greenfiremajick
I am Traci A Borgmeyer
I have aplogized to Nick and he has apologized to me, for the condition of the animals. From here on forward, we will be working this out amongst ourselves.
There have been several issues throughout this whole ordeal that I will address.
1) My cussing out Nick, via text messages. I have apologized to him and he has accepted. I apologized because it was the right thing to do.
I will say that I have been judged and denigrated for the name calling to him and yet the people that have found it to be so despicable (and others) find it completely acceptable to do the same kind of name calling to me. "Crazy b*tch, unhinged, bipolar," etc. Having a grad degree in human services as well as work history, that kind of labeling and name calling is also quite damaging to MY reputation. There have been MANY assumptions and hateful things said about, and to me. Please refrain from being so hypocritical in the future. For those that did NOT do this, you're appreciated.
2) My "pity party." For those that have accused me of sharing my personal information at the beginning of my post, to use as a pity party....just because YOU would use that information as a way to garner pity, does NOT mean that is the way I operate. That tells me YOU would do things that way. I chose to reveal it, because A) I had included all of that info in an earlier PM. When I was encouraged to post here and another board, I simply copy and pasted. There were some things left in it, by accident.
I don't know if you've ever had to deal with your 14 yo son hanging from a clothes rod by his belt, but there is no "time limit" or expiration on my grieving for him. There is no "get on with it" because in someone else's estimation it's been too long to mention it. I am STILL dealing with the effects of late stage uterine cancer and I will be going to the oncologist again in 2 more weeks. So yes, some of the issues i have been recovering from are almost 2 years old, while others are still continuing, currently. The attacks, name-calling, belittlement, etc have made me literally and physically sick for the past 2 days. Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves because you're no better than what you have accused me of being....only I had the decency and courage to apologize. The interpretation that you derive from what I say is NOT my responsibility. Your assumptions are yours, not mine. It is your job to clarify with questions, as opposed to attacking.
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B) I truly did mean that I am too tired to be dealing with all of the attacks and so on. In the beginning, I was absolutely positive that Nick was HORRIBLE. The animals that arrived were in bad shape, but he and I have agreed to continue working together to resolve this issue.
Nick has agreed to work together with me to continue testing the animals for another 3-5 cycles or whatever is reccomended "just in case," as far as parasites and so on. sometines test results can be a false negative or positive. We have also agreed I am not going to share the vet report, nor the lab report results I got in today, on this forum. If needed, I will still post the receipts tomorrow.
I may decide to continue updating the health of the animals if anyone is intetested.
There have been several issues throughout this whole ordeal that I will address.
1) My cussing out Nick, via text messages. I have apologized to him and he has accepted. I apologized because it was the right thing to do.
I will say that I have been judged and denigrated for the name calling to him and yet the people that have found it to be so despicable (and others) find it completely acceptable to do the same kind of name calling to me. "Crazy b*tch, unhinged, bipolar," etc. Having a grad degree in human services as well as work history, that kind of labeling and name calling is also quite damaging to MY reputation. There have been MANY assumptions and hateful things said about, and to me. Please refrain from being so hypocritical in the future. For those that did NOT do this, you're appreciated.
2) My "pity party." For those that have accused me of sharing my personal information at the beginning of my post, to use as a pity party....just because YOU would use that information as a way to garner pity, does NOT mean that is the way I operate. That tells me YOU would do things that way. I chose to reveal it, because A) I had included all of that info in an earlier PM. When I was encouraged to post here and another board, I simply copy and pasted. There were some things left in it, by accident.
I don't know if you've ever had to deal with your 14 yo son hanging from a clothes rod by his belt, but there is no "time limit" or expiration on my grieving for him. There is no "get on with it" because in someone else's estimation it's been too long to mention it. I am STILL dealing with the effects of late stage uterine cancer and I will be going to the oncologist again in 2 more weeks. So yes, some of the issues i have been recovering from are almost 2 years old, while others are still continuing, currently. The attacks, name-calling, belittlement, etc have made me literally and physically sick for the past 2 days. Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves because you're no better than what you have accused me of being....only I had the decency and courage to apologize. The interpretation that you derive from what I say is NOT my responsibility. Your assumptions are yours, not mine. It is your job to clarify with questions, as opposed to attacking.
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B) I truly did mean that I am too tired to be dealing with all of the attacks and so on. In the beginning, I was absolutely positive that Nick was HORRIBLE. The animals that arrived were in bad shape, but he and I have agreed to continue working together to resolve this issue.
Nick has agreed to work together with me to continue testing the animals for another 3-5 cycles or whatever is reccomended "just in case," as far as parasites and so on. sometines test results can be a false negative or positive. We have also agreed I am not going to share the vet report, nor the lab report results I got in today, on this forum. If needed, I will still post the receipts tomorrow.
I may decide to continue updating the health of the animals if anyone is intetested.
