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High End Herps (Inquiry)
- Thread starter TailsWithScales
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AngryEd
Old Schools Burms
crotalusadamanteus said:
That, my friend, is one of the better descriptions of anything I've ever read! Personally, I'm trying to figure out why Yoko Ono is holding a retic.
KelliH
doesn't drink the koolaid
How dare you insult Yoko like that!
kmurphy
New member
There's an odd line just above the snake on her blouse, like a poor doctoring job. Also the snake tapers rather abruptly before it goes behind her arm.
There's also no shadows on her blouse, or leg, to correspond with the ones behind her.
There's also no shadows on her blouse, or leg, to correspond with the ones behind her.
liquidleaf
New member
Well, a strong flash can produce shadows like the heavy one right behind her. Not so sure it looks doctored, just a poor photo of a not-so-hot subject... but she could probably use some photo-doctoring... heh.
BenR
Member
Like others have said the hair looks like a wig and the glasses look like sunglasses which is strange since she is indoors. She is also not looking a the camera which could also be to hide her face. Most people when having their picture taken even with an animal would be looking at the camera and smiling like they are enjoying the moment. The shirt she is wearing seems like an odd choice to me too. She is wearing short shorts, and then a shirt with long sleaves.
All in all it looks like she is going out of her way not to let you see too much of her, and to even misslead you as to what she actually looks like.
All in all it looks like she is going out of her way not to let you see too much of her, and to even misslead you as to what she actually looks like.
HerpVenue
New member
Well what I was trying to say is her hair is dirty blonde to light brown.
Not that BLACK mop you see there.
Why is he trying to hide her identity so hard?
I do not see any of the other "big breeders" try to hide so hard.
Not that BLACK mop you see there.
Why is he trying to hide her identity so hard?
I do not see any of the other "big breeders" try to hide so hard.
BenR
Member
Ritchie Luna said:
I know it would be hard to tell, but the picture he posted of the girl with the alblino granite over her fact look like the same person? In that pic you can see her hair and it looks sort of dirty blonde.
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Ritchie Luna said:
If he was trying to hide her identity why would we see black hair in this photo below? I mean, it doesn't show her face, just a few locks of black hair. It just doesnt make sense.
I understand it may appear she is wearing a wig in the photo that you posted but, why would she be wearing it in a photo in which her face cannot even clearly be seen? It doesn't appear to me that she is hiding her identity at all.
Zoom in on the photo and you'll see the same black hair.
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HerpVenue
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beats me.
bad dye job. bad wig.
I just see two people who are trying desparately hard to hide themselves.
bad dye job. bad wig.
I just see two people who are trying desparately hard to hide themselves.
Spiritualosophy
Window Shopping For Now
Well, when I was first directed to the photo of "Tawni" holding the snake in the pink button-up shit and posted a little while back as to whether she resembled Brittany at all, I didn't look close enough to notice the wig or bad dye job. (My mom, and several other family members, had cancer & chemo, so I've seen a LOT of wigs; if that isn't a wig, then that woman's hair is in really bad shape and should be cut short again like Brittany's hair used to be.) Looks like a wig to me, more so than a dye job. But that's neither here nor there; it's still "faked out" for want of better words.
Brittany was skinny with short, "dirty" blonde hair, and her height was right at 5'4". And cute; pretty adorable actually. But with the glasses and the tilt of the head, once again features can't be seen. I will say, Brittany was very active with the animals and in general, so I could easily visualize bruises on her legs and "chewed up" hands (was that how it was stated?). When I grew up on farms, my hands were a lot like that.
Doesn't matter, either way that photo is most definitely someone disguised.
No bout adout it.
And it still makes more sense to me that "Tawni" would be Brittany.
Ritchie, I don't know with whom you've corresponded/spoken, but I have a little idea as to whom T M Beauchemin in Highland, CA is. And it wouldn't be Brittany. (She'd been too young to be listed anyhow, and once she was 18 she moved into Damon's house, where all the utilities were already in his name. Would make sense to me that there'd be no easy-to-find record of the existence of Brittany, even if I had known her last name.)
