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IF WHEN WE ANNOUNCE WHO WE ARE AND YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN OUR COMPANY THEN JUST SAY NO THANKS AND HANG UP
Fair enough
As a matter of fact that is what I try to do.
I say I am not interested and TRY to hang up.
But before I get to hang up...they go on with their spiel...but I can take 25% off blah blah blah.
So I say "No thank you I am not interested"
Then they say in a pissed off tone. "WhY Not ?!?!"

It is not always the generl public who is rude.
Telemarketeers can be rude to.

If I am not interested then do not ask why not.

In fact there is only one thing I am interested in....and I don't think any telemarketeer can give me it over the phone.
 
I don't understand why someone would compare telemarketing to fast food any more than some of you understand the comparison to police work.

You are comparing an office job that pays you to have a general skill set to a minimum wage job that pays you to press buttons with pictures on them.


I have not completed college, nor do I have much work experience. I am looking for a job that will allow me to afford an apartment and cover expenses.

Where exactly do I look for a job?
 
Alright, let me get at this point by point.

Both the military and LEOs fully know what their job entails and they take it based on that knowledge. Just as telemarketers should. If they can't accept the down side, then they shouldn't take the job. All of them need to go into their job with their eyes open and fully prepared to take what they can expect to receive from it and because of it.

I agree, so long as this logic holds true all around, and not just for one side of this. Let's switch out some words.

People fully know what having a phone entails and they get one based on that knowledge. If they can't accept the downside, then they shouldn't get a phone. All of them need to get a phone with their eyes open and fully prepared to take what they can expect to receive from it and because of it.

Does it still hold there? If you say no, then I call that hypocrisy.

As far as telemarketers are concerned, no, having a phone doesn't implicitly grant them my permission to use it to throw sales pitches at me, nor restrain me from not appreciating it and letting them know about it.

Last time I checked, a person did not need your permission to call you. The laws of this land do not forbid them from doing so, and thus, grant them permission to do so. As I said before, you can respond to them in any way you wish.

Just as my having a door to my house that might happen to be unlocked be an implicit invitation to anyone inclined to just walk in and make themselves at home in my house.

This would be a viable comparison if someone calling you on the phone could legally be considered trespassing. As is, it is not viable.

I am paying for the phone service for MY use, not theirs.

And their employer is paying for its phone service for their use.

Further, to say that they may have no other option for employment and should be tolerated because of it, is pure nonsense.

I agree, especially since I didn't say this. In response to the comment that if they don't like being insulted constantly, they should do something else, I said that sometimes there isn't something else for them to do, due to any number of reasons. This pretty much makes the rest of that paragraph moot, but I want to look at one comparison.

So one of these poor souls threatening me with a tire iron should be simply handed over my wallet in recognition of their pitiful financial state? And such a person might be aghast that I would resist their overture for separating me from my money, or would they expect it and understand it comes with the territory?

In the case of telemarketing, it would be more akin to a bum on the street asking for money as opposed to someone forcibly taking your money, as you have a choice as to whether to give your money to telemarketers. Now, when that bum asks you for change, do you start yelling at him, telling him that he is worthless, and what the hell is he asking you for money for on Sunday morning? Do you tell him to do such and such or to meet you here, do you hold your hand with money in it out the window and then drive off just before he gets it, and then laugh about having made him waste his time and energy?

If a person doesn't like the necessities of a job they have chosen, then they need to change the job, not expect the rest of the world to change in order to accomodate what they want.

I agree, but that still doesn't justify someone being a jerk to a telemarketer simply because someone had to go pick up the phone. Rich, I have called you a few times, and did not send you one dime, and the time spent talking to me produced nothing extra, and probably impeeded other things getting done, if only for an hour or so. I, personally, have wasted more of your time than probably all the telemarketing calls you have received in the past two months. Why was I not the target of some scathing verbal onslaught?


