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How to keep from getting screwed over?

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Basically wanting to buy some geckos from people who don't have any transactions listed here and are not known and I was wondering how I can keep from being screwed over. Are there any certain tips or advice that you guys have for payment and tracking and gathering information to use should they "fall of the face of the Earth"? I think PayPal is the best route...but I'm scared. Seems a lot of people have issues here...:shrug01:
 
And I'm aware that, I To have no transactions listed for my name however I am not looking to sell right now I'm only looking to buy. I guess I could use this advice to get myself built up later when I do decide to sell. Guess the point of this post is to ask what makes an honest seller and what warning flags do you typically see?
 
Leopalooza said:
Basically wanting to buy some geckos from people who don't have any transactions listed here and are not known and I was wondering how I can keep from being screwed over. Are there any certain tips or advice that you guys have for payment and tracking and gathering information to use should they "fall of the face of the Earth"? I think PayPal is the best route...but I'm scared. Seems a lot of people have issues here...:shrug01:
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There are no guarantees but you can do some things such as complete the transaction in person, pay with a credit card, never pay with Western Union or the like, get as much as possible in writing.
But with deals gone wrong, (barring the use of a credit card where you may have some recourse) even if you do everything right it may only give you the right of action, which can be time consuming and expensive.
I suggest, if you have concerns of this nature (and they are valid) rethink your choices and perhaps choose to purchase from a well known breeder, perhaps someone who has a good history here.
 
Thank you for your reply. One person has been really spacey about replying...I sent my initial message a month ago and have had two replies. Don't think I'll go that route. However, the other has been replying nicely and even offered his number to talk it all out. My thought is this...everyone starts somewhere. Even the well-known start as a nobody. Without a chance, you can't prove yourself. The trusting part of me is fighting with the part of me who has been scammed lol. I don't have a good feeling about guy number one...but two seems alright. What is the very best way to pay? Surely you don't just shoot someone an email with your card numbers??
 
You can pay by credit card via paypal.

Try to keep as much of a paper trail as you can. If someone requests to speak on the phone, that is certainly not a bad thing but you should both come to an agreement that everything pertaining to the details of the transaction also go in writing.

While this can't prevent things from going wrong, you will at least have something to fall back on and be able to warn others.

You can ask people to take pictures of an animal you are interested in with today's newspaper.

Best bet is follow your gut. If it's not easy about someone, move on!

Good luck to you getting started.
 
Ooh. Good idea about the paper! Thank you for the advice! I really appreciate it! It just seems that more bad goes here than good. But then again, you always want to make sure that people know a crook!:yesnod:
 
It just seems that more bad goes here than good.
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That's kind of a harsh observation from somebody with 3 whole days as a member of this site...and, IMO, it is off the mark. You are, however, welcome to your opinion.

Oh, btw, don't email your credit card info.
 
Leopalooza said:
Ooh. It just seems that more bad goes here than good. But then again, you always want to make sure that people know a crook!:yesnod:
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I assume you may be referring to the BOI. It, like most "news reports" generally reports the "bad" more often the good, because the "bad" is much more uncommon. Good transactions are generally more the norm, an as such, may be deemed less newsworthy.
 
hhmoore said:
That's kind of a harsh observation from somebody with 3 whole days as a member of this site...and, IMO, it is off the mark. You are, however, welcome to your opinion.

Oh, btw, don't email your credit card info.
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I've been reading the forums as a lurker for about a year. Only recently was I motivated to buy here after local searches failed to bring up the creature I need for my project. Yes, a member for three days, but I've accessed this site through friend's accounts and through no account. I appreciate that concern, though and I'm glad to clarify in case someone else may wonder. And you can't say that the green marks equal the red...
 
There are plenty of Good Guy threads...but they tend to be short, and don't get nearly as much attention. (Just look at the number of views.)
There are also 2 basic factors that come into play:
1) people are more likely to post when they're unhappy.
2) good transactions are EASY to pull off...people aren't always willing to give acclaim just because somebody manages not to screw up
 
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