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Info Lee Abbott disappointed/problems with transaction

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I am not going out to say that he is a bad guy, so not doing a bad guy prefix. Since I started doing my research after getting the run around by the Abbotts or his wife who has been my main contact point I have heard a lot more bad than I ever did before. If those people will step up they can do that here, but I also know what good reputation he has (thus I had no qualms about buying snakes from him), but I am very disappointed and very surprised over what has happened. I am still wondering in the back of my head if something huge life changing has happened over there as they have dropped the ball tremendously in this case, if that has happened I will apologize ahead of time for this thread. But with the lack of communication that has been and what has transpired which you can read yourself I also think you will understand my frustration. Becky Abbot was warned that if I did not get my payment back in 24 hours, and I later change it to 48 that this thread would go up. I also will send a message to her the instance I am posting this reporting to her about the thread.

So in January a friend of theirs Michael Shiver, posted a bunch of snakes for Lee. I saw an orchid I wanted, so I contacted Mr shiver. But there was a couple of more, so I wanted to know what prices for all would be plus shipping. I was ready to pay and everything, just waiting for final amount. When Michael came back to me, the Orchid had been sold. Michael took fault in that he hadn't communicated fast enough to them or they didn't fully get the message. I was disappointed but ok.. I ended up buying three other snakes from Lee, two females and one male. Two was tessera het quads, and one was a dilute anery. I paid for all three plus shipping.

One day I get a message from Michael, that they had sold one of my tesseras.. AFTER I have paid for it. Now I am annoyed, and I was thinking of backing out then, but I have others that I could mix and match with. And Michael had been a doll teaching me about various morphs etc and he vouched for Lee (he still is but he understands me). So I let it slide. Mind you while this is going on we are waiting for a shipping window as well (it was cold and it will take time to get a shipping window).

The money that was going to one of the tesseras I used to buy a beautiful stripe amel het lavender from Michael, that animal arrived as arranged and is PRISTINE. Very satisfied with that transaction.

With abbotts however frustration is increasing, I am sending messages, no answers despite I see it all. Michael give me Becky's cell, but I don't want to use it as now i am getting uneasy, so I keep it via facebook so I can log it purposely for this.

I posted on a facebook group asking them for advice and I showed the conversation, they all say I am a bit too nice, but due to his reputation I am hoping that this is just one of those situations where (I posted the convos but blackened out any names/etc out of respect for seller in case that there is something else going on, or did), tonight I am posting the unaltered ones.

I have not opened a dispute with Paypal yet as abbotts don't have a paypal, so I paid via michaels paypal. Becky offered to mail me money, but I have to admit I am NOT comfortable with that. Then they said the 20th, but due to all the run around I have been given I felt I should be able to have my money back now. They can easily put it into Michaels bank account and he can send it to me. Thus why I did extend from 24 to 48 hours.

Also, I am aware of that some people will not like me for this post that are his friends, sorry in advance as well. However if I had been kept in the loop with communication I would have remained patient. But when she tells me she wasn't on facebook even after i saw that she saw what I sent (ie she lied to me, that was when I truly lost it).

So without further blabber, here are my print screens from all my communications with Becky and me, or lack thereof maybe I should say.

ALSO MICHAEL HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT HELPFUL THIS IS NOT AIMED AT HIM IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM!

Also I paid on the 13th and 15th of January.


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This is the money sent, the additional 60 was for shipping of Michaels snake when I bought that one instead of the one they sold that I had paid for.
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And here is the proof that she saw what I sent, this was the message she was trying to say that she wasn't on facebook..
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I'm surprised they did not find an appropriate shipping window in all this time, tho I do not known their location. It was in the 60s and 70s a few days even up here in the Northeast. I have received numerous packages all throughout this winter season without issue.
 
I'd be upset too if I paid for a specific morph of corn snake and it was then sold to someone else. This is probably the nicest most politely worded inquiry I have ever seen on this BOI.
I can see it would be difficult to work through a third party to sell and this sounds as though there was some communication between them that fell through or didn't happen.
I would not ship a snake on a Friday nor on a full stomach, though, nor would most people as you risk a delay over the weekend and a regurge.
I feel there must be a good explanation and hope this can be resolved quicly and amicably.
 
I am reattaching the pictures, because I had attached them wrongly.

I also have an update that I will post after I again post the original ones.
 

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Here is part 2, they can only be uploaded in 4:s, sorry about that.
 