See, Brittany's mom and Damon were friends and that's how he met Brittany. She was underage then. When Damon brought her to my house and announced he, a grown man in his mid-thirties, was engaged to an eighteen-year-old girl, of course we all sat around and visited. Turned out that they'd "had an interest" in each other for quite a while, BUT they "waited till she was of age" before getting involved. Whether the "waiting" was true or not doesn't matter at this point.... what matters at this moment is that Brittany's mom was Damon's friend.
Perhaps Mommy, or another female relative of Brittany's, is letting them use her name? Or they could be using it without her knowledge. <shrugs>
And that does look like an Adam's apple in that particular shot. When I spotted it last night and pointed it out to Hubby, he immediately agreed with my statement that either that's an Adam's apple or else a trick of light. He didn't think it was a trick of light, but agreed that it could be.
~~ Kat ~~
Brittany was skinny with short, "dirty" blonde hair, and her height was right at 5'4". And cute; pretty adorable actually. But with the glasses and the tilt of the head, once again features can't be seen. I will say, Brittany was very active with the animals and in general, so I could easily visualize bruises on her legs and "chewed up" hands (was that how it was stated?). When I grew up on farms, my hands were a lot like that.
Doesn't matter, either way that photo is most definitely someone disguised.
No bout adout it.
And it still makes more sense to me that "Tawni" would be Brittany.
Ritchie, I don't know with whom you've corresponded/spoken, but I have a little idea as to whom T M Beauchemin in Highland, CA is. And it wouldn't be Brittany. (She'd been too young to be listed anyhow, and once she was 18 she moved into Damon's house, where all the utilities were already in his name. Would make sense to me that there'd be no easy-to-find record of the existence of Brittany, even if I had known her last name.)
See, Brittany's mom and Damon were friends and that's how he met Brittany. She was underage then. When Damon brought her to my house and announced he, a grown man in his mid-thirties, was engaged to an eighteen-year-old girl, of course we all sat around and visited. Turned out that they'd "had an interest" in each other for quite a while, BUT they "waited till she was of age" before getting involved. Whether the "waiting" was true or not doesn't matter at this point.... what matters at this moment is that Brittany's mom was Damon's friend.
Perhaps Mommy, or another female relative of Brittany's, is letting them use her name? Or they could be using it without her knowledge. <shrugs>
And that does look like an Adam's apple in that particular shot. When I spotted it last night and pointed it out to Hubby, he immediately agreed with my statement that either that's an Adam's apple or else a trick of light. He didn't think it was a trick of light, but agreed that it could be.
~~ Kat ~~
Spiritualosophy
Window Shopping For Now
Oh and "David".... before you start your "she's just a gilted woman" hyperbole again....
When Damon and his new fiance Brittany came to my house, they sat and visited with myself and my fiance, with whom I was and still am quite happy. I wasn't in love with you, I was in love with my husband. So get over yourself already.
When Damon and his new fiance Brittany came to my house, they sat and visited with myself and my fiance, with whom I was and still am quite happy. I wasn't in love with you, I was in love with my husband. So get over yourself already.
HerpVenue
New member
Well they said all we had to do was pick up the phone or e-mail or pm and they would answer questions. As long as we asked politely.
They said that it never happened.
Funny thing is I asked politely way back in page 10
here it is page 267 and they have not answered a simple question of what state they filed their articles of incorporation in.
If you are a member of other forums.... please spread the word.
I am looking for anyone who has done business with HEH David Beauchemin since BEFORE 2003. They have been in business for THREE (3) decades.
Surely someone out there somewhere would hav done business with them since befroe 2003.
This site has 43,007 members. Add that to the membership of other sites.
We should be able to find someone somewhere.
I was a little itty bitty hobby. I can easily get 1 or 2 people to come and post that they did business with me between 2002 - 2003
They are big time breeders.... they should not have a problem getting one person to post who has done business with them before 2003
They said that it never happened.
Funny thing is I asked politely way back in page 10
here it is page 267 and they have not answered a simple question of what state they filed their articles of incorporation in.
If you are a member of other forums.... please spread the word.
I am looking for anyone who has done business with HEH David Beauchemin since BEFORE 2003. They have been in business for THREE (3) decades.
Surely someone out there somewhere would hav done business with them since befroe 2003.
