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[Lucille]

* poll *

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[RedQuake]

Its sad to say, but i've jumped into the sack more times than i like to admit. For a long time i felt that it was all i was good for and really, it was the only way to keep a guys attention.

Now though, if he wants to get intimate, he'll have to earn it. Theres got to be some commitment there first so if we have an OOPS he doesn't go running for the door.

When your looking for a life time relationship, sex isn't what one should base it on. Granted its wonderful and all but theres got to be something more, friendship, good communication and just liking eachother to hold things together when the road gets bumpy.

Theres a term that the girls use at work- FTF - friends that ****

That aspect is exciting to me, having someone around to help relieve those desires/tension with no expectations. But seeing as i'm looking for a LTR it wouldnt' serve my purpose. And i'm not ready to be a single mom. Plus theres more to me that just that. I'm a very intellectual person so i'd like to think i can have a diverse and stimulating conversation. I'm also very much a kid at heart, so i like to act silly and watch cartoons every now and then.

I'm a packaged deal, if he wants one part he'll have to want the rest too
Red

 

[bcfos]

I think you can guess how I voted.....

 

[JungleHabitats]

and that would be your problem ...

but yet you wonder why you have ladies slashing those tires still ???lol

 

[Seamus Haley]

There is a huge range in the decision of when to have sex, from a gentle feminine gift to her beloved after long acquaintance to lusty cocksmen who take it everywhere they can get it.

Is it just me or does that statement seem a little gender biased?

 

[robin d.]

lusty cocksmen

freudian slip?
a rooster and man in the same word/phrase LMAO
what does that mean anyways?

 

[bcfos]

Re: and that would be your problem ...

but yet you wonder why you have ladies slashing those tires still ???lol

Not after I got the restraining order.....

Also I am a bit more security minded now. I have always had an alarm system in any home I have lived in but now I have ventured into CCTV and it does wonders with evidence for the police.

 

[Stardust]

!!!!

 

[bcfos]

Gee, I have two restraining orders out, really stinks when you have to go to court just to get a guy to leave you alone!!!!

Well I hope they do indeed leave you alone. It is a sad sad world we live in when nutcases run around making our lives uncomfortable.

 

[Sybella]

I'll abstain from voting on this poll because I can't find the in between selection. LOL! While, I don't sleep around, I have had a couple of first dates that started off with a bang.

Brian...you just gotta stop being so good so these ladies will leave you alone without a restraining order.

 

[Lucille]

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[Lucille]

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[Seamus Haley]

Fauna doesn't register unique thread views... Meaning if I open a thread, it marks it once. I open the next page, it marks it again because it's reloading part of the thread. I leave for a bit and come back later to view responses, it marks it as read again. Heck opening a thread and writing a response automatically counts for two because it reloads the thread to display your post.

So a hundred and eighty odd views doesn't mean 180+ people have looked at it... Just that those who have are doing so with a frequency that'll make us blind if we don't put it down. I'm sure there are people who didn't bother voting but probably not as many as it appears.

And it doesn't matter much one way or the other if you change the statement Lucille, just it seemed kinda gender biased and I was wondering if you intended to villify men while promoting women as in some fashion "pure"

 

[Wilomn]

Seamus you're not implying, no, it couldn't be, it's simply not possible, how could you, but wait, maybe you're not, no, then again ...... you don't REALLY, do you, mean to imply that women AREN'T pure, do you?

No, no, no, I must simply have misunderstood your thinking process because we ALL know that ALL women, without exception, are pure as new fallen snow.

But wait, if snow that falls somewhere like New York City it may NOT be as pure as snow that is falling on some peak in The Rockies. OOOOHHHHH NOOOOOOOOOO!!! By this comparison it could be logically concluded (which makes it veritably impossible for any woman to understand it) that NOT all women are pure as new fallen snow.

Seamus, this is ALL your fault.

 

[Lucille]

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[Seamus Haley]

and men can be sweet and sensitive souls who nurture emotions and are relationship oriented

I'm not so sure about that part.

Come to think of it, the last person to call me sensitive was a buddy of mine and I believe I shot him in the chest with a bottle rocket for it.

There has to be some kind of reasonable middle ground... I mean, not every guy is automatically going through life looking for the next woman to use and abandon, but there's no need to get insulting and start throwing around words like "nurture emotions" because that's just being sarcastic.

 

[Wilomn]

How can you nurture something you can't even be sure exists?

Can't touch em, can't see em, can't taste em, can't smell em, can't hear em.

All we have to go on is the "fairer" sex telling us they are "controlled" by them. Or, in the interest of truth, they "allow us to think" they are controlled by emotions. This would of course keep us, us being men in general, from knowing just how clinically conniving women actually are. Not logical mind you, as that would allow us, us being men in general, to ACTUALLY understand some of the hows and whys that make women what they are.As a mere man I don't have the word for it, calculating or coldly inhuman or without regard for or something along those lines that eventually leads to them, them being women in general, getting EXACTLY what they want.

We spend all this wasted time trying to figure out emotions, what they are, how they work, why ours are different from the women we know and love, and it's all WASTED time. There are no such things as EMOTIONS. It's a ruse, a bluff, a cleverly fabricated and ongoing joke perpetrated by the women of the world against us poor, caring, basically defensless men, so that instead of achieving happiness ourselves, ourselves being men in general, we strive to find that which we are lacking but know the finding of would make happy the women we care for happy and they, they being women in general, laugh all the way to the bank, mall, shoe store, shiney new car, etc etc etc, all the while KNOWING we seek for that which, like women understanding logic, has NO existance.

Bamboozled, rooked, confabulated, they done got us. By the short ones too because we go willingly, happily volunteering, with smiles on our faces, into the war which cannot be won because there is NO actual opponent. We strive to find that which does not exist. Emotions, bah I say.

Good job ladies and keep up the good work.

You will now be returned to your regularly scheduled programming on Women's Entertainment.

 

[Lucille]

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[A3reptiles.com]

Very true. . . very true

 

[Stardust]

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