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so who has tried dating sites and did they work?

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i have used plenty of fish now for about 3 months and met a few girls.... but nothing serious. Just wondering if its worth it to pay money for match.com or is it not worth it?
 
Personally have never used one, but a couple years ago my dad married someone he met on eharmony. They seem very happy.
 
One of my ex's sister's met her now-husband on eharmony.com. I used to be a member of okcupid.com (free) but I never got the nerve up to go out with anyone and shortly deleted my account. :p
 
I met my new husband on Plenty of Fish a year and several months ago and my brother met his new wife on there as well about 9 months ago. My Dad has also met his new S.O on there about 5 months ago. Sites like that can be helpful but most of the paid ones are not really worth it. My brother was on several for about a year and a half before meeting his wife. He didn't meet many possibles up until his wife. My husband also was on various sites for more than a year before we started talking and didn't go on a date with anyone before me from any of the sites. Think it varies by your area but around here there are 10 guys to every 1 woman that is actually serious and wants more than to talk. Also seemed to depend on the age range as well. Just have patience, I guess is my point. Good luck!
 
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