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OukanJordan/Sadisticmuffin/Stephanie Hawkins BADGIRL

maybe irreverent to the topic, maybe not.
this just smell of something.. it makes me doubt the honesty of sadisiticmuffin.... (not the only thing I might add)

"I told him it was not mine to give honestly, that I bought it originaly for myself but my boyfriend husband whatever you want to call him ( we reicently got married so I some times still call him my boyfriend with out thinking, its habbit ) but that the gecko he wanted, my boyfriend had grown attached to it. I couldnt give something to him like that when it would anger the person Im living with."
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bf, then husband, than back to bf, then "the person", just seems like she is tripping :shootfoot

I don't care, and its not my business whether she is shacking up, or really married. just seems muddy...

the name too, i might add... sadistic muffin, not sure what the really means..


Am I picking at small things that don't matter?
 
Kelli, I don't believe your character is in question here, nor do I have a problem with people being on strage schedules. I am not the one who brought this up, I merely asked for elaboration because it was brought up.
 
critical bill said:
SHE brought her children into this as an excuse, not me. I think she is a CRAPPY MOTHER from what I have read of her excuses involving her children.

That is my opinion drawn from what she has provided me with.
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When I mentioned I had fedex help me with tape, due to the fact I was out of tape cause my 3 year old unraveled it all, I had no idea it would result with all the slandering filth you have been spewing at me. The fact that it has all been rather silly and rediculous, going from one thing to another with you cause you want to make me out to be a bad person over all, is just plain silly. Ive only said what Ive had to say due to the fact I have to explain myself and answer all the questions given to me, despite how uncalled for or rediculous they are.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
That thread was posted before I read the extra things in here that I had been looking for. It was posted right after I had a heated argument about my information being posted on this site. Thus I did not get a chance to come back and read the extra things posted here since then till this evening. After looking at the pictures of the snake with the sheding pulled off, I admited that it did look like the snake. I admited that I could have been wrong. Ive admited a lot of things that I thought to be the case were misunderstood. That takes a lot out of a person to suck up thier pride and admit they were wrong. Despite all this It still does not change the fact I have been and still am trying to fix this problem. But no one seems to believe me or care even.
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IU understand you are trying to fix this but..... I have a big problem with the way you allowed Brian to be dragged over the coals on the other forum. I also have a hard time believing that you would have sent him the 300.00 you promised in an acceptable time line. You said your broke but you had enough money in the past week to buy another snake.
 
Serafim said:
IU understand you are trying to fix this but..... I have a big problem with the way you allowed Brian to be dragged over the coals on the other forum. I also have a hard time believing that you would have sent him the 300.00 you promised in an acceptable time line. You said your broke but you had enough money in the past week to buy another snake.
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I wouldnt have bought that snake if I knew Brain wanted the money, the money he told me he didnt want. I would have used the money instead to refund him with. But he didnt want the money. He said no. So I spent the money while looking for a mate for one of my other boas.
 
Andy'sReptiles said:
maybe irreverent to the topic, maybe not.
this just smell of something.. it makes me doubt the honesty of sadisiticmuffin.... (not the only thing I might add)



bf, then husband, than back to bf, then "the person", just seems like she is tripping :shootfoot

I don't care, and its not my business whether she is shacking up, or really married. just seems muddy...

the name too, i might add... sadistic muffin, not sure what the really means..


Am I picking at small things that don't matter?
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After calling someone your boyfriend for 5 years. Its hard to suddenly break the habbit. Forgive me but Im not nutty cause I some times forget to call him my husband.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
That thread was posted before I read the extra things in here that I had been looking for. It was posted right after I had a heated argument about my information being posted on this site. Thus I did not get a chance to come back and read the extra things posted here since then till this evening. After looking at the pictures of the snake with the sheding pulled off, I admited that it did look like the snake. I admited that I could have been wrong. Ive admited a lot of things that I thought to be the case were misunderstood. That takes a lot out of a person to suck up thier pride and admit they were wrong. Despite all this It still does not change the fact I have been and still am trying to fix this problem. But no one seems to believe me or care even.
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I think this has been your biggest problem. When confronted with information proving you were wrong, you make the comments....I could have been wrong....I may have been mistaken....I could have been incorrect. You WERE wrong, you WERE mistaken, and you WERE incorrect. You are right, sometimes it does take a lot to put your pride aside and admit when they are wrong. Problem is, you haven't yet.

Bart
 
SadisticMuffin said:
After calling someone your boyfriend for 5 years. Its hard to suddenly break the habbit. Forgive me but Im not nutty cause I some times forget to call him my husband.
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Id also like to add to this that, right now Im trying to type as fast as possible. Keep an eye on my daughter, who is rolling around on the bed, playing with some toys, (Im on a lap top so Im on the bed with her, thought I would get that out of the way before someone yells OMG YOU LEFT HER ALONE). So I make mistakes. Im human.
 
bsharrah said:
I think this has been your biggest problem. When confronted with information proving you were wrong, you make the comments....I could have been wrong....I may have been mistaken....I could have been incorrect. You WERE wrong, you WERE mistaken, and you WERE incorrect. You are right, sometimes it does take a lot to put your pride aside and admit when they are wrong. Problem is, you haven't yet.

