On this very thread there have also been enough people telling you that your yearling yellow rat is a normal size for age, too.
You just choose not to listen.
How sad I am for you.
If you wanted an adult, then you should fork over the cash for one. This entire thread has your concerns about money all over it. First you wanted to buy a snake and then couldn't afford one-so you had to wait. Then you got mad because you couldn't afford the money to comply with the breeder's stated TOS and buy a pair. Then you get the "snake you fell in love with" and now you don't think she's worth the money you paid because you feel she should be larger.
You are inexperienced. That's not the issue. We all start off that way. However, you deliberately REFUSE to accept anything other than what you feel is the case. That's not how you learn. Daniel (and the other colubrid breeders here, including myself) could have been a wealth of info for you. But not when you refuse to listen.
I did listen, yes, some said the snake was the right size, I disagree. What of those that said the snake is small? or those that said they understand why I was disappointed? Are you saying I shouldn't listen to them? You only want me to listen to those that agree with you. Why is it that YOU refuse to listen to anything they say?
You say I should have forked out the money for an adult, but this thread says theres no difference in the price of a baby and an adult.
Money can be an issue, I had the budget to buy a snake, could have bought a 25 dollar snake, could have bought a 250 dollar snake, then the pipes froze and burst. That killed my snake budget for a few weeks. After those few weeks, I was back in the same place, I could afford a snake. I didn't get mad because I couldn't afford the buyer's TOS. The buyers TOS had not been specified. Again, read back about how many ads there were that said NOTHING about having to buy more than one snake. Yes, money matters, and I don't want to spend extra to buy a second snake, then buy materials to build an enclosure, find a place to put an enclosure.
My inexperience is not with snakes in general or colubrids even, its with yellow rat snakes. My experience with rat snakes is what told me to expect a larger snake than what I got.
It has become evident Magic, that YOU don't listen. This has gotten so twisted when in reality it was so simple :
AD is posted on KS for ONE female yearling yellow rat. NOTHING is said anywhere on the ad about males being available, NOTHING is said on ad that the female will not be sold by herself. NOTHING.
Arrangements are made to purchase animal, when dealer is told that customer want animal in ad, then, and only then does dealer inform customer that he doesn't want to sell lone female.
Dealer decides to honor ORIGINAL agreement.
Customer pays for snake. Customer gets snake. Customer appreciated correspondence and advice from dealer.
Customer is unhappy with size of snake. Dealer says snake is correct size.
Some people agree with customer, some people agree with dealer. MANY people twist the details into something else : it was never about the dealer bending over backwards to change or violate his TOS to make a person happy, it was never about a customer being given a special deal. It was purely about a dealer keeping an agreement and selling an animal at the advertised price.
You are one that agrees with Daniel about the size of the animal. Because I disagree with you, I'm wrong and inexperienced.
Are the others who agree with me on here wrong and inexperienced as well?
Do you feel sad for them too?
This is what makes an otherwise invaluable resource so flawed.
The BOI is a good resource, it could be GREAT. It's not because this high school type nonsense : good breeders get a following, which is good, but it becomes a clique. I've seen many threads were someone is almost vilified just because they go against the norm. If you have a problem with an established breeder, it can't be the breeder who did something , it must be you. If the breeder did make a mistake and does the right thing. they didn't really do the right thing, instead they are somehow glorified for going "above and beyond".
I've unfortunately seen this quite often on this forum, that is what's sad.