This site has 43,007 members. Add that to the membership of other sites.
We should be able to find someone somewhere.
I was a little itty bitty hobby. I can easily get 1 or 2 people to come and post that they did business with me between 2002 - 2003
They are big time breeders.... they should not have a problem getting one person to post who has done business with them before 2003
Spiritualosophy
Window Shopping For Now
(1.) Cover all tracks possible, just in case her face were to show up in a photo unintentionally.critical bill said:
(2.) Even knowing her face wouldn't show up: keep up the "image" at all times.
(3.) Paranoia.... refer back to #1.
All I know is that if I were in hiding, I would take all precautions in making sure that I remain hidden. That would mean that if I wear a wig in all photos that will be publicly posted, I would always wear that wig in front of the camera.... not only just in case my face were to show up by accident, but also so that that hair I'm known for in my other photos show up falling over my arms is there.
Being a vocalist/performer, I look different on stage than at home: dressed sexy without crossing over to trashy, makeup, certain social skills I don't normally use, etc.; an image. At home, I rarely ever put war paint on my face, I wear clothes for comfort rather than style (not that I dress like a slob! lol), I don't need to be "nice" to people I don't like, etc.; I don't need to keep up my image at home.
My "image" is only for my job, something I can safely slip out of when I'm done working without fear of being discovered for who/what I really am. My regular customers know that I don't walk around looking spruced up like that all the time, but they would be shocked if I showed up on stage with no makeup and grungy clothing. That wouldn't be my performing image, and they'd likely worry that I'm having another relapse and am very ill again, only there because I need the money or the "fix" from performing, and didn't have the energy to make up my image before showing up. (I know they would too, they always ask about my health and they can see from just looking at me that I'm in more pain tonight than I was last time I performed here.)
If that is a wig rather than a slop job of dye, it would make perfect sense to me that they would be keeping up the image of what they've shown of themselves at all times that could even possibly end up in public.
CYA and all that jazz.
~~ Kat ~~
Serafim
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Kathryn
Did Damon have any kids or have a partner? On the website there is a mention of someone named cole that is directly related to David and Tawni. Any Guesses. I would also like to show everyone the the type of idiot David is. Look on his feedback forum and look at post #5 There is a mention of someone getting an IBD infected snake. Read the whole post and look closesly at the name that is edited. Doesn't take a brainiac to see the accusations that are being made. He truely is a fine upstanding member of the herp community isn't he. Trash pure trash.
Did Damon have any kids or have a partner? On the website there is a mention of someone named cole that is directly related to David and Tawni. Any Guesses. I would also like to show everyone the the type of idiot David is. Look on his feedback forum and look at post #5 There is a mention of someone getting an IBD infected snake. Read the whole post and look closesly at the name that is edited. Doesn't take a brainiac to see the accusations that are being made. He truely is a fine upstanding member of the herp community isn't he. Trash pure trash.
ravensgait
Convoluted Member
I read through a few of them and they all read like they were written by the same person, not a real surprise in that ...Randy
HerpVenue
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Being a corporation is SERIOUS Business.
You can't just wake up one day and start calling yourself an INC.
That is why all 50 states make their databases accessible to the general public
Posing as a corporation is a very big no no
as of Today 10/17/07 High end Herps does NOT exist as a corporation in any of the 50 States.
In one state HEH inc does exist. But they are not even close to dealing with reptiles. and they are owned by completely different people.
Beauchemin is NOT an owner of a corporation in ANY of the fifty (50) states.
If you doubt me, I have provided the links to all 50 State's databases below.
Search them yourself if you do not believe me.