Ritchie, and everyone else that has used this as justification for hurling insults at telemarketers, no one is forcing you to stay on the phone. If you say not interested and they keep talking, why not hang up? Because it's rude, you say? More rude than lobbing personal insults?

As I have said, it's ok to be annoyed at telemarketing calls. But to be told that it is ok to verbally lambast a group of people simply because they should expect it is a load of crap. Does America expect another terrorist attack to happen? I think most Americans do. Does that make it ok? Hell no.

This comparison works for both sides of this issue. Should you expect to be bothered by telemarketers? Yes. Does that make it right? No. Should they expect many people to be jerks? Yes. Does that make it right? No.

One might say, "But we are going after the terrorists." That's right. And you can do this with the telemarketers too. You can lobby congress to make telemarketing illegal. Being an ass to them on the phone, however, is comparable to spitting on your Muslim neigbhor because you don't like terrorists. It acheives nothing, with the exception that it makes you a jerk.

After this long post, I am really losing the motivation to continue debating this, as what I say will probably not change anyone's mind, and that's ok. What bothers me is here are these people who I respect, and they are saying it is ok to lump together this group of people, based on one trait that doesn't really define them, and declare that this group is deserving of poor treatment due to that trait, but that it is not ok to do this based on some other trait, such as owning reptiles. This is the whole reason I am debating this, not because I care whether or not you cuss out some telemarketer, but becuase the justification seems so hypocritical to me. If you are just a jerk, then I'm fine with that, but don't give me some rationalized, bullcrap reasoning about they should expect it. For me, this issue isn't about telemarketers, or people in general, it's about you guys.
 
bravo Richard, you have managed to stay in the arena.
I do not recall one person here saying that they cuss out a telemarketer when they call. That was what the started of this thread was asking us not to do.
the reason you won't change my mind is because I see both sides of the fence. I, like you are doing now, usually go for the underdog. But in this case I still say when I get and pay for a phone and pay extra to have it private I expect that. You say you have called Rich, how did you acquire the number? Was it on his site? Did he give it to you? Of course if I give a number out to someone it is ok to call, I CHOSE to give the number to that person. If I have a business and have a website and put the number on there, it is for the purpose of of talking shop, so to speak. There was a choice there too.
I feel I have a right to speak out about telemarketers because I DO take the time to write to people, I take the time to sign a clause saying I do not want so and so to give out my number.
I have heard people on here, people you are criticizing, say no thank you, it is when it doesn't work or you are not taken off the list that people begin to get angry.
I do not think I should have to just accept the fact that when getting a phone, unlisted at that, I should expect unwanted calls and just go along with it. How do you call that hypocrisy? I do try and do something about it.
Even a homeless person on the streets would not follow me down the street asking me why I wont give to him.
You are right about the tresspassing thing.
Who said it was ok to verbally abuse them? I must have missed that one.
I have to say though, if the telemarketer would get fed up enough and no one wanted to do it, those companies would be out of business.
The person who started this thread is new to the business. She needs to toughen up. Not take it personal. Most people do just hang up, LOL over and over again. On a average I get about 5 to 7 calls on weeks days, every day. Annoying, that is a mild word for how I feel at times.
Whats funny about me writing here is that my folks own a marketing research company, and I may be called upon to oversee the callers because I have done that before. (we do not as you to buy, just surveys, which are also annoying)
will I feel bad if I have to get on the phone because they ask for the manager to cuss out? NAW, why should I? Will I hear from the callers at break all the funny things and cussing people have said to them, yeah, I will and will be laughing along side them.
I do know what you are saying, truly I do. Your fight for the justice of telemarketers is wasted. Like most of them really care?
Unfortunately, this is the real world and how it has become.
Six feet under is on gotta watch it. :)
 
