ONLY WANTED TO TALK TO YOU AS YOU HAD MY MONEY.

I posted 'bad guy' because it wasnt an 'inquiry' (I already did that last week and got no response) and it wasnt a 'good guy' post. People do not judge by the title of the thread- they read it and decide for themselves. All I did was speak the truth. When I receive the refund as well as the 3 babies you offered to me for my time I will post it here and the deal will be closed and fine.

If you are trying to say I was in the wrong to call you a 'bad guy' what do you suppose I should have called you?
If a seller had $200 of your money and you couldnt get through to them by any means and it had been over 6 months, I'm sure you would call them a 'bad guy' too.

I liked you from the start and thats why I didnt want to post here or take further action. But if you cant see my reasoning you must be blind.

The bottom line is that there is no excuse for a lack of communication in this issue when you had my money Dec 23, 2002. I am almost sure I will get the refund and the 3 baby dragons, which I strongly believe will be healthy, high quality babies, promptly, now that I know you are communicating again. I did not doubt you May 24 when you apologized honestly either though. I expected to hear from you quickly and get things figured out.
Now I do believe everything will go smoothly because I really like you as a person and respect you as an experienced, hard working herper. If you didnt get that impression from all my other posts you missed it.

You said you haven't been online much in the past month, and I believe you. I know how it is when things get hectic and luck isnt with you. But, you should have made it a POINT to go online quickly to get our transaction worked out. Its part of the business and MUST be done.

I appreciate your offer of a full refund along with 3 healthy baby dragons that you hatched to compensate for the trouble. I want everyone to know that I do think you care for your dragons well and you PAID money to rescue some sick dragons. That shows you are a good, caring man I am sorry the disease spread to yours and mine also and realize it was beyond your control.

Again, please read the thread and see why I did what I did. I was at a loss and didnt know what to do.

Sincerely,
Nicole Gustafson
 
Nicole,
I did not say I didn't understand why you came here, I am also not blind, I said I thought the bad guy label was a bit harsh. I will also e-mail you this weekend to work out further details and arrange to finish this deal.

To address a few other things said .....

I have been a member here and have posted on these forums since the beginning. I rarely ever jump into a thread I have nothing to do with as well. Some of the people that use these forums ought to practice that as well. I have no problem with someone adding their suggestions and/or comments that would help rectify a problem either. The problem I do have is when people jump into a thread having no idea who they're talking about and/or never having dealings with the person as well, flapping their jaws with a bunch a crap to say, with nothing to back them up, IE gila7150 (Chris Raden) and your comments. The more I read your comments, the more I understand the reasons some people tend to frown upon this site. You know, if you take a few of the 'famous' 20+ page threads here on the BOI and remove crap like you have stated here from them, we'd be amazed how short they would become.

Bob
 
No reason to get sensitive Bob.
Everything I said was based on the facts that Nicole presented as her side of the story.
The only three things I said about your dealings in this transaction as I was "flapping my jaws with a bunch a crap to say" was:

1. "He's played games and ignored you for 6 months"
- Do you dispute this?

2. "He doesn't quarantine his animals from sick rescues and allows his children to play with animals that are already sold and payed for."
- If this wasn't the case, there would be no concern of contamination to her beardies.

3. "If he is in such bad financial shape that he can't afford shipping costs to ship an animal that has already been paid for then he probably can't afford to properly feed or care for his herps."
- I assume this was the one that pissed you off. In your email, you said you could get the beardies out if you could skimp on shipping and send them USPS. I find it confusing that earlier you were concerned about shipping during cold weather but were now willing to ship using USPS, which doesn't even guarantee next day delivery to save a few bucks.
Obviously, I have no idea how you care for your animals so I apologize for this one if I'm off base.

If I was in Nicole's shoes I'd still take the refund but as long as she is satisfied with the outcome, that's all that matters.
 
Nicole said:

When I receive the refund as well as the 3 babies you offered to me for my time I will post it here and the deal will be closed and fine.
and
I am almost sure I will get the refund and the 3 baby dragons, which I strongly believe will be healthy, high quality babies, promptly, now that I know you are communicating again.

Bob said:

As for the dragons you purchased, we can do one of three things. I can ship
you the original ones you puchased, which I am pretty sure they were not
infected by the rescues. I can replace them with babies we just hatched out two
weeks ago, which are from our german male and hypo female, of which I would give
you four or five to compensate you for your troubles. The last thing we could
do is refund you the original puchase price and leave it at that.

