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Special gifts

A special gift: What would YOU do?

  • I would find out their favorite food and make them a home cooked meal.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Roses and chocolate, I give the same stuff to all of 'em

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I would take the time to find out their hobby and buy something small but meaningfull that I know th

    Votes: 8 61.5%

  • They have me, what more do they want?

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • A special evening out, a nice restaurant, theater or sports

    Votes: 1 7.7%

  • Something sexy: a negligee or silk boxers

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Any small item is fine, what is important is that I convey how I feel

    Votes: 2 15.4%

  • other

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    13
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If you find someone you really like, sooner or later it might cross your mind to gift them with something special because you like them a lot. What sorts of gifts are you likely to give?
 
You left out a very important category:

Major Home Appliances!

What woman does not love getting a new washer/drier on her special day?

Seriously, I used to buy gifts for me, lingerie or the like that I would love to see them in and then out of. As I have grown older it's giving the gift that supports their hobby or interest that has ultimately given me the most joy.

Brownie
 
If they have been really good, maybe a new mop and bucket for Christmas - anyone here remember this from "Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman" long ago?

Kevin
 
For one special person on here I think 1.2 Sonoran Lyre snakes will suffice for now. However, for the rest of you ladies, howzabout a session of toe sucking (still trying to win "Fauna's Kinkiest Male poll I guess)? LOL.

Kevin
 
I love the small stuff, I give notes and cards and find small gifts or gag gifts. Surprise picnic. Just stuff.
I had one guy do some really sweet stuff for me. I received a huge box in the mail, and when I opened it a bunch of balloons came flying out and in the box was a little jewelery box with kisses and hugs to be used at will :)
Another one he did was, well, you know gordettos? Well I like the rye bread in the packaging, he went out and bought lots of bags and just took out my favorite ones and then re-packaged them into one big bag of my favs. Now that took some time :)
 
Me I don't like gifts at all (well getting them) because it tend to make me think I am comitted when I am not. Now if I mess up and do something stupid (which in a relationship is quite often) I am not above trying to "buy" my way out of trouble at all. ;)
 
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