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    Yeah, I know. They are a pain in the butt. But they pay the bills to keep my server running. Just a fact of life, I am afraid.

    Want to get rid of them? Simple. Just become a Contributor level member or above and they will be gone. -> Please click HERE."

    Is that too much for me to ask of you to keep this site running? Well, sorry about that. I too wish I could get everything for free. But alas.....

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    Google Adsense ad revenue for December, 2025 was just $30 over the cost of the lease for the server running this site. So, in effect, the money providing the incentive for me to continue running this site is coming SOLELY from the paid memberships and sponsorships here. Which honestly ain't much....

Profanity...

Yep, and that little line of text got Chuck banned on infraction points. I'm glad you find it humorous and worthy of copying, but the context in which Chuck used it was not appropriate and somewhat a catalyst for this thread I started.

Please remove it from your signature area. I would hate for members here to suffer from unfulfilled curiosity..... :rolleyes:

There you go big guy, all changed.

It was never meant to be anything but a temporary sig while I was poking Morphie, and I was done poking her a couple days ago.
 
It was never meant to be anything but a temporary sig while I was poking Morphie, and I was done poking her a couple days ago.

A vain gesture. If i didn't react to it when he said it first, why would i care if you posted it in your signature?
 
A vain gesture. If i didn't react to it when he said it first, why would i care if you posted it in your signature?

Oh it was not about whether you cared or not, that never even entered my thought process. It was purely for my own amusement. Which is pretty much why I do anything.
 
Oh it was not about whether you cared or not, that never even entered my thought process. It was purely for my own amusement. Which is pretty much why I do anything.

hm. good to know.
 
Respect

Here's what I feel it all boils down to: Respect

Respect is something that is getting lost or diminished from generation to generation. Yes, obviously I'm from the old school - "Yes ma'am," "Yes sir," etc, etc,..... Am I perfect? Certainly not! And I don't expect anyone/everyone else to be either.

It's been so long since I signed up here that I don't remember what the profanity rules are. Whether taught by our parents or learned from society, we all know what profanity is - what's considered offensive and what's not. Some profane words are less offensive than others.

I do consider the "D," "S" and "H" words to be profanity. These are words that most of us would not use when talking to our grandparents or teach our children that they're OK to use in everyday sentences. However, I don't consider them vile and I can handle seeing one of them pop up in a post here & there without me being offended or bothered by it. When they're used more than once in a single post or used often by a person, whether only once per post or more, it becomes offensive to me because I feel it shows disrespect to anyone/everyone. Even though I can do without seeing these words I have no desire to see them banned. After all, we're all human - and I'd be lying if I said that I've never said any of those words while reading a post.

I will say that I feel the absolute vile & vulgar words have no place on any general forum except for a specific forum like the "Hell" forum here. This is the standard for nearly all of the various types of forums I've participated in over several years. In fact, I do not participate on any forum that allows rampant profanity & vulgarity in the general forums. And I won't. I regularly participate on only two forums - this one and another one.

The special forum here for that kind of language & discussion is perfectly fine with me. It takes away any excuse by setting aside an acceptable place. By having that forum section Fauna is not taking away anyone's right to freedom of expression. That gives all of us our own rights, our own choice.

It's been said already - "There's a time & place for everything."

I think the "Three Strikes" rule Rich mentioned would be a good idea for the casual slip up or repeated use of mild profanity, but in cases of outright vulgarity - like: **** you! - I'm for an automatic 3-day timeout or something strict along that line. There's no need for that kind of language and it does none of us, especially this site, any good. I'm not saying that every D, S or H word be an infraction.

I think publicly addressing each infraction or warning goes a long way towards getting the message across to everyone. One thing for certain, though, I believe it has to be consistent and the rules should be made perfectly clear. If someone doesn't read the rules, it's their own fault.

That's the gist of what I have to say about profanity rules. The rest of this post deals with what I consider to be the bottom line with the use of profanity - "Respect."

The Internet takes away the visual contact, communication. Some of us tend to use words or say things in a way that we normally wouldn't if we were face-to-face with them. Not neccessarily because we'd be afraid of getting our face slapped or our head busted, but more out of general respect. Another point that is lost on forums is that the person we're posting a reply to or about isn't the only person that will see our response. There shouldn't be much of a difference between posting on a forum and writing messages/replies on a billboard in your front yard. It is a representation of you for all the world to see.

So, post a reply that you wouldn't mind sending a link to your grandmother for her to read. Keep in mind that someone's young child, grandchild, mother and/or grandmother is likely to read what you post. Treat people like you want them to treat your mother or child. I can understand not having respect for someone because of their business practices or because of the names or words they use, but shouldn't we still respect the rights of the many more people that silently read our posts?

Granted, some "characters" on here practically deserve most of what they get - descriptive word & name wise. But everybody already knows what type of person that individual is so there's no point in risking offending those that don't like to see the profanity. And using profane words' initials is just the same as if it's spelled out in whole.

