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Great Thread guys!
Griz, your wife sounds like a very lucky lady. It is also comforting to know that there are still folks out there with morals and ethics.
Yes, I have been cheated on..My husband of six years decided that "the grass was greener" on the other side and started to have an affair. He ended up leaving me for the woman he was having the affair with.
I was willing to forgive him and wanted to stay married to him. Infact, I begged and pleaded with him. He left anyway. When I stood up in front of God and my family and friends and made the vow and promise that I would love and be with this man the rest of my life, till death do us part, I MEANT IT! Obviously, his promise was only until something better comes along.
I prayed to God everyday for help. Several times I sat in the church praying and crying, when the chuch was closed, I would sit in the church parking lot and do the same thing. It truly felt like the end of the world. I just wanted to lay down and die. I just could not imagine my life without him. I wanted to keep my husband and our marriage together just like I had pictured in my little "fantasy world"..you know, the house with the picket fence and they lived happily ever after..blah, blah , blah..
Our family and friends were stunned. He denied that he was having an affair, but would never give a reason as to why he wanted a divorce. NEVER!
5 Years later, he married her. I am still single.
This year, it will be six years since our divorce. I am still not over it.
What is so sad about the whole thing is that every other man I meet has to pay for what my ex husband did to me. I swore that I would not be bitter but that is easier said than done. I gave my heart away and now I can not get it back. He still has it.
So, to answer the question at hand, No , I would never cheat, don't believe in it..it is not worth it and the grass is not greener on the other side. I also could never live with myself by doing to another human being what my ex husband did to me.
On a lighter note, Anyone want any great tips on how to catch someone cheating??? are you suspicious??..shoot me an email...I have a whole bag of tricks..I missed my true calling. I should have been a P.I.
Griz, your wife sounds like a very lucky lady. It is also comforting to know that there are still folks out there with morals and ethics.
Yes, I have been cheated on..My husband of six years decided that "the grass was greener" on the other side and started to have an affair. He ended up leaving me for the woman he was having the affair with.
I was willing to forgive him and wanted to stay married to him. Infact, I begged and pleaded with him. He left anyway. When I stood up in front of God and my family and friends and made the vow and promise that I would love and be with this man the rest of my life, till death do us part, I MEANT IT! Obviously, his promise was only until something better comes along.
I prayed to God everyday for help. Several times I sat in the church praying and crying, when the chuch was closed, I would sit in the church parking lot and do the same thing. It truly felt like the end of the world. I just wanted to lay down and die. I just could not imagine my life without him. I wanted to keep my husband and our marriage together just like I had pictured in my little "fantasy world"..you know, the house with the picket fence and they lived happily ever after..blah, blah , blah..
Our family and friends were stunned. He denied that he was having an affair, but would never give a reason as to why he wanted a divorce. NEVER!
5 Years later, he married her. I am still single.
This year, it will be six years since our divorce. I am still not over it.
What is so sad about the whole thing is that every other man I meet has to pay for what my ex husband did to me. I swore that I would not be bitter but that is easier said than done. I gave my heart away and now I can not get it back. He still has it.
So, to answer the question at hand, No , I would never cheat, don't believe in it..it is not worth it and the grass is not greener on the other side. I also could never live with myself by doing to another human being what my ex husband did to me.
On a lighter note, Anyone want any great tips on how to catch someone cheating??? are you suspicious??..shoot me an email...I have a whole bag of tricks..I missed my true calling. I should have been a P.I.
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