puppytoes72 said:
first of all i had a thread of my own,and when i had a very important update i did start a new one,im sorry but i dont have the ability to edit.i also posted a reply in someone elses thread BUT I DID NOT REALIZE IT WAS OLD.sorry,ppl make mistakes and im not used to this forum.BUT i did not get warning points for those reasons,i got warning points for "being abusive to another member".when i replied back to you"why?"you said that i needed to post proof about sandfire.that is not true,after that i read the rules and it said that proof is optional.i really think my getting warning points was personal.i still have the PM's to prove it if you would like.i was never abusive in my thread.this is the thread that i got a warning for
http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/forums/showthread.php?t=97713 ty to those that supported me in this!
I guess that I don't understand what you are saying here. You are replying to DThomas saying that you replied back to
him about warning points, yet from the warning point log, he did not give you any warning points prior to the one where he felt you were being snippity to him. Which took place AFTER this quoted post. That original warning point entry was from Ed Clark, for which there is some controversy over whether it was warranted or not.
So yes, please post ALL the PMs so we can see what it is you are talking about. You appear to be implying that Ed Clark was abusive towards you in issuing those warning points, and I think evidence of such should be forthcoming if that is in fact true.
As for you going into attack mode towards Dennis, I strongly recommend that you do not. ALL of the site moderators here can suspend members or ban them outright with sufficient cause. It is rare for that to happen, but they do not have to put up with abuse from anyone. They are trying to do a tough job here, and although disagreements will certainly crop up, they do not have to put up with any sort of abuse that surrounds such disagreement. Also, please bear in mind that they are human beings as well, and just as you, can have issues going on that will make them more or less inclined to take some abuse at that time. If you hit them at the wrong time, just like you, they may respond with more emotion than other times would have presented.
The warning system is designed to try to help members by nudging them in the correct direction when they go outside the lines of what is considered to be acceptable here. Of course, some will be more strict than others about the interpretation of the rules, and there will be cases where mistakes in judgement take place. It does happen, but that was factored into the total needed to tripwire a fine and suspension. I purposely made it so that a member will have to make a REAL effort to get suspended here, nor can any one member capable of issuing warning points abuse the system without being transparent about that effort.
Without knowing Ed Clark's mind and the PMs that were sent to you, my inclination would be to assume that Ed was trying to nudge you into recognizing that evidence to support your claim, while not required, is rather important to support what you are saying against someone else on this site. But we'll know more when you do us the kindness of copying those PMs here so we actually know what words passed between you two about this.
Thanks.