Alabama - http://www.sos.state.al.us/sosinfo/inquiry.cfm
Alaska - https://myalaska.state.ak.us/business/soskb/csearch.asp
Arizona - http://www.azcc.gov/divisions/corporations/
Arkansas - http://www.sos.arkansas.gov/corps/search_all.php
California - http://kepler.ss.ca.gov/list.html
Colorado - http://www.sos.state.co.us/biz/BusinessEntityCriteriaExt.do
Connecticut - http://www.concord-sots.ct.gov/CONCORD/online?sn=InquiryServlet&eid=99
Delaware - https://sos-res.state.de.us/tin/GINameSearch.jsp
Florida - http://ccfcorp.dos.state.fl.us/corp...ry/corinam.html
Georgia - http://www.ganet.org/services/corp/individual.html
Hawaii - http://hbe.ehawaii.gov/cogs/search.html
Idaho - http://www.accessidaho.org/public/sos/corp/search.html?ScriptForm.startstep=crit
Illinois - http://www.ilsos.gov/corporatellc/
Indiana - https://secure.in.gov/sos/bus_service/online_corps/name_search.aspx
Iowa - http://www.sos.state.ia.us/Search/corp/corp_search.asp
kansas - http://www.accesskansas.org/srv-corporations/search.do
Kentucky - http://apps.sos.ky.gov/business/obdb/default.aspx
Louisiana - http://www400.sos.louisiana.gov/app1/paygate/crpinq.jsp
Maine - https://icrs.informe.org/nei-sos-icrs/ICRS
Maryland - http://sdatcert3.resiusa.org/UCC-Charter/CharterSearch_f.aspx
Massachusetts - http://corp.sec.state.ma.us/corp/corpsearch/corpsearchinput.asp
Michigan - http://www.dleg.state.mi.us/bcs_corp/sr_corp.asp
Minnesota - http://da.sos.state.mn.us/minnesota/corp_inquiry-find.asp?:Norder_item_type_id=10
Mississippi - http://www.sos.state.ms.us/busserv/...skb/csearch.asp
Missouri - https://www.sos.mo.gov/BusinessEntity/soskb/csearch.asp
Montana - https://app.mt.gov/bes/
Nebraska - https://www.nol.org/sos/corp/corpsearch.cgi?nav=search
Nevada - https://esos.state.nv.us/SOSServices/AnonymousAccess/CorpSearch/CorpSearch.aspx
New Hampshire - https://www.sos.nh.gov/corporate/soskb/csearch.asp
New Jersey - https://accessnet.state.nj.us/gatewaywatchnamesearch.asp
New Mexico - http://www.nmprc.state.nm.us/cii.htm
New York - http://appsext8.dos.state.ny.us/corp_public/corpsearch.entity_search_entry
North Carolina - http://www.secretary.state.nc.us/corporations/CSearch.aspx
North Dakota - https://secure.apps.state.nd.us/sc/busnsrch/busnSearch.htm
Nevada - https://esos.state.nv.us/SOSService...CorpSearch.aspx
Ohio - http://www2.sos.state.oh.us/pls/portal/PORTAL_BS.BS_QRY_BUS_INFORMATION1.SHOW_PARMS
Oklahoma - https://www.sooneraccess.state.ok.us/home/home-default.asp
Oregon - http://egov.sos.state.or.us/br/pkg_web_name_srch_inq.login
Pennsylvania - http://www.dos.state.pa.us/corps/site/default.asp
Rhode island - http://ucc.state.ri.us/CorpSearch/CorpSearchInput.asp
South Carolina - http://www.scsos.com/corp_search.htm
South Dakota - http://www.state.sd.us/applications/st02corplook/ASPX/ST32Main.aspx
Tennessee - http://www.tennesseeanytime.org/soscorp/
Texas - http://ecpa.cpa.state.tx.us/coa/Index.html
Utah - https://secure.utah.gov/bes/action/index
Vermont - http://www.sec.state.vt.us/seek/corpbrow.htm
Virginia - http://www.knowx.com/virginia/virginia-corporate-records.jsp
Washington - http://www.secstate.wa.gov/corps/
West Virginia - http://www.wvsos.com/wvcorporations/
Wisconsin - http://www.wdfi.org/apps/CorpSearch/Search.aspx?
Wyoming - https://wyobiz.wy.gov/
You can't just wake up one day and start calling yourself an INC.
That is why all 50 states make their databases accessible to the general public
Posing as a corporation is a very big no no
as of Today 10/17/07 High end Herps does NOT exist as a corporation in any of the 50 States.
In one state HEH inc does exist. But they are not even close to dealing with reptiles. and they are owned by completely different people.
Beauchemin is NOT an owner of a corporation in ANY of the fifty (50) states.
