i was away for the weekend. i realize and understand people are saying "but he's not saying he'll ship differently". i spent most of my week and weekend discussing just this matter with my wife and family - my snakes are one of the most important things in my life and i never thought i'd ever have to defend that. it's a tough one as the attitude of many on the boi will attack me for the truth - but i think i'll get attacked either way, so i might as well... i like using the materials around me. it's that simple... to utilize all the boxes and materials we all mostly throw away. it's not a money thing, it's not a cheap thing. i'm not a child of the depression and i don't live under a bridge. most will say thats crap, you're cheap, but i cant keep you from thinking that. if you knew me, you'd know cheap is the last thing i am. but you don't know me so how can i convince you that homemade boxes and afternoon shipping is'nt cheap? i cant, and if i was reading this i'd have a hard time buying it myself, hence my hesitation. but that's my answer as to "why".
that said, i will no longer do these sorts of boxes and frankly, thats due to shadera coming on here and taking me to task - which she was right to do. i think a lot of things went astray on this thread due to my own defensiveness and shadera's tone. though she was rightfully pissed and maybe had i dealt better with shadera on her first email, this all could have gone smoother... but it truly took me awhile to go from "holy hell, i just gave her a free snake, and now i'm being lectured" to "she has a point, i need to ship better". in things like this, tone can be everything and the boi has never been a bastion of civil discourse, so it's more like things on these threads get hammered out, rather than worked out. and the part where i was accused of my snakes being thin, really put me over the edge and after that, this thread became something i could only defend myself from rather than learn from. also, i work in nyc but do not live there - like most of the folks who work in nyc, i travel in. my office is around the corner from both fedex and ups, so it's always been convenient.
the best point i heard on this thread, what really opened my eyes is someone stating that others, newbies, might learn from my way of packing. i really had to think about that; and thats not good.
due to the boi, i now have no choice but to be the best packer, the best shipper out there. for me and for the snakes and for the customers.
for those of you that have been helpful and thoughtful in this thread - thank you. this has been a really black week for me, and in many ways i deserved it, but thank you for trying to keep this thread decent and helpful and on point. to anyone who said or thought they'd not do business with shadera, please think again - she did what she felt she needed to do, and i think she proved how much she cares about her animals, so i've no doubt she's a good person to buy from, or sell to.
i remain a fan of this site, and like all of you search it before i do business with anyone.
i'll not post further on this. i need to move on. just know that i am hyper aware that anyone who purchases from me can easily add to this thread or start another if i am anything less than stellar. so i hope you don't see my name on a thread like this ever again.