joshjtd
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I was in a relationship like this for a long time. There were many excuses given as to why or how the circumstances prevented her from making logical decisions. It hurt a bunch everytime but I would always trust her and we would continue on.
After many times I could see how it was affecting me. I didn't want to hang out with friends, I didn't like being at work as I never knew what I would come home to, I had trust issues with friends, etc... After finally getting off of work early one day, I come home to find her in a comprimising situation with another guy. It took every ounce of will power to not cut them both into one inch cubed pieces and bury them in a shallow grave by the railroad tracks. Instead, I paid a month's rent at a storage shed and bought her a one way bus ticket to her moms city. She cried, I laughed. She cried some more, I made her get on the bus. I then proceeded to go out with some friends and learned that there are more deserving folks.
Long story short, don't be a doormat. If you don't take action, this evil gal will continue doing what she is doing. She has proven that she is not worth your trust or respect. Do yourself a favor and find someone who is.
After many times I could see how it was affecting me. I didn't want to hang out with friends, I didn't like being at work as I never knew what I would come home to, I had trust issues with friends, etc... After finally getting off of work early one day, I come home to find her in a comprimising situation with another guy. It took every ounce of will power to not cut them both into one inch cubed pieces and bury them in a shallow grave by the railroad tracks. Instead, I paid a month's rent at a storage shed and bought her a one way bus ticket to her moms city. She cried, I laughed. She cried some more, I made her get on the bus. I then proceeded to go out with some friends and learned that there are more deserving folks.
Long story short, don't be a doormat. If you don't take action, this evil gal will continue doing what she is doing. She has proven that she is not worth your trust or respect. Do yourself a favor and find someone who is.