* SEX *

[ladyserpent7]

I can see this more from a woman's standpoint then a guys. Guys, usually have varying degree's of motives but all of them generally lead to the bedroom.

Griz

I KNEW IT..

 

[Griz]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to make love with a beautiful woman 24/7. Heck, I'm not even breaking a sweat until a few hours in!

 

[ladyserpent7]

yah griz..but thats you.talkin bout your wife..whom you love......most guys probably dont even look at the face...ha

 

[beardedboy]

i would jump any any hot chicks pants... the only way i would not want to if they had crabs or some STD

 

[Lucille]

.....I am satan in the body of a man.

Yeah, that's nothing out of the ordinary, a lot of y'all fit that description

 

[ladyserpent7]

i would jump any any hot chicks pants... the only way i would not want to if they had crabs or some STD

yah..but dont think any "hot chick" would just let you...

 

[hhmoore]

i would jump any any hot chicks pants... the only way i would not want to if they had crabs or some STD

like they're gonna tell you, lol. Not to sound (and use) cliche, but look before you leap, my friend. Not to mention, better safe than sorry. And an ounce of protection is worth a pound of cure.

 

[ZX11]

I have done more than my share, but, many times I confuse myself.

I wish I had waited until marriage...............
But then, I am glad I gained the expirience before marriage.

As the years passed, I learned one thing for certain: it is worth the wait. If a woman wants to jump betwen the sheets when we first meet, I am gone. If she is that easy for me, who's to say she wouldn't do the same with someone else?

Impulsive bed hopping days have been over for me for some time. I'll leave that to the young bucks who think they have someting to prove.

When we are young, it seems the higher the number of conquests is all that counts, but age shows us that numbers are foolish. It is isn't the quanity, it is quality.

My philosphy is that sex, like relationships, is like a vacation. The fun is the journey, not the desination. Make the journey last, take the scenic route. Once the journey is over, what's left?

 

[Lucille]

My philosphy is that sex, like relationships, is like a vacation. The fun is the journey, not the desination. Make the journey last, take the scenic route.

I like your concept of travel....

 

[Griz]

i would jump any any hot chicks pants... the only way i would not want to if they had crabs or some STD

If that is not the epitome of foolishness.

Confucius says "foolish bravado leads to itchy crotch......"

Griz

 

[bcfos]

i would jump any any hot chicks pants... the only way i would not want to if they had crabs or some STD

Considering 4 out of 10 young hot chick will give you the oral herpes love or worse.. Well you get my point. And it isn't like in the "heat of the moment" she is going to actually tell you "By the way I have herpes". More than likely going to end up after the "deed" is finished you get the "Oh by the way" line and you have that sinking feeling in your soul and crotch and just want to either kill her or yourself. And for the love of god that old line "I am on the pill so you don't have to use protection" only means you not only "double glove" but dip that puppy in latex based paint a couple hundred times and allow it to dry in a cast like formation to insure you don't catch "the funk".

 

[nicolai]

Beings friends in all is good and all in theory but in all too many cases people become long term friends only to find out when they ave sex that they are sexually incompatible or inadequate for the other. Some women like a man "built" a certain way and some men prefer women a certain way as well as both having different expectations of what is expected during sexual encounters. You may say that if they love each other then they wont care what the other has or what they will do for the other but history shows us its usually an obstacle that cant be overcome in the long run. Before getting married I had women go on dates for one reason and one reason only, they got to talking to their friends and wanted nothing more than short term gratification with no commitment in mind, as well as married women wanting to wander because their man is either incapable or unwilling to satisfy them.

 

[ms_terese]

And for the love of god that old line "I am on the pill so you don't have to use protection" only means you not only "double glove" but dip that puppy in latex based paint a couple hundred times and allow it to dry in a cast like formation to insure you don't catch "the funk".

Reason #972 that I appreciate being in a monogamous relationship.

 

[nicolai]

How long have you been in your relationship. Did things slow down over time or is it still as exiting and as often as it was in the begining of your relationship??

 

[HerpLuver]

I was raised a church boy. Alot of reluctance heading to church every sunday, especially when i was the rebellious type. But i always listened to my mother, and my grandmother. Two of the wisest people on the face of the planet. In my world at least. I followed there guidelines for the most part as to relationships and sex. As per my mom and grandmothers advice, I had planned on waiting till i was married and with Mrs. Right! 17 came around, my hormones kicked into gear and i was flying at Mach 10 towards every willing participant. The motto that "I'm never getting married" was on the tip of my tongue all the time. It took me a few years to realize that the easy one's, where the one's i needed to stay away from. I decided to settle down. Met my first son's mother in 97. We started dating in late 98, and seperated in sept 03. I've been with my 2nd son's mother since Dec 03. We've known each other for 15 years now. I've found in the 10 years that i've been "active" i've realized that long term relationships are the best. Alot of times, the girls that give it up real easy, are never the one's to bring home to mom. I'll tell you what though, if YOU play hard to get with a woman, there will be ONE of TWO reactions. A - She'll leave thinking you dont like her, arent interested, think your too good for her, something along those lines. B - She'll think your a respectable man, a great "catch", and something worth waiting for, and will probably start catching some serious feelings kinda quick. *so be careful, lol* So i would have to say, after some thought, that my answer is "I dont have to take forever to get acquainted, but i have to like them" So i'd say within the first 2 weeks is a bit fast, but the first month, Your acquainted enough. It's all about that spark too. Sometimes that right there can alter the amount of time it takes.

 

[LadyOhh]

Chris,

I can't agree with you more.

"Alot of times, the girls that give it up real easy, are never the one's to bring home to mom."

I've been that woman only once.. It was the worst decision I had ever made.

I now deal with relationships in which I intend to have a long term relationship.

Sex is a power that women tend to have over men.

When you give it away often, your power dwindles. Especially bringing in the factor of disease, that just puts another nail in the coffin!

This is not to say that men can't lord the almighty penis over some women to bring them into submission, but it is less effective to the general female population, IMHO. (Unless it is huge, or can dance, or vibrates maybe?? I don't know...)

I appreciate the time and energy spent in meeting someone and REALLY getting to know them, inside and out (including maybe the "funk") so that one will not be as suprised or dissapointed when sex actually occurs.

Women are emotional beings, and there has to be some type of connection for the sex to be good. How can one have an emotional connection if you don't even know anything about the person??

Of course, not everyone fits in these categories, which is what makes these forums and humans so interesting!!

 

[Chris Steele]

Heather, men are emotional beings as well, most women tend to forget that stereotyping us all as assholes. I know plenty of guys who do not associate emotion with sex at all though and a pretty large number of ladies as well. I'm with you though, I'm young, but I'm through with that whole hop in the sack and be done thing.

 

[Chris Steele]

Question:

What is good sex? What are some of the biggest factors of making sex good? Since I've matured I haven't though of a huge dick as being important, though I was constantly worried about this up until I was 16 probably.

For me what makes good sex is affection, thats number one. Other than that all I can think of is skill...

 

[KUVACHIM]

the difference between sex, and good sex (I always thought), is how you feel about the person... just me though.

 

[leopard frog]

This does not belong in a frog forum. should delete this sections. marlon