not all are the same

the company I work for has the HIGHEST standards for its employees. We are not allowed to be rude to anyone! If someone is caught being rude the they are fired on the spot. no ands, ifs or buts about it. We do have a script to go by. but we are allowed to add or take out what we seem fit. We don?t call across country, just the state we are from and the state next to us. We call people and offer them an appointment with our reps to show them our product. If that person has no interest in it then we don?t waste their time or try to push them into it. We say "Thank you for your time and have a good day" and move on. And yes we even have the right to hang up on the rude ones( and I have done so). As far as the post about it being our Choice to take this type of job....I disagree...Some of us have a disability and can no longer do the jobs we are qualified for. I personally cant stand, walk or lift. There fore I have two choices.....Go on disability or find a job that doesn?t require standing , walking or lifting...Leaves out Burger King and places like that(which I have done before). My disability was cause from me getting hurt at my last job, so some of us have to do what we can do.
 
Although I do empathize with your plight. I won't get into the ins and outs of more jobs being available to disabled people, as I truly believe there should be more.
You still do have a choice. Once you say it is either this job OR disability you have made a choice.
If all you have to do is press a button and disconnect from the person you called you have it pretty easy. Not all can do that or are willing to do that. You have a choice again. Either you listen to the grumbles of person or you hang up. Whats the problem?
 
oh boy....

I can’t believe you people and how rude some of you are. Ever thought about something? Maybe someone can bring home more money from telemarketing than disability? Maybe some people in this world can’t go and work at burger king or even an office something to think about huh? Some people do have families to support and bills to pay that IS a reason to take a job EVEN if you don’t like it yourself sorry but that’s how it goes. There are a lot of things that tick me off about people and their jobs but that is NO reason to get rude with them and if they do get rude with you simply hang up its not that hard people! You want to complain about them wasting your time well what about the time you are wasting on arguing with them and not just hanging up? You know what I don’t like is people who go in their office all day and do nothing but sit on their butts and complain about all the HARD work they are doing just sitting there going over paper work. You know… then you have those people who just sit around and surf the net all day at their jobs and that’s all they do and make money… that’s total BS. OH yeah and those lovely people at ***** ***** when you ask them if they have something and they are like no sorry we don’t carry that and turn around and find EXACTLY what you are looking for people are so slack these days so why not complain about other things instead of how one MAKES a living doing their job why not complain about how one makes a living doing nothing? Give it up, if you don’t want to talk to them hang up or hey try this BUY a caller id and if its someone you don’t want to talk to… don’t answer simple as that.!! Its an honest Job and it’s a heck of a lot better than other things in this world You have to do what you have to do to make a living the world revolves around money as much as people don’t like that it’s the truth. So just get over it if you don’t want to buy whatever just HANG UP!!!!!
 
True

Yes Monica its a job, and yes Monica I do have a caller ID. And since most telemarketers come in as out of area and stop after 3 rings easy to tell. But after all this is over said and done why do I even have to get up to look at the ID. Why when I pay for an unlisted number to avoid unwanted calls have to endure a call from anyone I dont want to talk to. I happen to find even the ringing of a phone to be an annoyance during dinner or when I sleep during the days since I work at night. You can have your job but when that job interferes with my life you can expect me not to be happy about the intrusion.
 
dont blame telemarketers for doing their job Blame whoever sold your number or the company they work for... its not their problem that they do their jobs like they are supposed to and you sleep durring the day..... blame who gave your number out not the people calling they have no control of who gets called you people need to realize that!
 
Maybe someone can bring home more money from telemarketing than disability? Maybe some people in this world can’t go and work at burger king or even an office something to think about huh?

That may well be so, but anyone taking this particular has to understand the baggage that goes with the job. People are not going to like them, many will utterly despise them, and a good portion of those will vent that anger directy at them as they perform their job. It comes with the territory, they either deal with it or they don't.
My job involves my getting soaked and covered with mud on a regular basis. When the temperature is below freezing, this isn't fun, but I deal with it. Otherwise I would have found other employment.

There are a lot of things that tick me off about people and their jobs but that is NO reason to get rude with them and if they do get rude with you simply hang up its not that hard people!