Bob offered Nicole three options:

1. The adult females.
2. Replace them with babies plus four or five to compensate for the troubles.
3. refund the original price and “leave it at that”.

Unless there is an e-mail or a conversation we don’t know about, where has Bob offered refund plus 3 baby dragons? Is not that I don’t think Nicole doesn’t deserve them after all she had to wait, missing the breeding season, etc. but you might both as well set this straight up-front. The last thing we all want to read is another “bad guy” post because a simple misunderstanding.

Hope everything works out for the best!
 
Sorry Alvaro, there is a missing email. When Bob emailed me yesterday he offered me a refund and 3 baby dragons to compensate for my troubles. The options he gave me before are not applicable anymore; he said he would EITHER give me a refund before, OR give me 4-5 babies, OR give me my females that he was pretty sure weren't infected. Now, my only option is get a refund AND 3 free babies. My females were infected and have died. Now he has offered to give me a refund AND 3 babies, which is nice of him. I am not sure if I should accept them though as I am afraid they could be infected and spread to my dragons. I in no way think Bob is trying to give me infected babies!! I am just worried it isnt visible yet...I dont know very much about this yellow fungus.

As for this that Bob stated:
The problem I do have is when people jump into a thread having no idea who they're talking about and/or never having dealings with the person as well, flapping their jaws with a bunch a crap to say, with nothing to back them up, IE gila7150 (Chris Raden) and your comments. The more I read your comments, the more I understand the reasons some people tend to frown upon this site.
Bob, I do not know if you are referring to me or Chris or both, but I certainly dont flap my jaws here with a bunch of crap to say. I have never done this and I do not get into issues that dont concern me, unless I think I can be of help. If you are referring to me, please point out what you are talking about. As for Chris, I dont think he said anything out of line either. He was just giving advice based on what I stated. I do not keep up to date on the BOI, so I dont know what else Chris has said or if he has done what you say. I only come here to search for people I'm interested in purchasing from to get information. I dont think Chris was out of line here. Maybe what you said about him is justified...I dont care enough to take the time to look for his other posts.

Anyway, I appreciate your offer and will be relieved when this is done with, as it has been stressing me out for months, worrying about the money and the dragons and having to post on here or contact paypal. That is unnecessary stress. I'm sure you have been stressed over all this enormously also, so I think we will both be happy when it is done.
I am sorry you lost over 20 dragons to this yellow fungus...if I was in your shoes I would be extremely upset. That is just not a reason to ignore me when you had my money. I am truly sorry though and I hope the threat of it is over in your colony and you continue to produce high quality, healthy beardeds.

I am sorry for posting here but I didnt know what else to do. I was not trying to be mean, as I am definitely not that kind of person. The only posts I have here are good guy posts, complimenting people on their good work. Anyone who sees "bad guy" by your name will most likely read this thread to decide for them self, so they will see that the deal had a lack of communication but you had many things going on in your life at the time. You apologized and have learned (hopefully) from yuor mistakes. Just remember I hadnt heard from you and hadnt gotten any dragons for months...I did not know you intended to follow through on your options since I asked several times about them and didnt here from you for over a month. Again, I'm sorry it had to come to this.

Nicole Gustafson
 
just to clarify...

What I said earlier...
Nicole... I wasn'nt referring to you, I was referring to Chris and and a few others in general. I know why you came here, no problems with that. As for the offer I made you, you will definately get your money back. Whether or not you want the babies is your choice. They have been seperated from any others we have, and have also not been messed with by anyone but myself. To the best of my knowledge, they are fine. They will be ready to ship in about two weeks or so when they are bigger, so the choice is yours.

To Chris... Yes I was offended by your comments. You have no idea of who I am or how I care for animals. I have been an animal person all my life. My mother bred and raised champion pedigreed dogs for all of our childhood, many breeds. We had a small farmette growing up with cows, goats, chickens, rabbits, and so forth. Up untill two or so years ago, we had over 16+ parrots of which we also bred and raised. My children also have been around pets all of their short lives, owning pet rats, snakes, hamsters, frogs, lizards, rabbits, ferrets, sugar gliders, and many others. Some of these animals were short term pets as they were rescues, with many dollars and hours out of our lives for the animals well-being. In my life, I personally go without many luxuries for myself to be able to afford to do what we do do for our animals. So, yes, you comments were very offensive to me.
As for .........
"1. "He's played games and ignored you for 6 months"
- Do you dispute this?"

Yes, I definately dispute that as the communication was very constant through all but the last two months or so. In the beginning and mostly up untill my problems began, e-mails were sent back and forth sometimes several times per week. I think Nicole can verify this.

