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Warnings......

If only the BOI had been around...

a decade ago. My blacklist grew quite large in the early '90s. This is an extremely important site, but I tend to get in trouble with my wife since I'm usually on here until 3-4:00 am. Great work!
 
i am new to this site
i am SORRY for saying the things i have said.
i have treaded on your site and caused youmore problems.
if it is okay with all of you i will from now on state and give only facts to assist and keep my problems and what i need to do to solve my problems to myself
once again I AM SORRRY
KEN
 
An enhancement to the Warning System

Basically the warning system has been used both as an administrative tool for me, and as a yard stick for other users to see how someone behaves in public in an open forum such as this.

But it is still a work load I have to bear under, administering this thing, and there are better things I would rather do with my time. This is a free site, but sometimes the workload and hassles of it make me ponder the wiseness of continuing with such a task as this has become.

So I think it is time to start making the people who are inclined to abuse this site to either start paying for it or go elsewhere. I have already gone on record being against outright banning, so this will be a method in which people will ban themselves as needed. Basically it boils down to my getting paid to deal with some of the people who cause the most problems here or giving them incentive not to come back.

Now in some respects, this will be much like the speeding ticket system we all know and love on our public highways. The threat of having to pay a speeding fine tends to keep most of us driving within the posted speed limits. Those that don't know the rules and have to accept their lumps if and when they get caught.

But of course there are some differences. Speed zones are posted and you have a speedometer in your car which you can just compare the numbers and figure out if you are breaking the law or not. Very black and white. When you get caught, you are given your ticket and life goes on normally. But you either have to pay the fine, go to court to fight it, of risk losing your driving privileges if you just ignore the ticket.

The warning system fines here will necessarily be slightly different.

Here, you get your access suspended immediately upon receipt of the warning fine. Everyone with a valid email address in the system who gets a warning fine will receive an email notifying them of this event. At that point your access to this site is COMPLETELY suspended until you pay the assessed fine. Fines will be on the following schedule:

First offense - $10
Second offense - $20
Third offense - $40
Fouth offense - $80

I can add more as needed in case I get some wealthy fool on here.

Unlike the posted speed limit signs and your speedometer, determining when a warning fine is appropriate has to be a judgement call on my part. It is NOT black and white. But certainly, when it comes, it will not be a surprise to you nor to anyone else. You will normally get regular warning points first, unless you blew in here in a rush and immediately started making so much of a ruckus that you left me no other choice but to immediately institute the fine and suspension.

Once received, ff the person receiving the warning fine and suspension does not feel getting back on this site is worth the money, then so be it. Have a nice life. We will both likely be happy about the result.

Now, I don't expect to utilize this very much. I have already used it once and so far the person fined has apparently decided that $10 is too stiff a price to pay to come back here. That is his decision to make.

If a person is under warning suspension and someone posts negative material about them, that's just going to be tough, I suppose. That is not cause for me to rescind the fine and suspension. No matter what, unless the person pays the fine, they are not welcome back here. Anyone going through alternate logins to bypass the suspension will have their accounts deleted as soon as it becomes apparent who the person really is.

So anyway, that's the way it is. Some people will like it, some people will hate it, and most people will ignore it. But there it is, nonetheless.

Oh, one other point here. I do not, cannot, and WILL not, read every message in the BOI much less this entire site. YOUR getting warning points has nothing to do with someone else's message. I read YOURS. I probably did not read the other one. Your response in like kind to another message does not excuse your behavior. If you threaten someone that has threatened you, and you get warning points and the other person doesn't, that does not mean I am singling you out. It just means that when I skimmed over the thread, YOUR message caught my eye. I am not going to go reading back through every message in the thread to see if your message was warranted because you responded in a like manner to someone else. So no, I probably will not go back over a dozen pages to find that other message and assess the other person warning points as well.

In other words, ff someone else acts like a jerk and you respond like a jerk, then you are independently a jerk as far as I can tell. Responding as a jerk to a jerk is no excuse for your behavior. And yes, it is entirely possible that one of two jerks may get away with it.
 
I understand, You work your butt off for us to have this forum. I am sorry it has to come to fines but hey. Watch your p's and q 's and there should be no problems. I have learned a lot from this site. It has also saved me alot of money and heartache. Thanks Rich. Please keep up the GREAT work. I really appreciate all you do.
 
Thats Messed up

Hey webby thats kind of messed up that i report and show you numerous threads of people cousing about my cousin and you dont do <font color=red>[bleep]</font>. But i post One reply and now your giving me warnings, Maybe you should check the rules on showing favors towards ppl and be equal. but hey thats ok...i understand now why you dont do nothing about them but that jsut shows how unfair you are, I asked for my sons sake of reading and you did you jsut critasized me about me. well ok
 
Seems to me that if you were so worried about your "son" you wouldn't have created a post that needed to be deleted.
 
well if you let your son ...

read the foul typing you posted then you should be ashamed of yourself ..... and maybe just maybe you should let the 10 yr old drive that keyboard im sure he has better gramitcal skills then you and probably doesnt loose it as easy to use all that foul language with .:confused:
 
This mans language and slanderous comment towards this kid should be dealt with PLZ. How will it look when ppl come to this site and see threads with all this foul lanuage on it, Sorry to be a burden to you but i feel it jsut aint right for them to do this....So plz delete this or what ever you can, cause sir my son comes on here all the time and what if he reads these threads with all this foul talkin....Sir PLZ hes only 10 for god sakes, and im tryin to teach him better.....thank you sir

Now I find this somewhat amusing. This buffoon damien1985 is fairly foolish.

As a rule, not always but often enough that I'm going to go with it here, when someone puts something like 1985 after their name it is the year they were born in, or in this case when someone told him he was born. If he's got a ten year old son that kid pretty much had to be born in 1993.

SO HE FATHERED A CHILD WHILE HE WAS ONLY 8 YEARS OLD????

Now I do know 8 year olds that right better than him but this reproducing at such a tender age leaves me somewhat incredulous, ya know?

Wes Pollock
 
Re: Thats Messed up

damien_1985 said:
Hey webby thats kind of messed up that i report and show you numerous threads of people cousing about my cousin and you dont do <font color=red>[bleep]</font>. But i post One reply and now your giving me warnings, Maybe you should check the rules on showing favors towards ppl and be equal. but hey thats ok...i understand now why you dont do nothing about them but that jsut shows how unfair you are, I asked for my sons sake of reading and you did you jsut critasized me about me. well ok
Oh quit your whining and lying.

To begin with, your receiving warning points is not unfair- you showed a complete and utter disregard for the rules of this site.

Second, the posts you reported were not unacceptable, so you can quit beating that dead horse.

Third, yuour local adult education center probably offers classes in remedial English. My advice would be to take the class post haste..
 
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