For the record, I'm not a saint and I don't consider those that use profanity to be heathens. Once in awhile I may let out a profane word or two and sometimes even a string of 'em. But not on public forums or in mixed company.

All I ask is that we try to show some respect to everyone. We know that for every thread participant there are many, many more silent readers in the background.

Ya'll have a great day!
HH
 
Oh it was not about whether you cared or not, that never even entered my thought process. It was purely for my own amusement. Which is pretty much why I do anything.

Thank you for removing that signature statement.

In the future, please use some other method to antagonize other members if that is your inclination. If you have a business gripe, then that is what the BOI is for. If you have a personal issue and insist on making it public, then the HELL forum is the place for you to engage in such activities.

Obvious vendettas that border on (or are blatantly) cyberstalking will be actively discouraged here.

I'm trying to clean this place up, and would appreciate cooperation from everyone in that attempt.
 
So, post a reply that you wouldn't mind sending a link to your grandmother for her to read. Keep in mind that someone's young child, grandchild, mother and/or grandmother is likely to read what you post. Treat people like you want them to treat your mother or child. I can understand not having respect for someone because of their business practices or because of the names or words they use, but shouldn't we still respect the rights of the many more people that silently read our posts?

Obviously on a privately owned forum like this one, the rules for conduct and language will be laid out by the owner or mod team and their decisions trump any other factor.

As a more generalized discussion though, at what point in the above would you place the free will of the audience to listen to or read or not listen to and not read things they find objectionable as individuals?

For my part, in theory on the subject of free speech I believe that any view should be allowed to be expressed using any words the individual wants and that it's the responsibility of the audience to decide how much of it they want to expose themselves to.

In practice there are certainly things I won't say to or around certain people- predominantly because I know how they are likely to respond and I don't want to provoke that. And of course the idea of truly free speech includes a rubberstamped pass to lie and mislead, which I certainly don't agree with.

I'm just curious about where you would draw the line between the responsibility of the orator and the responsibility of the audience in deciding what's socially acceptable.
 
I'm just curious about where you would draw the line between the responsibility of the orator and the responsibility of the audience in deciding what's socially acceptable.

Society, itself, has already established what is acceptable thousands of years ago. The problem today is the moral values that they were based on are diminishing.

"Society", in general, is all-inclusive. From infant to elderly, from angelic to heathenistic. The good, the bad, and the ugly (and the beautiful, too).

Seamus,
You used the terms "orator" and "audience." Within the context of those two terms I feel the responsibility falls directly, 100%, on the oratater (hillbilly language - "ora-tater", = "orator" :D ) . His target audience is his society. The orator establishes what's acceptable according to his target audience.

How many people are likely to stop reading/listening to someone that is not using profane or vulgar words - versus- how many are likely to do so if profane or vulgar words are being used?

With anywhere from 250,000 to nearly 1 million words in the English language, can we not be as colorful, descriptive, without using 10 or so particular words?


As a more generalized discussion though, at what point in the above would you place the free will of the audience to listen to or read or not listen to and not read things they find objectionable as individuals?
I'd prefer to try to keep within the context of this thread. It is a forum owner's choice to select his target audience and try to choose the best standards to reach that audience.

If I get tired of the language and/or antics that are allowed on a forum that I'm not already established on I simply move on to find one more accommodating. If I like the general philosophy behind the site, most of it's members, and feel that the owner is on the right track I will usually stay & try to help make a difference.


For my part, in theory on the subject of free speech I believe that any view should be allowed to be expressed using any words the individual wants and that it's the responsibility of the audience to decide how much of it they want to expose themselves to.
I guess we all need to ask ourselves, "What is the purpose of expressing our views?" Mine is usually to try to get people to think, or to try to educate. Coarse language is not an effective tool for that. Now, if I wanted to ridicule or demean someone profanity can be effective, however, I can do the same thing with plenty of other words.

Catch ya later!
HH
 
Well, there are practical considerations that need to be kept in mind when running a public website. Profanity throughout the general population of a message board site CAN get the site filtered and blocked at corporate firewalls. It can also get sites blocked when browsers on personal PCs have parental controls set into place to filter such sites from the children at home exploring the web.

These were all things I had to keep in mind when I opened up the HELL forum to any member who wishes to gain access to that forum. I believe it is not very easy for standard web spiders to do so, but anyone viewing that forum while at work does run the risk of getting this site blocked by their network people.

And although this site is not specifically targeting children, and in fact I believe I have the registration process set to reject anyone who ADMITS to being under 13 years old, most certainly children will be here viewing threads. So while the assumption is being made that such filtering is taking place, in practical terms, efforts SHOULD be made to try to discourage the daily use of such language that most parents likely would not want their children reading and repeating themselves.

While I am certainly a supporter of our freedom in relation to the US Constitution and Bill of Rights, those practical limits mentioned above do need to be considered from an administrative viewpoint. If anyone views such a stance as being harsh or unduly unreasonable, certainly if you can produce a logical argument to me of WHY you must have access to that full range of vocabulary here, I will be willing to listen. But your argument had better be REAL, REAL good..... :rolleyes:
 
How many people are likely to stop reading/listening to someone that is not using profane or vulgar words - versus- how many are likely to do so if profane or vulgar words are being used?

