RyanT said:
I have many references that will tell you in private.
Ryan,
The reason Doni was questioned was because of the appearance of the post (that large font was a bit irritating), the lack of any real info in the post, the fact that he was new to Fauna (that being his very first post in fact), and of course the fact that it came hard on the heels of your most recent suspension. That all, coupled with your history of bypassing suspensions had to strike some even not so cynical folks as being at least a little suspicious.I know that it did me.
Now, it has been shown by the mods that his IP is unique and resolves to Idaho. That's a good indication that he isn't you. From reading his posts it seems he did not read the threads regarding you before buying and admitted that he would not have done so if he had known then what he knows now. And he asked that he be judged on his own merits, not yours. Fair enough.
Your mistakes could possibly be forgiven if two things happen. We see more people posting about really good deals that they have transacted with you. Doni's posts are a step in that direction. If and when he produces morphs from the hets I do hope that he posts here. If he does not after two clutches, I hope that he posts that you honored the genetics guarantee and repurchased the animals. Since you are selling hets that you did not produce, you should know that is always a risk. That is why I (speaking only for myself) would be very reluctant to sell hets that I did not produce myself. If you got them from Ralph himself then you have absolutely nothing to worry about I am sure.
The second thing that needs to happen is that you need to do some growing up and learn how to control that nasty temper of yours. If you spoke the way that you do in person I guarantee that you would have your head handed to you on a regular basis. Not by me perhaps, but certainly by some Neanderthal with even less impulse control than you seem to own. Go take some anger management classes, get therapy, or do what you must. You can chalk mistakes up to being "young" for only so long. After that you need to stand up, be a man, and own them.
Now ponder this if you will. Tosha, remember her? Your friend Tosha, the one who thinks you are "cool". She has a hard time here mostly because of her character and attitude. You came here on your horse and valiantly tried to rescue her. You made enough "mistakes" in one post to get suspended. Read that post again. Do you think that post which you made in
her "good guy" thread helped her in any way? Is it possible that someone who is contemplating a deal with her in the future will see that and think better to stay away from her and her attack dog?
Think about it. Don't answer. Just think about it calmly. And then ponder this piece of advice: perhaps it's best to work on your own issues and reputation before you attempt to repair someone else's and do them more harm than good.