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KelliH and others Banned? Why?

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Well...All's I have to add to this thread is this...

Wendy & I spoke on the phone about the frustration & anger she felt toward me. It all stemmed from emails I never received that got lost in cyberspace somewhere. We had a long talk, and feelings are mended. I hope everyone else will take the initiative to set aside their feelings and talk things out to settle their problems. I certainly feel a lot better about everything. :)
 
reptilebreeder said:
I try to stay out of this thread, because I see garbage from both (or all) sides, but come on Chuck, your unconditional worship of this site is really showing to much. Don't get me wrong I like this site too, but there have been mistakes and garbage coming from EVERYWHERE. Your above comment is ridiculous on several points.

First speak for yourself. I do not think Kelli's site was started out of spite. Sure there was a thread started there that a lot of people didn't like, but it was one thread about ranting and raving, and every site has one, Fauna has one. In fact it is even more "exclusive" than most sites, because you have to pay to see the garbage that is spewed there. I bet there is all kinds of talking behind people's backs in there, and that seems to be one of the biggest complaints about what happened on Kelli's site. Can we say hypocrites? Sure we can, and the "anybody can join, so it's not behind people's backs" is out right BS. It is behind people's backs if one has to pay to see it. That said let me get back to my point......In this day and age every joe blow has a website, and many many have forums, so to think that one of the most well known, and respected (in spite of what is happening here, and how you may feel) gecko people in this business would not put a forum up, is naive to say the least.

Second do you even remember this site in the beginning? It wasn't "designed with good intentions" in the noble way you mean it. It was started because Rich got burned and wanted to let everyone know, and to try to get some resolution or restitution. The forums started very slowly, in fact after years they still lagged behind what they could be, and it is getting better, especially after Rich implemented the forum moderator (ambassador), so your statement is really inacurate IMHO.

Lastly, the demeaning statements about quality, make you look petty. Sure there is a thread about mini golf, big deal. The threads that get the most traffic, posts, and attention, are the threads dealing with Geckos, and there is a lot of quality there. That site is one of the fastest growing sites I've personally seen, and the number of "new posts" when I visit the site is more than most of the sites I belong to, and even sometimes gives this site a run for it's money. Not to bad considering the site is, what a couple weeks old?

Really my intent is not to degrade fauna nor worship the other site, as I like both. Fauna has the BOI, and a lot of good forums and people. Geckoforums has a lot of quality Gecko info, and good people also. My intent is to show that I feel your jabs, and those of a couple others, including Bobby, may be leaving a bad taste in the mouths of a lot of good people. Sure mention that you think what they did is wrong (as you have all done on the first couple pages of this thead), but for you guys to continually harp, rant, belittle, and castigate every post, and person is getting old, and is continuing one of the worst threads ever and is detracting from all the good, including reputations.
Just how I feel folks. Rip away.
John

Ughhhh.. I.. Ughhhhh.. well.. I...ughhhh....just dint have the time to read and decipher through all that you...ugghhhhh...wrote...to understand that you feel differently than I do. The world would really suck if it were filled with just charles kimmel's all thinking the same way. It works out good in my dreams though, but the ladies look horrible with goatee's and pushed back thinning hair.

So I'll just say good for you and good for sharing and for standing by your feelings there John. Its not like you're writing something personal about me, or intentionally trying to insult me by saying the place, this place, that I frequent, is filled with idiots so hence I must also be an idiot and know-nothing.

And you know what John, I wouldn't be jabbing at anyone if a jab wasn't aimed at me. I don't really care if Kelli and Rich want to throw rocks at each other....but when a circus freak of Kelli's side show creation comes around here claiming that no one of any great caliber in the gecko business remains here.....no one with enough knowledge remains to help anyone here...I take that slightly personal.

I'm not defending Rich's site, I'm defending myself.

Take care now John...
 
I just want to clear some stuff up. I did not start GeckoForums.net out of spite or hatred. It is something I have wanted to do for awhile, but until recently did not have the will to do so. I freely admit that Rich's fiasco comment and the subsequent phone call that he and my husband took part in gave me the drive to finally do what I have wanted to do for a long time, but I was going to do it at some point regardless. I have also wanted to write a Eublepharis book for a long time, with my friend Justyn's help. I may do that now, as I am doing better the past couple of months.

Secondly, I am not a person filled with hate, as has been eluded to by some. I hate no one. Like any other normal human I do have certain people I run across in my life that annoy me, or that I dislike. I have no problem admitting that I am not the type of person to come out and say, "Hey_____, I can't stand you!". I try and be considerate of other people's feelings and instead just decide not to associate with the person or persons. That is exactly what I was doing when I decided to go ahead and start a new website. Get away from all the negativity that I (right or wrong) was feeling at this place. It was time for me to leave, I wasn't happy here any longer. My mistake was not resigning immediately as Mod when I realized I couldn't play the game at Fauna any longer. That was a mistake and I am truly sorry I did not do that.