Bart
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Baby steps dear. Baby steps :yesnod: Atlease Im trying.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
I wouldnt have bought that snake if I knew Brain wanted the money, the money he told me he didnt want. I would have used the money instead to refund him with. But he didnt want the money. He said no. So I spent the money while looking for a mate for one of my other boas.
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That makes no sense at all... This all started around the first week of March correct. You knew you were going to have to do something to repay Brian yet you buy another snake. Now this week your broke and cannot afford to pay for shipping on the snakes you are supposed to ship back. How do you expect anyone to believe you are sincere about taking care of this? Its almost like you thought you could strong arm Brian by making him look bad.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
Id also like to add to this that, right now Im trying to type as fast as possible. Keep an eye on my daughter, who is rolling around on the bed, playing with some toys, (Im on a lap top so Im on the bed with her, thought I would get that out of the way before someone yells OMG YOU LEFT HER ALONE). So I make mistakes. Im human.
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There is a huge difference between mistakes and neglect, not that you would understand that.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
Baby steps dear. Baby steps :yesnod: Atlease Im trying.
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LOL its ok you tried to bully Brian into accepting nothing for his lose. BUT hey you were trying I guess that makes things ok.
 
Serafim said:
That makes no sense at all... This all started around the first week of March correct. You knew you were going to have to do something to repay Brian yet you buy another snake. Now this week your broke and cannot afford to pay for shipping on the snakes you are supposed to ship back. How do you expect anyone to believe you are sincere about taking care of this? Its almost like you thought you could strong arm Brian by making him look bad.
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I dont understand how this doesnt make sense to you. When I spoke to Brian over the phone he didnt want the money. Or his snakes sent back to him. I had some money set back. I had expected to use the money on getting me a mate for one of my boas. So when I made sure he did not want money. I had an impulse buy cause I saw that snake and adored it to death. It was perfect. So I bought it. Then later after this thread was started, Brian had changed his mind and not only wanted $300 he wanted $400. And guess what. I was out of extra money. Now today is payday, I have a $460 house payment, and utilities is due on the 6th. I have enough money to pay the bills, and get the supplies everyone needs from week to week. I wont make my children do with out, or miss any bills cause someone is impatient.
 
critical bill said:
There is a huge difference between mistakes and neglect, not that you would understand that.
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Right that made no sense to me. I "neglected" to remember he is my husband cause its hard to break a habbit. I understand now. That makes perfect sense. Not.
 
SadisticMuffin said:
Baby steps dear. Baby steps :yesnod: Atlease Im trying.
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You really need to slow yourself down and take your time responding here because you are digging yourself deeper and deeper with every click of the submit button. My advice at this point would be to close the laptop and spend some time with your family. NOTHING you can say here tonight can help you. Ship the snakes back as soon as possible and be done here. Every post you add here just hurts you more.

Bart
 
SadisticMuffin said:
I dont understand how this doesnt make sense to you. When I spoke to Brian over the phone he didnt want the money. Or his snakes sent back to him. I had some money set back. I had expected to use the money on getting me a mate for one of my boas. So when I made sure he did not want money. I had an impulse buy cause I saw that snake and adored it to death. It was perfect. So I bought it. Then later after this thread was started, Brian had changed his mind and not only wanted $300 he wanted $400. And guess what. I was out of extra money. Now today is payday, I have a $460 house payment, and utilities is due on the 6th. I have enough money to pay the bills, and get the supplies everyone needs from week to week. I wont make my children do with out, or miss any bills cause someone is impatient.
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Look Im a father of three... I have bills to pay as well. Let me just say that my children and my bills come first. If I had bills due I sure as heck would not have spent the three hundred dollars I have saved on a snake. Why should someone understand your line of thinking. Seems kinda childish to me.
 
Can anyone tell me where you could possibly keep a pair of adult boas in a 770sq ft house? I mean.....770sq ft is a pretty decent sized cage for a pair of adult boas. No?
 
can we just get a date? set a goal, follow through.

when will you be sending the refund of $300, or $400?
or doing what ever is needed to resolve this.
 
bsharrah said:
You really need to slow yourself down and take your time responding here because you are digging yourself deeper and deeper with every click of the submit button. My advice at this point would be to close the laptop and spend some time with your family. NOTHING you can say here tonight can help you. Ship the snakes back as soon as possible and be done here. Every post you add here just hurts you more.

Bart
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I would have to disagree. There is a few people that have messaged me saying that they understand. And I have gained friends out of this whole ordeal. If I had just sat here and turned a blind eye to this whole ordeal then I would look like I was hideing.

I am spending time with my family as well. My youngest is setting next to me playing. My oldest is sleeping, and Karl is at work.
 
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