I think I need to re-address this issue.
Been seeing an increase in members using profanity on this site, and then in some instances lashing out at the moderator who gave them an infraction. Of course, they use even more foul language in their responses to the moderator, apparently believing that their use of profanity is some sort of God given right that management here
has to allow.
First off, this is a publicly accessible message board. In some instances, corporate firewall filters will filter out and/or block sites completely that have a large helping of profane words used in the posted text. Since many people will view this site from their work computers, I do not want that to happen to this site. I am trying to encourage more traffic and more participation, so this route is directly contrary to what I hope to accomplish here.
Plus minors will often view this site, having a budding interest in animals and wanting to learn more. So when their parents note the amount of profanity seen in the postings their children are viewing, they will likely block this site's access to them as well. Do I want potential new participants and advertisers blocked from this site? Do sellers here want potentially new customers blocked from viewing their ads? I don't think you need to be a genius to come up with the correct answers to those questions.
Now if anyone can present a convincing argument to me why I should not be concerned about such things, and welcome profanity all across this site, and that perspective is completely wrong, then by all means, take a stab at it. But just to head the argument off before it starts, I don't CARE what has become more commonplace in the media. I don't CARE what is normal for you, your family, and your friends. If you feel that the use of profanity in your publicly posted messages is absolutely necessary for your own wellbeing, health, comfort, or survival, then quite likely you need to come to realize that this site is just not one you are going to be welcome to participate within. But go ahead, prove me wrong. I've been known to change my mind once or twice in my lifetime.
Now, as far as members sending profanity laced private messages or emails using this site's functions, please consider that as your swan song. The moderators are volunteers here, and they just do not deserve that sort of abuse. They are helping me to keep this site running in a manner that will hopefully be acceptable to the majority of the participants. If YOU make it uncomfortable or distressful for them having to deal with YOU, then trust me, YOU are a whole lot more expendable to me than they are. You will be lucky if they ban you for only three days. If I get to you first, it will be a ban for a LOT longer. Depending on the severity of the discourse, perhaps even permanent. As for sending ME profanity laced PMs or emails, I will assume that you have no desire nor intention of coming back to this site and will treat that notice as is deserved. I just don't need such people in my life, so they will be booted out of it.
I have been ratcheting up the severity of such infractions over the past couple of years rather than just jumping in and throwing up a brick wall for people to smash into overnight, not realizing my goals. I actually did that once, and it didn't go over very well, so I am being more conservative this time around about the pressure I want to apply here. But I am prepared to ratchet the pressure up another notch, even if it means weeding out the people who can't seem to live without typing in profanity. Not quite to the "one strike and you are out" level yet, but I'm getting aggravated enough about people crapping in my site to where that is a distinct possibility in the very near future.
Seriously people, you can't make your point without profanity? Do you really think it makes YOU look better in other people's eyes? Seriously? I mean, SERIOUSLY?? How early in life did your education and maturity just STOP?