How about if everyone just drop that
$35 figure from their mind and substitute
$10 instead? This is really the figure I have had in mind all along. The poll option for $35 was just for me to get a feel for a level of what people would tolerate as a VERY HIGH figure. To see that the
pain level would be. I am actually surprised that some people felt this would be perfectly OK, but honestly, that was not the target I was shooting at.
$10 will not hurt anyone. But it will set the bar high enough to filter out most of the problems on the BOI. It will lend a bit more credibility to the people posting there, and certainly I would feel more comforted knowing that the people posting in the classifieds weren't just some fly-by-night that created an identity 10 minutes ago just to post their ad. And it will pay me enough (after PayPal fees, etc) to make it worth my time to handle the inevitable snags that will crop up.
If someone is not willing to spend $10 to post their bad experience about someone, then it really is not all that important to them, now is it? Why does someone post such a thing in the first place? What is their goal? Does that goal have a value to them? If not, then heck, they can keep it to themselves and not waste everyone's time. Maybe some of the more frivolous posts, the ones that are posted prematurely, will not be the problem it has in the past either.
As for the good guy posts, well all along I have felt that these should be the EXCEPTIONAL cases, not just a matter of someone doing what should be normal business practice. So yeah, I think if a customer gets treated in an exceptional manner, they will not mind at all spending $10 to be able to tell the world about it. No people are not going to pay $10 to be able to post that they ordered and animal and it showed up OK. That should be par for the course. But if things go wrong and you get taken care of above and beyond what you had expected, THOSE are the posts that should be placed on the BOI. In reality, if everything went exactly as it should be in all transactions, there would be nothing at all to post on the BOI. What I have wanted to see there all along, are the EXCEPTIONS to the norm, both good and bad. This is what people would be willing, I think, to pay the $10 to be able to post.
If you like, look at it as an insurance policy that you can pay for retroactively, as needed. You can still read what is going on here, but if you don't have the need nor desire to post there right now, no problem. But at least you, and the potential bad guys, know it is there when you need it. And in the same vein, maybe it would be best to cut back some of the sideline chatter anyway, so I don't really think this will be a substantial drawback. From the start, people have complained about people who had no real stake in the issues chiming in, well here you go..... Maybe this will help somewhat to prune that sort of activity back a bit.
For just $10 a year, this would help weed out the fake IDs that post there. It would help to limit the people who drop in out of nowhere and really have no other reason to post in the BOI but to get their name in print in the sig lines. It will make the fine and warning system a bite with teeth, because a person suspended will have to pay another $10 fee if they create a false logon anyway, so why not just pay the fine and be done with it? For just $10 per year from a substantial number of people, heck, I may even have enough incentive to where I would try to make things even better. I have had ideas sitting in the wings for a while, but they are ideas that would cost me not only in programming efforts ($$) to implement, but would likely be a real headache to manage, that I am just not willing to take on for free.
I believe I have always been upfront about this site and what I had in mind for it. Yeah, I had no idea the day I set it up that it would become the Frankenstein it has, but I think it is a benign Frankenstein, for the most part, unless you happen to be a bit less then honorable in your business dealings. But it does turn on it's creator every now and again, making me wish I had done something else that day. A such, I have tried to always solicit advise from the members here and listened to what was said. I have evaluated every idea presented, tried to implement what I could, and tried to explained why I could not do what was asked when it just was not feasible. Then sometimes I was able to do it anyway when things changed to make it feasible.
So why not listen to me for this? Perhaps it is time to take that one step back now in order to take the leap forward tomorrow. Yeah, I could lose some members over this, but I am hoping that it is not the cream of the crop that would be leaving. This site is still not even a shadow of what it could become in the future. So yes, those people leaving will most likely be back sooner or later anyway when they see the growth that has continued along without them. All I am asking is for the backing to enable me to do that. I just CAN'T do this myself any longer. Matter of fact, if it hadn't been for the moderators stepping up to the plate and taking quite a bit of load off of my shoulders here, this would have ended long ago..... A few others have been bending over backwards trying to drum up support in as many ways as they can, all via their own selfless efforts. As appreciated as all of these efforts are by me, still they cannot help with the other aspects that I now need to address. That is my job. One that cannot be done with the way things are here now. I believe that it is "change or die" time.
So if someone wants to get into a huff over a $10 fee being put in place to be able to post in certain areas, well gee to be honest, that just breaks my heart after what I have put into this site to get it where it is now.

Hate to sound callous about it, but really, you can't be serious.....