Wow. To read all of this blows me away. Those pictures are beyond upsetting to me, and I can't imagine how Harry and Brenda have let this get so out of disgustingly out of control.
I used to talk to Harry quite frequently, I modded on his forums, I've been to his "house", and I even bought a snake from him. Keep in mind the snake I bought is nowhere near what he was sold as genetically, but I am happy with him none the less, so I will consider myself lucky that I was only overcharged.
Harry and I got along pretty well since we had a few similar interests (snakes, pc's, and bikes) and in all the conversations I had with him, (in person, on the phone, and on the internet) he always came across as a guy who genuinely loved his animals. I can honestly say I would have never expected THIS from him. I knew he was a narcissist, right off the bat, but I was drawn in by the love him and his wife seemed to have for their animals.
When he invited my girlfriend and I to come to one of his little parties I looked him up. It's amazing what you can find on the internet if you know where to look. I found out that he has gone by a couple different names, he's originally from Chicago, he got in trouble as a kid, it appeared there was some issues with drugs, fighting, and armed robbery, but many many years ago, some of this I believe was covered up by Harrys father (this is also supported by a conversation I had with Harry after a few drinks). I found out he was a video game dealer (obvious to anyone who has seen his collection) and a quick look on some forums showed that he burned his bridge there by scamming some people. The I found Ozark Herps, which I wasn't sure was him until he told me how him and Brenda used to deal with a lot of Burms and Boas which pretty much confirmed it for me, and I knew he started monster snakes and he kicked up a whole bunch of bad relations with all the other players in the game, mostly due to what I guessed to be issues with his ego. To be perfectly honest though, I was willing to let it all go (not forget) because he seemed to genuinely love the animals. And when I was at his house, I never saw anything like what these pictures show.
They had a lot of animals to care for, but since neither of them work, it didn't seem to be an unreasonable task. They live in a BF Egypt part of Yellville Arkansas, a part of the country where the cost of living is nothing, and from what I understand, his mom owned the property. It seemed plausible that a guy selling high end snakes could support himself , and he certainly had all the toys to make it seem like money was flowing.
I watched Harry burn through a whole bunch of people in the time i was friends with him, and i always knew a falling out would happen, but honestly it lasted longer than i thought. I watched him basically make himself out to be hero to the hobby against everyone. Granted, some of the people he has grievances with I do believe are trash, and warranted the bashing, but he is at the top of that list now as far as I'm concerned. Towards the end I was starting to get fed up, mostly because i felt the transition to the facebook account dimmished the value of the information given to help people (since the knowledgeable posts get buried in shit so fast on facebook, and the organization of info is horrid). But the other part i didn't like was that about half of the mod group believed he was a egotistical narcissist, and the other half believed he was god. People like Court and Angel would mindlessly parrot anything he said, and answer all questions with "ask Harry (as if no one else on the planet knows anything)", Court (who thrives on this drama just as much as he does) became a retic expert over night, and helped build Harrys ego up to a new high. I was kind of done, i missed the forums, but i still love the animals and wanted to be a part of the hobby and helping people.
Earlier, Harry had introduced me to Eric at Sentec, and I had purchased three cages from him while him and Harry were "partners". Later on, just like everyone else, Harry burned that bridge and declared Eric a bad guy. Well i like Eric, and i like his cages, and with growing snakes i needed another cage (and another one soon). When Harry found out that i purchased an additional matching cage from Eric, he branded me SCUM and told me i lined the pockets of his enemies. That was it for me, i bounced out of that group, blocked them all and eventually deleted facebook altogether (never happier). No need for any drama.
To see this now would be funny it's so ironic, except that i care for those animals and am infuriated about how they are being cared for (if they are even alive anymore). I looked up his Youtube and he is still posting away out of that weird little "house" like nobody's business. I am ashamed to say I knew him and more ashamed to say that were any sort of friends.
-Ren Paolino