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So I discovered that I am not the only one who has had issues getting in touch with them. Their friend of whom I did deal with has sent back the first $100 and the rest is promised by the 20th. They probably had intentions all along, I am going to put faith in that. However once you get burnt/let down it is hard to find trust. I hope whatever they are going trough is over soon so they can bring their business back up to the gold standard it once was.
 

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I hope this gets straightened out for you soon. Am I correct in seeing that you didn't get a response from 2/5 - Becky's last communication - until 3/6? That is a long time to wait with your $300 out of pocket and no communication. I don't think that missing out on the orchid is really their fault - it sounds like some miscommunication which can happen when a third party is handling some of the sales. However, I think you were reasonable about that.

One thing I'm wondering - can you do a PP dispute if the seller is not who you actually paid? Since you paid Michael, who I understand is just helping out here, I'm not sure paypal would have anything to do with it. I suspect they may say Michael accepted the funds and he needs to get them back to you. I wonder if opening a dispute would actually just freeze his PP account - something to think about before you do that.

These things can get messy with third parties involved in the sale and transaction. I totally get that Michael is helping out, so no criticism at all, just an observation.
 
So I have received most of my money, I am still -60 dollars. I have not heard a peep from abbotts what so ever to ensure that it has been solved.. And Their friend who was supposed to pay me because he is owing them money, has not finished paying me. Here is the continued "discussion"...
 

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At this point I suspect he won't answer me anymore because he is getting out of business. The transaction is not finished, but I will keep posting this and spreading it as I am very disappointed in transaction. To prove against me they will have to make everyone else very happy now so at least I might help someone.. my evidence is black on white.. and honestly I feel that it should be in the abbotts best interest for themselves to ensure things got handled..
 

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Ok so after updating this thread, and posting on the Facebook groups i went to bed. When i woke up i had received the last 60 from mikes motleys. So i finally got the rest of my money but it was like pulling teeth. I am going to consider this matter closed. Thank you all for the support without the pressure from fauna i dont know if i would ever have gotten my money back..
 
Ok so after updating this thread, and posting on the Facebook groups i went to bed. When i woke up i had received the last 60 from mikes motleys. So i finally got the rest of my money but it was like pulling teeth. I am going to consider this matter closed. Thank you all for the support without the pressure from fauna i dont know if i would ever have gotten my money back..
Kudos on getting your money back:thumbsup:.
 
I'm just seeing this thread, now; but I can't help but wonder why it isn't Michael Shiver in the title...or, at the least, why his name isn't included there. He is the one that posted the ad, and he is the one to whom you sent the money. From where I sit, your transaction was with him. The fact that he didn't have the snakes in his possession should, IMO, have been cause for reconsidering the purchase.
I'm glad it worked out in the end.
 
Anyone that tells you they've been to busy to message you,or they don't check their FB(where your alerts are immediate),is a POS liar!:thumbsup:
 
I'm just seeing this thread, now; but I can't help but wonder why it isn't Michael Shiver in the title...or, at the least, why his name isn't included there. He is the one that posted the ad, and he is the one to whom you sent the money. From where I sit, your transaction was with him. The fact that he didn't have the snakes in his possession should, IMO, have been cause for reconsidering the purchase.
I'm glad it worked out in the end.

:iagree: How can you not say that Michael Shiver was a "decent guy" when he helped facilitate the whole transaction, and wound up owing you the money. You had absolutely no first hand dealings with the Abbots, your dealings were with Michael Shiver and HE dealt with them and got you guys together. He was the "agent" in the transaction and should have been handling the whole thing. Especially when you paid him, and not them.

I am glad to hear that you received all of your money back. I know for danged sure I wouldn't have been as patient as you had been throughout the whole thing.
 
:iagree: How can you not say that Michael Shiver was a "decent guy" when he helped facilitate the whole transaction, and wound up owing you the money. You had absolutely no first hand dealings with the Abbots, your dealings were with Michael Shiver and HE dealt with them and got you guys together. He was the "agent" in the transaction and should have been handling the whole thing. Especially when you paid him, and not them.

I am glad to hear that you received all of your money back. I know for danged sure I wouldn't have been as patient as you had been throughout the whole thing.

Oye, that should have said, "How can you say that Michael Shiver..." Not what I wrote the first time.

(Apparently I need to hit preview before I hit post, especially when I'm on meds that make me more sleepy than normal...geesh! :rolleyes:)
 
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