What kind of personalities do YOU prefer?

[nicolai]

I wish i knew what i wanted or she wanted. Evetime i think i have become what she wants she finds something else she wants me to change. Everytine i think she has become what i want her to be I come back from the chicken ranch and try to tell her what else she has to change.

 

[kiote9]

Why does anyone have to change?

Take me as I am or leave me alone. If there is a change needed is should be agreed upon and a plan of action followed. It isn't that difficult really.

The problem seems to be that too many people believe they have the right to change the person they claim to love. If you love someone you love them regardless of the perceived flaws.

 

[techgirl]

i need someone who can put up with my sick sense of humor and typical female ways.

 

[kiote9]

Oh NO you don't! Put up with??? No way girl!!!

You need someone who understands and appreciate that which makes you uniquely you. If you look for someone who can "put up with" ANYTHING you are going to be very unhappy when they decide they can no longer tolerate it. You'll end up going through that you need to change thing.

There is someone out there who will like you for who you are. Someone who you will like as well.

 

[techgirl]

well heck if they decide they can't put up with anything then they weren't worth it anyway. what i mean be put up is able to deal and understand and the ability to adjust is situation so calls for. if they can't well then

 

[kiote9]

Someday someone will come along who actually compliments your sense of humor and understands where you are coming from. Don't hold your breath though...took me a heck of a long time to find someone who not only complimented me but also loves me the way I love him.

All I am saying is that tolerance is temporary and individuality is a permanent condition.

 

[Ophis]

I like girls who don't speak english. This way they have a legitimate excuse for not communicating.

 

[CJBianco]

Since my wife now has a boyfriend on the side, I guess that I am allowed to play this game too. My perfect soulmate? Hmmm...

Overall Personality -- a gentle Buddhist soul
Intelligence -- Mensa level or higher
Appearance -- the Meg Ryan type
Other -- all smiles and laughter

I could fall in love with Dharma. (Dharma & Greg -- TV Show)


Chris

 

[Jase_UK]

I like women who are talkative kind and listen to what you have to say instead of fobbing you off.......I've got a few friends like that but I'm afraid friends is all they will be....

 

[ladyserpent7]

i like someone that has love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, mildness, self-control......thats the perfect man that doesnt exist.

further more...i love people that are passionate..about life..about animals/reptiles..about their culture..everything..and i like loud because im loud..i love a man thats confident...and i love a good sense of humor..if you can make me laugh..youve got me so far...i like it when a guy takes care of himself..meaning..good dresser..smells good..etc. ..also..i want someone that..hmm.. i wouldnt say dominate me..but more like..knows how to be the head in a relationship...this is what i would prefer..some of it anyway..dont know the rest..but its not saying if someone didnt portray every detail that i wouldnt give him a chance.

 

[ffollett]

I have dated different kinds of women and I prefer the ones with a mind of their own. I hate the "whatever you want to do" type when you ask them a question. I wouldn't have asked you what you thought or where you wanted to go etc. if I didn't want your opinion on the subject.
My wife now is very intelligent, very stubborn, VERY opinionated, loves reptiles, has a great sense of humor and most importantly puts up with my crap. Got to love a woman with those traits, especially the last one.

 

[Lucille]

I think she sounds wonderful, and I too admire that collection of traits.

 

[lizardsister2]

I really like guys who are strong, bright, opinionated, but respectful. I hate it when people actually want to argue in a way that's hurtful or try to dominate other people, but I might even hate it more when a guy just agrees with what I think to impress me or avoid conflict. If you have an opinion, share it, own it, have confidence that you are a bright person with the right to have the opinion you have. Do it respectfully, but if you disagree with me, then damnit, disagree with me!

 

[Shellybee]

I like quiet men who are smarter and taller than me. I am 5’10’’ in heels. I never find both. Also, someone well versed in literature and history. There are a lot of things that I like in a guy.

 

[Chris Steele]

I wouldn't have expected that thoughtful intelligent types would be the top choice unless people are lying or its mostly females voting, but I did choose that one along with seven other choices

 

[Shellybee]

I wouldn't have expected that thoughtful intelligent types would be the top choice unless people are lying or its mostly females voting, but I did choose that one along with seven other choices

I think it stands for men as well. I mean look at Jessica Simpson. She is beautiful and due to her lack of intelligence she can't keep a man...

 

[Chris Steele]

Hmm.. good point. I guess I am still focused on the attitudes of all the immature asses I just got out of highschool with haha.