Jaybee
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I am feeling pretty stupid right now. A while back, a few people were very upset with Laura for dropping off the grid, and I had tried to reassure them that this wasn't like Laura, that she had to have had something really awful happen to her to act like this, and that everyone handles issues in different ways and to give her a little more time.
Yesterday I sent her a text essentially asking her again to get in touch with people who are waiting, and to let me know if I could do something to help... honestly not expecting a response but just hoping anything would get her to respond to something, to get these people what they're owed.
Last night, someone tagged pics of her on facebook. If you are unaware of how facebook works, when you are tagged in a photo, if you have your settings set up in a particular way, the photos you're tagged in pop up on your facebook wall automatically, and it can show in the feed of your watchers. The photo that popped up on her "Laura Lee Geckos InTails" FB was of her with several other ladies.
The photo popped up with a description something along the lines of, "We did it, we pulled it off, Laura Lee even made it from Tampa to be a part of the surprise party for (someone whose name doesn't matter)." It was a picture of Laura with 4 other women and it was tagged at some sushi place.
A couple of people who are owed stuff commented on the photo, saying essentially, "(Lady's name), we see you've been in contact with Laura recently. Is there any way you could please tell her we're waiting to hear from her? She owes some people geckos or money." Nothing rude but in a firm tone.
Within minutes (and unfortunately, before I could get a screenshot, sorry), the post was removed from Laura's wall.
The photo along with another however is as of right now still up/tagged on Laura's second page, "Laura Lee Britt Petrila," along with someone else who's tagged her in a text-only post. The post by this other person says, "Well, they got me! I never excepted a surprise birthday party (a week early) but my dear, dear friends and loving husband made me feel so special tonight! Thank you all! I had a fabulous time and I cherish each of you! — with Laura Lee Britt Petrila and 5 others."
So essentially, while people have been super nice to Laura, and some of us have put our feet in our mouths trying to reassure others that she's just not the kind of person to do something like this, she's still ignoring contacts of all kinds and... going to surprise parties?
I'm posting these photos, I know they look a little silly with everything else blacked/blurred out, but as far as I know these other ladies have nothing to do with reptiles. I am just hesitant to post their names/faces where they'll be stuck permanently.
She was also tagged in a photo on facebook on May 10, out seeing Iron Man 3. At that point I was still waffling and thinking "well maybe she just really needs some time away and she'll get back to everyone now."
Two weeks later, I am just really feeling like an idiot for asking people to not get too worked up about it when this is how people who have given her all of the patience in the world have been treated.
Yesterday I sent her a text essentially asking her again to get in touch with people who are waiting, and to let me know if I could do something to help... honestly not expecting a response but just hoping anything would get her to respond to something, to get these people what they're owed.
Last night, someone tagged pics of her on facebook. If you are unaware of how facebook works, when you are tagged in a photo, if you have your settings set up in a particular way, the photos you're tagged in pop up on your facebook wall automatically, and it can show in the feed of your watchers. The photo that popped up on her "Laura Lee Geckos InTails" FB was of her with several other ladies.
The photo popped up with a description something along the lines of, "We did it, we pulled it off, Laura Lee even made it from Tampa to be a part of the surprise party for (someone whose name doesn't matter)." It was a picture of Laura with 4 other women and it was tagged at some sushi place.
A couple of people who are owed stuff commented on the photo, saying essentially, "(Lady's name), we see you've been in contact with Laura recently. Is there any way you could please tell her we're waiting to hear from her? She owes some people geckos or money." Nothing rude but in a firm tone.
Within minutes (and unfortunately, before I could get a screenshot, sorry), the post was removed from Laura's wall.
The photo along with another however is as of right now still up/tagged on Laura's second page, "Laura Lee Britt Petrila," along with someone else who's tagged her in a text-only post. The post by this other person says, "Well, they got me! I never excepted a surprise birthday party (a week early) but my dear, dear friends and loving husband made me feel so special tonight! Thank you all! I had a fabulous time and I cherish each of you! — with Laura Lee Britt Petrila and 5 others."
So essentially, while people have been super nice to Laura, and some of us have put our feet in our mouths trying to reassure others that she's just not the kind of person to do something like this, she's still ignoring contacts of all kinds and... going to surprise parties?
I'm posting these photos, I know they look a little silly with everything else blacked/blurred out, but as far as I know these other ladies have nothing to do with reptiles. I am just hesitant to post their names/faces where they'll be stuck permanently.
She was also tagged in a photo on facebook on May 10, out seeing Iron Man 3. At that point I was still waffling and thinking "well maybe she just really needs some time away and she'll get back to everyone now."
Two weeks later, I am just really feeling like an idiot for asking people to not get too worked up about it when this is how people who have given her all of the patience in the world have been treated.