OK, since this is a snake site and all, I have to confess: Although I do not mind that other people keep venomous snakes, it is not my thing. While I can go see hot snakes in zoos with no problem I get nervous, very nervous, if someone has them in their home. That brings us to an important issue: What do you do if you meet someone and you really like them, but there is some one area that really and truly you don't like, like they have hot snakes, or they like to go skydiving and they want to take you along, or they smoke weed and you would never, or that sort of thing. How would you handle such situations?
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What do you do when they got the hots?
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Clay Davenport
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It depends on how good the sex is. I can overlook a hell of a lot if the woman is talented.
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I guess they were right when they said that the only thing that matters to men is sex and food.
Wilomn
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Sybella said:
And sleep, sometimes we need to sleep.
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Sybella said:
I think you may be overestimating the importance of food.
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LOL!! Well, you can't sustain on sex, can you??
Wes...if you're as good as you say you are, I can see why you wouldn't get enough sleep.
Wes...if you're as good as you say you are, I can see why you wouldn't get enough sleep.
Clay Davenport
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I'm content to eat whatever happens to be lying around.
Seamus Haley
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Pro-Baggers as an appropriate Valentines day gift? Sharing little handling tips (did you know that a piece of duct or electrical tape on a hook can increase it's effectiveness and make handling easier?) over dinner? Having a partner who won't be angry if the words "Crotalus adamanteus!" are yelled in bed?
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To be quite honest it really doesn't matter what they think at all. The snakes have lived with me for about 4 years now(some more time some less) so they are here to stay. Average relationship with me is give or take 3 weeks. So I don't care if they like them or not, because they will be hitting the road long before the snakes will.
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LOL!! Seamus, your post reminds me of what happened with the vet I used to date. The doctor and I would talk about surgeries during lunch. It was a lot of fun!
Victor Smith
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how did this go to venonm to sex then venom again
hhmoore
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It happened so long ago, I don't remember...
But, as long as you dragged this up from the depths - I'd be okay with her having hots; as long as she didn't get all protective/possessive if I wanted to play with them.
But, as long as you dragged this up from the depths - I'd be okay with her having hots; as long as she didn't get all protective/possessive if I wanted to play with them.
Cat_Eyed_Lady
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LOL I wouldnt care what they did in their free time... hots? ok, just be safe (yaya) but do NOT expect me to woddle my big arse out of a perfectly good airplane! LOL OH! and nothing illegal... I cant afford bail and I Know my parents would leave me there to learn my lesson. ........ atleast til snake feeding day...... then Dad would get me out because he Reallyyyyy doesnt like snakes LOL
charleshanklin
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You forogt alcohol, sometimes when the woman is rather large we need plenty of alcohol for the sex.......... sometimes!
rcarichter
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You guys are cracking me up! Every time I think men are thinking about something besides sex, well, I'm wrong.
Lucille, it's been a long time since I was single, but I had my deal breakers. Hot snakes and weed, definitely deal breakers. Skydiving, that's okay (remember, I do the shark diving). Although you can't fall 10,000 feet out of the ocean, I can appreciate the adrenaline rush.
Noelle
Lucille, it's been a long time since I was single, but I had my deal breakers. Hot snakes and weed, definitely deal breakers. Skydiving, that's okay (remember, I do the shark diving). Although you can't fall 10,000 feet out of the ocean, I can appreciate the adrenaline rush.
Noelle
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Guy wants to keep hots ... fine with me as long as he also keeps common sense, suitable containment/feeding systems, IQ of at least 100, a steady job and some wit and ethics as well.
And if he's also hot, then it's a definite plus
And if he's also hot, then it's a definite plus