Thirdly, myself and Marcia did not have some sort of "master plan" about anything. All she knew was that I was building a new website. When I did resign as forum mod here, I was going to suggest that Marcia take over, that way the transition would be smoother for everyone.

Chuck, I am sorry you do not care for my new forum site, and that you have something against the arcade games there. I think they are fun, and so do many of the members. See, people want a place to post and hang out at that is positive. They want a place where they can have fun without worrying about warning points, and suspensions, paying fines, negative karma points, and flame wars. I am providing the kind of forums that I enjoy participating in, for everyone. The test site was just that, a test. The real site looks completely different and has nothing to do with Fauna Drama.

In conclusion, I would like to say something to Rich. I tried calling you but had to leave a message for you. I figured you wouldn't call back, and that's understandable. All I wanted to tell you is that I am not full of anger and hatred. I am a lot of things and have many feelings, like anyone does. But I am NOT hateful or spiteful. And of course I realize that you are not to blame for Hayden's death. For you to even think such a thing is very telling, Rich. And it tells a whole lot about your personality, not mine.

Please just lock this cesspool of a thread, if you have any decency, just lock the damn thing Rich.
 
70 going on 7? Do any of you realize how you actually sound? Please let all of your animals go! You can't even take care of yourselves. Well scumbad and miscreants get away with things everyone here is arguing over semantics and mispalced thoughts and deeds.

You have no interest in Kelli as it is obvious that she has other needs that 'friends' should be assisting her on. Instead you bicker back and forth on her. What respect you show her.

For the other side, just let it die. You obviously know more about the types of people the others are, and vice versa. Now move on and choose your company more carefully / differently.

Garbage, plain garbage. I can't believe some of you are representative of what I and others defend. If this type of thing is your biggets problem, there are millions upon millions who would gladly trade their situation in life for yours!
 
TripleMoonsExotic said:
Well...All's I have to add to this thread is this...

Wendy & I spoke on the phone about the frustration & anger she felt toward me. It all stemmed from emails I never received that got lost in cyberspace somewhere. We had a long talk, and feelings are mended. I hope everyone else will take the initiative to set aside their feelings and talk things out to settle their problems. I certainly feel a lot better about everything. :)

Well I feel completely left out, everyones getting phone calls but me!!! Geesh!!!
Seriously though i am glad you guys worked it out and is an good example for the rest of us.
 
hill4803 said:
Hmmm...Hey Bobby...just like Griz you seem to have some misunderstanding about what "Inc." means. I can't seem to find "varnyard herps INC." registered with the state of Florida. Perhaps you can help me understand how someone with such high regard for the truth and unblemished morals can call his "company" incorporated when it seems to lack that very specific requirement of being registered AND INCORPORATED. Exactly how long have you been in "business"?

Rochelle, before speaking, why don't you seek to educate yourself first? Why don't you ask me about the Inc. in my name before jumping to conclusions? Why don't you call me anytime you want and see just how many successfull businesses I own? My phone is always available for those seeking information vs those seeking to prove their ignorance. Something about open mouth applies here. You would think that you would at least study up on Illinois laws before jumping to such a conclusion.

Griz
 
Well well well. I had intended to leave this thread behind me, but then I got an update (someone remind me to unsubscribe to thread updates, please) in my email inbox. Unfortunately I was curious enough to read through, and what I've seen here has nearly made me vomit.

I had posted nothing on Lucille, as I had had no real basis to form an opinion -- until reading the garbage she posted in this thread. Lucille, HOW DARE YOU compare the "hurt" of a few honest comments to the loss of a child! HOW DARE YOU!!!!! And what about the trash you posted about Marcia?!? What the hell kind of comparison is that?!? I was raised Roman Catholic, and I know full well the hurt and betrayal of the child abuse scandals. You have NO RIGHT to post that kind of crap; again, HOW DARE YOU.

Rich,
Kelli, I was NOT responsible for the death of your child.
 
TripleMoonsExotic said:
PM me your phone number. :raspberry


Oh yeah, that would go over well with the wife. I can see it now. "Yeah, and she is just someone from a reptile forum, Am i supposed to believe that?" or " A woman is going to call you just about reptiles huh, tell me why she's really calling you"!!!
Then I would spend the next few days sleeping on the bunk beds with the kids!!!!
 
Damn submit button, I wasn't done.