If you doubt me, I have provided the links to all 50 State's databases below.
Search them yourself if you do not believe me.
Alabama - http://www.sos.state.al.us/sosinfo/inquiry.cfm
Alaska - https://myalaska.state.ak.us/business/soskb/csearch.asp
Arizona - http://www.azcc.gov/divisions/corporations/
Arkansas - http://www.sos.arkansas.gov/corps/search_all.php
California - http://kepler.ss.ca.gov/list.html
Colorado - http://www.sos.state.co.us/biz/BusinessEntityCriteriaExt.do
Connecticut - http://www.concord-sots.ct.gov/CONCORD/online?sn=InquiryServlet&eid=99
Delaware - https://sos-res.state.de.us/tin/GINameSearch.jsp
Florida - http://ccfcorp.dos.state.fl.us/corp...ry/corinam.html
Georgia - http://www.ganet.org/services/corp/individual.html
Hawaii - http://hbe.ehawaii.gov/cogs/search.html
Idaho - http://www.accessidaho.org/public/sos/corp/search.html?ScriptForm.startstep=crit
Illinois - http://www.ilsos.gov/corporatellc/
Indiana - https://secure.in.gov/sos/bus_service/online_corps/name_search.aspx
Iowa - http://www.sos.state.ia.us/Search/corp/corp_search.asp
kansas - http://www.accesskansas.org/srv-corporations/search.do
Kentucky - http://apps.sos.ky.gov/business/obdb/default.aspx
Louisiana - http://www400.sos.louisiana.gov/app1/paygate/crpinq.jsp
Maine - https://icrs.informe.org/nei-sos-icrs/ICRS
Maryland - http://sdatcert3.resiusa.org/UCC-Charter/CharterSearch_f.aspx
Massachusetts - http://corp.sec.state.ma.us/corp/corpsearch/corpsearchinput.asp
Michigan - http://www.dleg.state.mi.us/bcs_corp/sr_corp.asp
Minnesota - http://da.sos.state.mn.us/minnesota/corp_inquiry-find.asp?:Norder_item_type_id=10
Mississippi - http://www.sos.state.ms.us/busserv/...skb/csearch.asp
Missouri - https://www.sos.mo.gov/BusinessEntity/soskb/csearch.asp
Montana - https://app.mt.gov/bes/
Nebraska - https://www.nol.org/sos/corp/corpsearch.cgi?nav=search
Nevada - https://esos.state.nv.us/SOSServices/AnonymousAccess/CorpSearch/CorpSearch.aspx
New Hampshire - https://www.sos.nh.gov/corporate/soskb/csearch.asp
New Jersey - https://accessnet.state.nj.us/gatewaywatchnamesearch.asp
New Mexico - http://www.nmprc.state.nm.us/cii.htm
New York - http://appsext8.dos.state.ny.us/corp_public/corpsearch.entity_search_entry
North Carolina - http://www.secretary.state.nc.us/corporations/CSearch.aspx
North Dakota - https://secure.apps.state.nd.us/sc/busnsrch/busnSearch.htm
Nevada - https://esos.state.nv.us/SOSService...CorpSearch.aspx
Ohio - http://www2.sos.state.oh.us/pls/portal/PORTAL_BS.BS_QRY_BUS_INFORMATION1.SHOW_PARMS
Oklahoma - https://www.sooneraccess.state.ok.us/home/home-default.asp
Oregon - http://egov.sos.state.or.us/br/pkg_web_name_srch_inq.login
Pennsylvania - http://www.dos.state.pa.us/corps/site/default.asp
Rhode island - http://ucc.state.ri.us/CorpSearch/CorpSearchInput.asp
South Carolina - http://www.scsos.com/corp_search.htm
South Dakota - http://www.state.sd.us/applications/st02corplook/ASPX/ST32Main.aspx
Tennessee - http://www.tennesseeanytime.org/soscorp/
Texas - http://ecpa.cpa.state.tx.us/coa/Index.html
Utah - https://secure.utah.gov/bes/action/index
Vermont - http://www.sec.state.vt.us/seek/corpbrow.htm
Virginia - http://www.knowx.com/virginia/virginia-corporate-records.jsp
Washington - http://www.secstate.wa.gov/corps/
West Virginia - http://www.wvsos.com/wvcorporations/
Wisconsin - http://www.wdfi.org/apps/CorpSearch/Search.aspx?