I don't call them, they invade my privacy and infringe on my time and solitude in my own home. Their job is to bother me, and since they are coming to me I'll be rude if I wish.
They can also hang up if they can't deal with it, after all just as you said, it isn't that hard.

You know what I don’t like is people who go in their office all day and do nothing but sit on their butts and complain about all the HARD work they are doing just sitting there going over paper work. You know… then you have those people who just sit around and surf the net all day at their jobs and that’s all they do and make money… that’s total BS.

Why should this bother you? They are making a living and in no way are they affecting you while they do it. It sure doesn't bother me if they can get paid good money to surf the net, more power to them.
Telemarketers however do not fall into this catagory, they are getting paid to directly intrude on other people. For this reason any comparison to any other line of work is irrelevant.

Give it up, if you don’t want to talk to them hang up or hey try this BUY a caller id and if its someone you don’t want to talk to… don’t answer simple as that.!!

I have caller ID. Just as Dragondad said, most of them come up as out of area, so does my mother when she calls, so does my wife when she calls on her cell phone.

If talking on the phone is how they want to make a living, they are welcome to buy a 900 number, or work for such a company. It takes very little to operate a psychic line, or talk dirty to desperate men for 5 bucks a minute. That way also guarantees they'll never talk to me or anyone else who doesn't want to be bothered by them.
 
Monica,
I do not believe anyone just sits around arguing with telemarketers. I don't believe I read that here. I believe you are getting way to hyped about it, maybe the starter of this thread is a friend of yours, or you are a telemarketer, either way no biggy.
I know EXACTLY who to blame for these calls.
You are right, the telemarketer is not to blame, but don't expect me to feel bad for someone who comes on here to whine about it either.
I do hang up, usually say no thanks then hang up. I do not bother to waste my time arguing.
Don't expect me to feel sorry for them though, they make money, they can take it. The thread starter had just started the job, her feelings will toughen up in time.
What happens if the laws pass and there are no more telemarketers? Then they will have to look to clerical, or a telemarketer job that takes incoming calls instead of making out going calls.
I was just making a point that there is ALWAYS a choice. The choices may not be great, but they are there none the less.
 
Thoughts

You know I think I might change over a whole new leaf here.

When I go to Walmart and the computer scans a wrong price at the cash register I wont say a word to cashier just blame the guy that programmed it. And when I go to Burger King and get a fish sandwich instead of the whopper I ordered will blame the guy who caught the fish.

Clay and Rozann have hit it on the head, the one on the phone has choosen the job. They are the one taking the point of interfering with my time, life and in some cases sleep. They called to deal with me and if I pick up then Iguess they get too deal with me, for better or worse as the case may be.

And by the way wish my moms number came up out of area since I never answer those calls. LOL
 
you people fail to realize these arent the ones DIALING your number theres this thing... called a machine and ya know it dials your number not the people... they cant help who it calls... and if it calls some idiots that are going to get rude... its not their fault... blame the company not them... sorry just how i feel and there is no need to insult people that are trying to make a living doing such. its an honest living and if you dont like it OH WELL...


and as far as people doing nothing on their jobs not affecting me... yes it does... i could have that job and be acually WORKING not surfing...
 
Earth to Monica,
If you read this whole thread very carefully, you would have read that I was one of those people behind the scenes. I was in IT and did some quality control. I was that person. I know that we cant trust the telemarketers to punch in their own numbers, it is dialed for them. And it is not a thing called a machine, it is a computer, you know the piece of equipment you are typing into to write these replies?
Maybe, just maybe if you were to be able to read the thread all the way through, and know what a computer is, you might just have one of those higher jobs on the computer behind a desk.
People are not faulting the telemarketer, just annoyed by their calling.
I can not believe you are going out on such a tangent. Back yourself up girl, then come on and write something rational in the defense of the poor telemarketer who makes a fair amount of money just to have people hang up on them
 
Monika,

Does it strike you at all as ironic that here you are ranting about people who are rude to telemarketers when they could just as easily hang up on them, when YOU are being rather rude to others in this thread when YOU could just as easily just log off?