And for this.........

" In your email, you said you could get the beardies out if you could skimp on shipping and send them USPS."

I was adimant from the get go on shipping through UPS, not the post office. When the statement about shipping through USPS was made, I said myself I didn't want to, but was leaving the choice for Nicole to make. I do spend the extra money to ship through UPS as I would rather not risk an animal for another 10 or 20 bucks in shipping. I will go back and see if I can find the e-mail to see exactly what was said.

As for this....

2. "He doesn't quarantine his animals from sick rescues and allows his children to play with animals that are already sold and payed for."


I do my best to keep animals quarentined, but my kids are not on leashes and they are allowed thoughout my house. I am a hobby breeder as many here are. My animals are housed in a seperate part of my basement set up just for our animals. My children are 9, 10, and 13 years old and do for the most part know the rules that have been laid out for our animals. They are kids, just like any others, and are not perfect in every way. When I feed, clean, and handle my animals, sometimes they help/or are with me and mistakes can and will be made. We are human, we all make mistakes right?

So yes, I took great offense to your comments. They are your opinions, which I respect, and I am also entitled to mine. After reading these forums for a few years and seeing all the unnesecary comments and slams that turn into flame wars, one tends to be a bit defensive. I am dealing with this in the best way I see fit, as I have never dealt with it in the past. I am self employed in the construction industry and have been for almost ten years. I have been breeding and selling reptiles for a few years, have bred and sold many parrots in the past, and my behavior in this deal was by far anything from normal. As I said before and will say again, we are all humans and none of us are against making mistakes. I have also always prided myself with my communication skills, and tried to help others with such. We will all reach a point in our lives at some time or another when we don't make the right decision or communicate as we should. I reached that point with many unforseen happening at once and have learned and grown from my mistake.

Bob


By the way Chris, if you feel you really need to know what I was going through, send me an e-mail and just ask, as I really don't feel I need to post it here.
 
You don't owe me any explanation of problems in your personal life. I was offering advice to Nicole on how I would personally handle the situation based on her side of the story. At the time, she was having difficulty communicating with you.

Like I said, I may have been way off base on my comments and if I was I apologize. I see a lot of bad guy threads on here with similar stories so I definitely may have jumped the gun on this one.

You're correct, we all make mistakes. Most people on here (including myself) will judge you on how you work to correct this problem. So far, it sounds like you are more than willing to resolve this situation and take care of Nicole. I hope you two are able to work out an agreement that satisfies you both.
 
My two cents!!!

Well I have had numerous transactions with Bob, and have had a great experience every time. he really is a great guy, with awesome animals. Everyone has there problems now and then, and Bob has had his fair share, but he is a great guy and has some beautiful animals.

Keep your head up Bob, I still love ya, and think the world of you!!

This can be worked out without ruining anyones reputation!!!

You can't please everyone all the time!!! And like they say.........S**t happens!!!
 
I take back my apologies...

I am Nicole Gustafson-my old name on here was CoalsCBCreation.

Nearly a year ago Bob took my $200 for the female dragons that died in his care. I tried to contact him numerous times but no response came. In June, I posted on here and he popped up and we settled on a deal. He was to refund my money and give me 3 baby dragons for the time I spent waiting and the money I put into my others, which I was selling after I bred to the females (that died.) I wanted to have babies. . .well that wasnt possible so I was going to sell them all, including the 3 he gave me, as a group with my cages and supplies. Check out the rest of the thread for details.

Well, I waited and waited, but the babies I never got- and a response never came either. I have been emailing Bob to ask his position and what the problem is, but he will not answer my emails. Once again, he breaks his promise.

Bob owes me $200 - - - a lot of money to me. He also owes me 3 baby hypo dragons, but I obviously am not going to get those as they are long gone by now I'm sure, off in their new homes. It looks as if I may not be getting my refund either. He said the babies would be one more week, then one more, etc...so I saved my other dragons to sell with them because I was expecting them. Well, now I have a LOT more money into them and I am very ANGRY.

PLEASE, If anyone can help me to find his address and phone number it would be greatly appreciated.
I know some of you came forward and said you know Bob and he is a good guy. To you maybe he is, but please put yourself in my shoes. For Christmas this year I was going to get my 5 year old a pair of ice skates and have been saving up to pay for the skating lessons she wants so badly. I was counting on that money to help fund the lessons. I go to college full time and work part time, so there is hardly any spare cash. Please help me find him. It isn't right to steal a 5 year old's dreams.

Thank you,
Nicole
 

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