Wyoming - https://wyobiz.wy.gov/
BenR
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Serafim said:
That feedback showed up right after he had a problem on the BC forums. He wanted Bob Clark to delete some of the things being said about him and Bob wouldn't do it. I like how he tries to hide Bobs name at first, but then leaves "Bob" in later on in the same message...lol
As far as the kid on his site I really don't think that is his kid. who knows who's kid that is. It wouldn't be that hard to get someone elses child to pose with his snakes and then go online and say it is his kid. Also, I believe Dave Lawson knew someone that lived by Damon and they said they only knew about a women and "David" living there, no child.
ssmith_1187
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Ritchie...I'm a little disappointed in you.
Look at his website...it's "High End Herps Inc"...no comma, no period. Clearly he's not trying to pass himself off as a corporation. The "Inc" stands for 'Inc'omplete Page...what you find on the bottom of most of his website pages.
Regards,
Steve
Spiritualosophy
Window Shopping For Now
Hi John,
I covered that earlier, but there've been a lot of posts since then. Hard to keep track, eh?
Damon didn't have any kids when I still knew him. However, I've seen some photos of the boy referred to as Cole, and he resembles Damon more than enough to believe that Cole could most definitely be Damon's biological child. I last saw Damon five years ago though, which is approx. the age of Cole according to his appearance in the photos. In order for this "Cole" to be Damon's biological child, Brittany would have to have either been pregnant already when I last saw them, or else not too long thereafter. You simply can't mess with Mother Nature when it comes to a child's age and when the mother could possibly have been pregnant with him/her.
Damon never had a "partner" RE: his animals in the years that I knew him; he was quite the loner. He supposedly had a partner in crime, and also tried to convince me to be an accessory to his crimes; but his partner in crime had nothing to do with his animals. He never had any animal business during the years that I knew him.
Once he was romantically involved with Brittany, I'd say that yes, she became his partner; they both had full intentions of her taking just as much care of them, and if anything happened to Damon then Brittany would be the one to take over with the animals. (Gators and some dogs at the time, mostly.) Brittany was very "into" the animals, and it was genuine. So long as Damon and Brittany were engaged/married, there's no doubt that she would be his partner.
Before Damon got engaged to Brittany, he'd asked me how I'd feel about a marriage in name only, to him of course.... we'd live together as roommates / best friends (yes, we really did have a platonic relationship, lol), but have an "open" marriage, as he wanted to feel secure in knowing that if anything happened to him, his gators would go to me and be taken care of. I told him no way I'd have a marriage in name only, that if I ever got married again it would be for romantic love, not my love for a friend. So what about just drawing up a will? Nope, that wasn't legally binding enough for him, a will could be contested when the beneficiary isn't his wife. Needless to say, had I wanted an arrangement like that, then it would be me that would be his partner today.... except I'd have left and divorced him the minute he ran from the law in AZ, as I refuse to live a life in hiding. Much less a life of all the lies that come with that. No, thank you!
ANYHOOO.... I read that "feedback forum" post you referred to. It's quite clear as to whose name was "edited" from that post, no bout adout it.
I put "feedback forum" into quotes for a reason.... that is NOT a forum, it's only alleged emails that anyone could put up there.
So his customers use the word "pristine" RE: the "facilities" as well? Interesting.
Also, the running on and on and on by another "feedback post" about how great his wife is for standing by his side and helping him. Uh, that's what spouses are supposed to do: stand by, support, help out.... or get out. It's not a bloody miracle, it's the reason a marriage is so often referred to as a partnership! Sure, I feel like the luckiest woman in the world that my hubby has stood by me not only RE: goals, but further dealing with my being chronically ill and all that goes with it, including taking on a lot of the household "duties" after he gets home from work and even physically caring for me when I've had surgeries or am simply in too much pain to function (he's an XRay tech, MA, and EMT, as well as a Combat Medic in the CA Nat'l Guard and is about to go back to training to "upgrade" [for want of a better word] his MOS to Occupational Therapist).... but the fact remains that he's not doing anything further than loving me, and holding dear to himself our vows to each other. I appreciate him greatly, but that doesn't mean it's a bloody miracle, much less something for a person to send me a mile-long email about what a miraculous person he is for being all he is. He is my miracle, but not a miracle just because he loves me.