Just a thought.



By the way. I've done hard manual labor, and I now have a desk job. Both jobs make one tired, just in different ways. Your rantings about people doing nothing more than paper work make your look silly, uninformed, AND hypocritical . . .you know . . . given the above irony I mentioned.
 
I hope you forgive my outburst, but you seemed to get rather catty, thought I could return the favor.
I work behind a desk and with the public. Each and every job has its ups and downs. You have to take the ups with the downs. Coming on here and showing you are.....well...... no better, in some ways worse then what we have said.... well..... is a bit childish.
I did not start this thread. But I have a right to say how I feel.
If you dont like it, well put me on ignore and that is that, you dont have to read me, just as I dont have to listen to telemarketers!:D
 
nah really i didnt know what a computer was.... I ONLY BUILD AND REPAIR THEM!!!!!! i just think its kinda messed up. Your right im rude... why because you go off on MY MOTHER about her job. You guys dont know her and you cant say she had a choice you dont know ANYTHING about my family and the way things are.....You all always got to jump on someones back. A lot of you were always talking about how RUDE neil was... i wonder why.... it doesnt pay for me to read the fourms because someones always got something smart to say.... if you dont like someones job OH WELL THAT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO BE RUDE TO THEM WHILE THEY ARE ONLY DOING THEIR JOB. THATS TOTAL B.S. I wouldnt go to any of you while you were only doing your job and tell you i think its crap or cuss you out for doing what you are paid to do. get over it.....
 
Monica,
This is my last post to you, at least for the evening. No one was being rude to your Mother. Just saying how we feel. You can't write on a forum like this and not get a response. And you cant expect all responses to agree with your, or in this case your Mothers. Just because there is disagreement does not mean we are being rude, I just disagree. Two totally different things. I have every reason in the world to be rude to them, even tho I DONT. The reason is this, they called me, I didnt give out my number, I do not have it tatooed on my forehead. If they happen to call someone who is rude, hey, they are taught what to expect when they enter the job. IT COMES WITH THE TERRITORY.
When I said I had empathy earlier I meant it. I have a brother that is not only physically handicapped but mentally as well. Try following him around looking for jobs. But you know what? He doesnt whine about his job or handicap, he keeps plugging away. He keeps going, AND with enough persistance he gets a job! It is not what he likes, but he does it. And believe me because of his handicap he is used. So my empathy is genuine.
Guess what Monica? I still say telemarketers know what they are in for, as your Mom said earlier, SHE can hang up also. She has the choice not to hear it! That is a better choice then some get.
So before you go off on another tangent, stop, think about it, regroup. Start thinking with your mind and not your emotions.
Face it, people do get irratated, frustrated. Maybe someone is working, maybe someone is feeding their newborn, you dont know. Your Mom has full knowledge that she could be interrupting someone. She chose to do it. If she has that knowledge then she also has the knowledge to understand that people can and will get testy when interrupted. Period!
 
It is unfortunate that your mother, through circumstances apparently out of her control, is forced to make a living by being paid to annoy people. Perhaps you could teach her to fix computers and rescue her from her plight as a persecuted telemarketer.

The fact remains that whether you, her, or anyone likes it or not, that job automatically brings with it the treatment we are discussing in this thread. Right or wrong, that's the way it is.
Some jobs are just that way. Repo men, IRS auditors, these people too are only doing their job, but the general public hates that job. The people who do that job for whatever reason, are subjecting themselves to the treatment (and occasional shooting in the case of repo men) that they will receive. It doesn't make that treatment right, it's just part of the job.

You tell us to get over it. Perhaps you should try that as well. There are certain cosmic laws which will not be broken.
One of those laws is people like IRS auditors, repo men, and telemarketers will be hated and often berated by the people they come in contact with as a result of their job.
 
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