Ray,
I can honestly understand how upset you are in not having a voice in who was paired to who, but do you really think that is going to get you anywhere in court? If the paired animals will not breed, they won't breed. Mark just did the next best thing with different pairings. You still got tremendously awesome offspring from the pairings. Granted, I would be upset by not approving the decisions before they were made, but I still would have said, "go for it!" I'm having a hard time figuring out though whether you are more upset about the split on the litter that came from both your animals or that you kinda lost your say in the pairings. Perhaps both, but the litter won't even come close to meaning a thing in court unless you can prove that Mark hid babies from you that came from your clutch so he got more than his fair share in the 50/50. And, that proof would be rather hard to come by unless Mark would admit to such.
During the two years Mark and I have done business together, he has never refused to answer his phone or return calls or return emails. Most of our business has been done in person, though, as we really don't live too far from each other. I think Topeka is just a few hours from here. He's sometimes up at the KC shows...
I would speak to you in person, but CO is far from here. lol.
Okay, how many litters were there? How many babies in each litter? How many babies did you receive? Nothing else matters but that as far as babies are concerned (if this is going to go to court).
I know I'm asking a lot of you, but please, could you relist the original pairings and the pairings that actually happened? And, if you were asked beforehand, would you have approved or disapproved of these pairings? I mean, if it comes down to these pairings or being empty-handed, what would you prefer doing?
I really understand your frustration though, because being left out on these decisions is tough. And, it makes me really upset, even this does that happened to you. BUT, the fact is, I just really don't see it as holding up in court. That's what I'm trying to express here. I think it is good that you report this on the BOI, so other breeders can be warned about possible difficulties in dealing with Mark and what precautions to take if engaging in a breeding loan with him. But, is a lawsuit really the right answer? I don't know what you hope to accomplish by doing this, and all I can see out of it is that you feel you deserved the whole litter instead of the agreed half (even if both parents were yours to begin with).
The thing is that lawsuits are big deals. They cost a lot of money, and I'm not sure you should waste more money fighting Mark if you may not win in the end. I just can't see you as getting this through. Most of the people on here remind me of elementary school children encouraging a fight on the playground. They know it may be for the wrong reasons, but they just want to see how banged up everyone involved will get. I don't want you getting banged up more than you have to. I know this has hurt, but if you lose a lawsuit, won't that hurt more? And, if you win, will you really feel like you accomplished something?