Thanks for answering the questions, my view is a little different than yours and I appreciate the outside perspective.

With regards to the above... I definitely feel that the listener has at least as much responsibility as they person they're listening to. If I find myself on a webpage I disagree with, a television station that's got an editorial I don't like or with an open book that I think is incorrect... I make the choice to take myself away from it if it's bugging me that much.

As a direct response to the above... Well, I've personally turned my back on street preachers who's choice of language was beyond reproach because their message the content of their ideas wasn't something I cared to expose myself to.. And I've certainly seen and enjoyed movies or comedians who's language wasn't polite- but who's ideas I found fascinating.
 
With regards to the above... I definitely feel that the listener has at least as much responsibility as they person they're listening to.
Ha! Ha! If you only knew how many times I changed my answer on that. Can a line really be drawn? It falls solely on the listener, solely on the orator, and evenly divided between them. :shrug01:

Keep in mind that I am a hillbilly and that can give new meaning to the term "outside perspective." Ha! Ha!

Different perspectives, different opinions - Ahhh, the beauty of forums and what makes them work, why they can be valuable.

I don't want to be a member of a forum where everyone thinks just like I do. I couldn't get along with them, for one thing.

One last thing - Don't anyone go thinking that I dislike someone because of the language they've used. I don't think I've ever been "offended" by anything I've read here on Fauna. Just because someone may like to post language that I don't use in posts doesn't mean that we can't get along or even be best of friends. I mean, after all, my momma still loves me even after all I put her through. :thumbsup:

Ya'll take care!
HH
 
Another way to judge responsiblity (imo) is "My rights stop where another's begin." While I have the right to say whatever I want whenever I please, so does another have the right to not be assaulted by words that are generally considered offensive.

Most people don't go to a forum expecting to read reams of profanity, and as would be their right, they would stop reading and withdraw. This translates into a lost of members/revenue.

Then on the other hand..like calls to like, some may LOVE the kind of "freedom" to let it "all hang out" regardless of whom reads the forums and they would join. I guess it really all depends on which direction the forum is intended to go. It doesn't have to be children looking at it that are offended, it could simply be a business person that prefers not to associate with anyone that doesn't have the sense of "decorum" to realize that the reptile customer base is wide and varied.

I remember (sometime ago) there were quite a few remarks on one scammer's t-shirt and how some commented on the "message" it gave out about his business practices....ummmm
 
Coming from the perspective of someone who runs another reptile forum...

The issue of acceptable language is always a sticky one, and one our team wrestles with on a fairly regular basis. Every couple of months or so, we find ourselves reviewing our policies of restrictions and enforcements on matters of vocabulary. And, for the most part, we find our level of restrictions remains fairly constant...while our methods of enforcement are being honed and refined. All in all, I'd say we have a pretty successful track-record for keeping the site "clean."

The hard part is defining your bounderies. What is acceptable to some is offensive to others. No matter where you draw your lines, that will always be the case. So figure out what makes the most sense to those who must enforce the rules...and just stick with it, no matter how much whining or complaining is encountered along the way.

I found that for our site, the "Infraction" system is working pretty well. It's not perfect, but it's a valuable tool, even so. Except in rare cases of extreme abuse, language infractions are very minor....but still very effective. We also have a "warning" option that we use for any new member or someone who has never earned an infraction before. It works with the exact same mechanism as the regular infractions, but carries zero points. It allows us to make someone aware of our rules and limits without punishing them for being new to the site. It also allows us to enforce our rules with established members who may have a rare slip-up but otherwise have never done anything remotely hurtful to the site.

The "warning" system has worked extremely well, and only offends those with exquisitely delicate egos. :rolleyes:

I don't believe a heavier hammer is always the key to bringing folks in line...just solid consistency across the board. And while we're not always perfect in that consistency, I do believe the closer we come to it, the more peaceful and "clean" our site becomes.
 
ummm sorry Im new don't quite have the rules down I will see about the fauna ads! But ou don't have to be so rude to a noob to the site. I just wanna kick back and relax! So I mean just a nice reminder would be very nice
 
ummm sorry Im new don't quite have the rules down I will see about the fauna ads! But ou don't have to be so rude to a noob to the site. I just wanna kick back and relax! So I mean just a nice reminder would be very nice

My response WAS nice. Some other sites would have just booted you immediately.....
 
I joined in may but didnt post until a week ago
Guess you forgot about these....
06-30-2008, 10:12 AM, 12-29-2008, 03:18 AM, 12-29-2008, 03:26 AM
01-11-2009, 10:35 AM, 01-11-2009, 06:33 PM, 02-28-2009, 09:00 PM
(there were more, but at least they were within the past few weeks)

I know, I'm a pain in the butt - blame it on the hour, and the fact that I am still awake - I'll give you that most of your posts were in the past 2 weeks, though.
 
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