That is by far the most arrogant, disgusting thing I have ever seen. I cannot BELIEVE you posted what you did in that particular entry. You're doing a fine job of twisting everything around to suit your own purposes, don't you think?

People on this site should take notice of the kind of attitudes and morals being shown by Fauna's administrator and facilitator. This kind of trash is nothing short of ridiculous, and the comments that have been made are absolutely horrible in their inaccuracy and insensitivity.

For shame, both of you. God forgive you both for it, because I certainly don't.
 
KelliH said:
Chuck, I am sorry you do not care for my new forum site, and that you have something against the arcade games there. I think they are fun, and so do many of the members. See, people want a place to post and hang out at that is positive. They want a place where they can have fun without worrying about warning points, and suspensions, paying fines, negative karma points, and flame wars. I am providing the kind of forums that I enjoy participating in, for everyone. The test site was just that, a test. The real site looks completely different and has nothing to do with Fauna Drama.

Hey Kelli..stop...this isn't about your arcade games. That isn't my argument....(your forums appearing like some circus show). I have my own reptile style support forums but with a casino instead of an arcade. I make gamblers and you make clowns. Who cares. But I don't let my dealers loose on the floor to insult others like the clowns from your site have been doing here. You cant control your member base and I know that. But the people that have been posting insults here are more to you than just members of your site. How about asking those friends to just cool out with the insults....unless of course you appreciate it all.
 
And yes, that second post was continued from the first, directed first off to Rich and secondly to both Rich and Lucille. Should have clarified that with a post in between, sorry Nicholas.
 
No problem darlene, just send me some tickets to newfoundland so i can take a vacation and we will call it even!! :) :)
 
Um, Griz I am the one who had Robin ask you about your "business" as well. You didn't answer the question then and **poof** you disappeared. And the laws are pretty much the same everywhere. You also are not incorporated or registered with the Illinois secretary of States office...so you are breaking the law as well. Ask me how I know all this...go ahead ASK!
 
I also hoped you enjoyed your visit to my website. And there is no E on the end of my name!
 
nicolai said:
Oh yeah, that would go over well with the wife. I can see it now. "Yeah, and she is just someone from a reptile forum, Am i supposed to believe that?" or " A woman is going to call you just about reptiles huh, tell me why she's really calling you"!!!
Then I would spend the next few days sleeping on the bunk beds with the kids!!!!

Well I just wanted you to feel special too! :raspberry Anyway, bunk beds sound like fun! :D
 
robin s. said:
if anything she is filled with sorrow and pain, but certainly not hate and spitefullness.
OMG! I just realized something! Robin and I are in 100% COMPLETE AGREEMENT on something!!! Holy crap!

**And this just in...Hell has just announced the formation of their very own hockey team! Apparently they're skating all over the ol' Lake of Fire!**

Just kidding you Robin. ;) :raspberry


KelliH said:
Please just lock this cesspool of a thread
Seeing as how I can't see how there is ANY redeeming value to what is going on here, I plan on doing exactly that at 6pm CST today. If Rich wants to unlock it, then that is his preogative (since I haven't asked him in advance), but I hope that it will remain locked...at the VERY least until Thursday.

Furthermore, since Rich has suspended the warning system, let me say this...
If I see, or if someone notifies me of anyone slinging ANY sort of crap from this thread in Kelli's direction for the rest of tonight or tomorrow, I will not give you warning points...I will ban you outright. I have not gotten permission from Rich to take this aggressive stance on the subject, but I am sickened, nay pissed...even furious at much of what I have witnessed here, and I will NOT sit by idly and allow people to sling barbs in Kelli's direction while she is grieving on the anniversary of Hayden's death. I could care less what anyone thinks of my actions on this subject. I know how much pain I was in last Sunday, and I absolutely cannot imagine what Kelli is going through, and I will not allow anyone to contribute further to her pain...not when I'm in a position to do something about it.


DeeSWR said:
what I've seen here has nearly made me vomit.
I couldn't agree more...hence this post. :hot:



It is my sincere hope that the locking of this thread will allow cooler heads to prevail. This is all so very unnecessary...not to mention damaging.
 
nicolai said:
No problem darlene, just send me some tickets to newfoundland so i can take a vacation and we will call it even!! :) :)

Nicholas.... ever been here? lol....

I'd like to be able to buy tickets for a bunch of folks, Dee and I would be glad to have you all here...

And yes, I am Dee fiance and I totally support her opinions here... ;) I haven't been lurking for a while.... just to clear that up! heh
 
hill4803 said:
ok...so now she has cussed. :bolt01:
Yes she did. However, I removed the thread as I wasn't going to allow such a post to serve as a "parting shot" as the thread was closed. I have left it accessible to Rich, and he can take action as he deems appropriate.
 
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