HER DIARY:
Tonight: I thought my husband was
acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was
shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the
fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation
wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could
talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong; he
said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was my fault that he was up set. He
said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to
worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He
smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't
know why he didn't say, "I love you, too." When we got home, I felt as
if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me
anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to
seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided
to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise,
he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he
was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep -
I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are
with someone else. My life is a disaster.
HIS DIARY:
Missed a big deer today, but at least I got laid.
Tonight: I thought my husband was
acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was
shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the
fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation
wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could
talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong; he
said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was my fault that he was up set. He
said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to
worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He
smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't
know why he didn't say, "I love you, too." When we got home, I felt as
if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me
anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to
seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided
to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise,
he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he
was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep -
I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are
with someone else. My life is a disaster.
HIS DIARY:
Missed a big deer today, but at least I got laid.
