Delilah Ra
New member
I don't know if this applies in other herp areas, but in the ball python realm, I have noticed that there are some people who I guess could be called self-proclaimed genetics police. For example, a recent ad was posted for a "black belly" ball python (with belly pictures). The ad actually says "This is NOT a black belly". The op was attacked for not having a genetically proven snake. I see this all the time, both here and on other boards. Why do people feel it necessary to be self-proclaimed police? Do they feel that they are protecting others from a bad deal? Do they think that the ad posters are trying to rip people off? Or are these bullies just trying to make themselves feel special, important, and knowledgeable? Well guess what. Here's a message to the bullies/ genetics police- I have been observing who you are and remembering names. This forms a list of breeders I will NEVER do business with. I am sure there are others who feel the same. It would be great if some of them would speak up here and make a stand against this internet bullying. There is no reason for it. You are only making yourself look stupid. ...That's right, STUPID. Breeders who know what they are looking at are (monetarily) unaffected by your attempts to discredit ad posters. It happened to me: A while back I posted an ad for Yellow bellies (ball pythons), both here on Fauna and on another board. I had no trouble selling my snakes. All the hype (mostly on the other board in my case) about them not being genetically proven just kept my ad at the top and helped me sell my snakes faster. (I think it took about 3 weeks to sell everything)
You know, If I posted a pied for sale, and had pictures, and someone jumped up and asked me if it was a genetically proven pied, how stupid would everyone think he was? Just look at the picture- it's a pied! Don't you know a pied when you see one? -The same applies to the more subtle morphs. Breeders know what they are looking at. If a buyer sees a picture of a snake they want, they are going to buy it, "proven" or not. There can be 500 posts arguing whether or not the snake can be called a blank if it has not been proven a blank, but if the buyer likes what he sees, he is going to buy the snake.
Why can we not live and let live? How wonderful would it be if we all HELPED each other rather than trying to cut each other down? Why can't we ALL be successful herp breeders? Do we fear there is not enough success to go around? Do we feel it must be dog eat dog? Do the bullies FEAR the success of others?
The next time you think about posting a "that's not a ____" comment, stop and think for a moment.... why do you feel you need to say that? Is the ad poster trying to be honest and fair? Are there clear pictures on which to make an informed decision? Now I'm not saying we shouldn't jump on obvious frauds, or ask for better than fuzzy pictures, but is it fair to jump all over somebody for selling a genetically unproven snake, especially when they clearly indicate or even state in the ad that it not proven?
I guess the free bumps are helpful in the long run, but the negative energy is discouraging and draining and makes the forums a real drag to hang around. I honestly don't like browsing the boards and rarely visit except to look at the ads. And it is because of all the bullying that goes on. Shame on all of you who behave this way. It is unproductive, unethical, and uncalled for.
please GROW UP and make the internet a friendlier place to be.
You know, If I posted a pied for sale, and had pictures, and someone jumped up and asked me if it was a genetically proven pied, how stupid would everyone think he was? Just look at the picture- it's a pied! Don't you know a pied when you see one? -The same applies to the more subtle morphs. Breeders know what they are looking at. If a buyer sees a picture of a snake they want, they are going to buy it, "proven" or not. There can be 500 posts arguing whether or not the snake can be called a blank if it has not been proven a blank, but if the buyer likes what he sees, he is going to buy the snake.
Why can we not live and let live? How wonderful would it be if we all HELPED each other rather than trying to cut each other down? Why can't we ALL be successful herp breeders? Do we fear there is not enough success to go around? Do we feel it must be dog eat dog? Do the bullies FEAR the success of others?
The next time you think about posting a "that's not a ____" comment, stop and think for a moment.... why do you feel you need to say that? Is the ad poster trying to be honest and fair? Are there clear pictures on which to make an informed decision? Now I'm not saying we shouldn't jump on obvious frauds, or ask for better than fuzzy pictures, but is it fair to jump all over somebody for selling a genetically unproven snake, especially when they clearly indicate or even state in the ad that it not proven?
I guess the free bumps are helpful in the long run, but the negative energy is discouraging and draining and makes the forums a real drag to hang around. I honestly don't like browsing the boards and rarely visit except to look at the ads. And it is because of all the bullying that goes on. Shame on all of you who behave this way. It is unproductive, unethical, and uncalled for.
please GROW UP and make the internet a friendlier place to be.
