jglass38 said:
Alicia,
You do realize that this small online community is not the real world, right? In the grand scheme of things its completely insignificant. The BOI is a really useful tool. The rest of this site, well you know...
Oh for sure. Its definitely not the real world. ( aside from all my hopes and dreams that i wish it was though!.....) Because, for one, I dont think the "real world" is quite so full of so many interesting and intelligent insightful people in one common area, which is pretty unfortunate.
BUT, on that same thought, This site in and of itself CAN have a significant impact on future dealings/business. and, regardless of what many people who like to use the excuse " This will never hurt my business, ever, because its just a stupid silly site" may think. It DOES matter how one interacts with others in the online world, because... as we have seen in the past, and will in the future no doubt, people visit this site. it is one of the FEW large forums that people tend to visit, if people dont see it now, they more than likely
will in time to come.
there are those here that base their business transactions soley on character. some that base their decisions on how professional someone sounds. Be it a name, or how they type. so regardless how one MIGHT think that it does not matter, those are people you dont even know about that you are losing sales to.
Granted you are doing this as a hobby, so it obviously does not matter to you in the same business sense as i am speaking about, but, the point is, how one composes/acts/behaves online does make a difference, even to those that would possibly sell to you.
That may be one persons opinion over another. BUT ive seen enough scumbags go down pretty hard because of they way they acted on this very forum, to know... it definitely can happen. and does. often. One would think it wise to be careful/respectful, especially having been here and seen in firsthand. But i suppose i could just be talking to the wind too.....
I also disagree with your comment "
The rest of this site, well you know.."
Because there is Definitely a TON of useful information here, granted, again that is a matter of ones own opinion. but since you are stating yours, im going to be stating mine.
The site itself as a whole is a very important tool. I have learned alot, and not just on how to be cautious about who to buy from and what to look for, but about other species of animals and their care as well. Things, that i did not know before i came here. and im 100% positive that others can say the exact same thing.
Maybe for some its not as good as other sites ( and then i ask, why are you here then?), but for many... its one of several of the most informative websites around, and people can feel pretty at home. Nothing wrong with that.
Definitely not something insignificant by any means. But of course, those are just my personal feelings on the matter.