• Responding to email notices you receive.
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    In short, DON'T! Email notices are to ONLY alert you of a reply to your private message or your ad on this site. Replying to the email just wastes your time as it goes NOWHERE, and probably pisses off the person you thought you replied to when they think you just ignored them. So instead of complaining to me about your messages not being replied to from this site via email, please READ that email notice that plainly states what you need to do in order to reply to who you are trying to converse with.

  • IMPORTANT! PLEASE READ!! About the Google Adsense ads being displayed

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    Yeah, I know. They are a pain in the butt. But they pay the bills to keep my server running. Just a fact of life, I am afraid.

    Want to get rid of them? Simple. Just become a Contributor level member or above and they will be gone. -> Please click HERE."

    Is that too much for me to ask of you to keep this site running? Well, sorry about that. I too wish I could get everything for free. But alas.....

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    Google Adsense ad revenue for December, 2025 was just $30 over the cost of the lease for the server running this site. So, in effect, the money providing the incentive for me to continue running this site is coming SOLELY from the paid memberships and sponsorships here. Which honestly ain't much....

Reminds me of a rave.

Props to you all for trying with this guy and giving him way more understanding and dialogue than I would. My word to him or anyone else who does not like a forum, people, a job, this county, mean words, unwarm vibes, unhuggy feelings, humor...

Just say goodbye and move on... No one OWES you anything. Friendships, trust and other assorted warm and fuzzies are built over time, not constant drama queenery.

I was as petulant, confused and anti-social as they come when I was younger, but my peer group would have torn this guy a new one.

Mr. Boots, if you happen to read this I will offer you this:

1) People have long memories and are very good at holding a grudge. It is not their responsibility to forgive you or change your behavior. YOU must earn forgiveness and choose to change your own behavior. Think your thoughts through before you vomit them out or reap the consequences and suck them up like an adult (which you are or soon will be).

2) Don't take a supervisory job anytime soon. Irritating and antagonizing co-workers, then whining to them about how nobody likes you is not good policy.

That is all the limited wisdom I have to impart to you. If you somehow find your way back on here, there is no need to respond as I will not respond in turn. You have wasted enough of my time already. These are 15 minutes of my life that I will never get back.

Good bye and good luck. Do a personality overhaul and check back in sometime.
 
I guess if Boots is wearing out his welcome one site at a time, he may be over at Armslocker soon.:ack2:
 
Certainly hope this young fellow gets things together and realizes what he thinks is people hating on him is probably the mosts honesty he will ever recieve in his live.. Perhaps the ego shall be healed and the realization that you can't keep what you have if you can't give it away.. Hopefully some real world sense drops him a chime and he can go forth and get on with living with the rest of world, and then he might be able to come back to be a regular in the community that gets the respect he is so deeply desiring..

Regards.. Tim of T and J
 
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