OH, and one of the "feedback posts" was full of "yall".... SHEESH!
BTW, is Bob Clark from the Southern California area? Or am I thinking of someone else Damon worked with and/or knew/respected RE: his gators?
~~ Kat ~~
I covered that earlier, but there've been a lot of posts since then. Hard to keep track, eh?
Damon didn't have any kids when I still knew him. However, I've seen some photos of the boy referred to as Cole, and he resembles Damon more than enough to believe that Cole could most definitely be Damon's biological child. I last saw Damon five years ago though, which is approx. the age of Cole according to his appearance in the photos. In order for this "Cole" to be Damon's biological child, Brittany would have to have either been pregnant already when I last saw them, or else not too long thereafter. You simply can't mess with Mother Nature when it comes to a child's age and when the mother could possibly have been pregnant with him/her.
Damon never had a "partner" RE: his animals in the years that I knew him; he was quite the loner. He supposedly had a partner in crime, and also tried to convince me to be an accessory to his crimes; but his partner in crime had nothing to do with his animals. He never had any animal business during the years that I knew him.
Once he was romantically involved with Brittany, I'd say that yes, she became his partner; they both had full intentions of her taking just as much care of them, and if anything happened to Damon then Brittany would be the one to take over with the animals. (Gators and some dogs at the time, mostly.) Brittany was very "into" the animals, and it was genuine. So long as Damon and Brittany were engaged/married, there's no doubt that she would be his partner.
Before Damon got engaged to Brittany, he'd asked me how I'd feel about a marriage in name only, to him of course.... we'd live together as roommates / best friends (yes, we really did have a platonic relationship, lol), but have an "open" marriage, as he wanted to feel secure in knowing that if anything happened to him, his gators would go to me and be taken care of. I told him no way I'd have a marriage in name only, that if I ever got married again it would be for romantic love, not my love for a friend. So what about just drawing up a will? Nope, that wasn't legally binding enough for him, a will could be contested when the beneficiary isn't his wife. Needless to say, had I wanted an arrangement like that, then it would be me that would be his partner today.... except I'd have left and divorced him the minute he ran from the law in AZ, as I refuse to live a life in hiding. Much less a life of all the lies that come with that. No, thank you!
ANYHOOO.... I read that "feedback forum" post you referred to. It's quite clear as to whose name was "edited" from that post, no bout adout it.
I put "feedback forum" into quotes for a reason.... that is NOT a forum, it's only alleged emails that anyone could put up there.
(From the same post as John referred us to; emphasis mine.)
So his customers use the word "pristine" RE: the "facilities" as well? Interesting.
Also, the running on and on and on by another "feedback post" about how great his wife is for standing by his side and helping him. Uh, that's what spouses are supposed to do: stand by, support, help out.... or get out. It's not a bloody miracle, it's the reason a marriage is so often referred to as a partnership! Sure, I feel like the luckiest woman in the world that my hubby has stood by me not only RE: goals, but further dealing with my being chronically ill and all that goes with it, including taking on a lot of the household "duties" after he gets home from work and even physically caring for me when I've had surgeries or am simply in too much pain to function (he's an XRay tech, MA, and EMT, as well as a Combat Medic in the CA Nat'l Guard and is about to go back to training to "upgrade" [for want of a better word] his MOS to Occupational Therapist).... but the fact remains that he's not doing anything further than loving me, and holding dear to himself our vows to each other. I appreciate him greatly, but that doesn't mean it's a bloody miracle, much less something for a person to send me a mile-long email about what a miraculous person he is for being all he is. He is my miracle, but not a miracle just because he loves me.
OH, and one of the "feedback posts" was full of "yall".... SHEESH!
BTW, is Bob Clark from the Southern California area? Or am I thinking of someone else Damon worked with and/or knew/respected RE: his gators?
~~ Kat ~~