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What women want.....

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Simple enough. What do women want in a man? What does it take to make a woman want to stay? How does she want to be treated?
 
O.k. O.k., I'll go first.. This is what I want in a man...
First off, I want a manly man. You know, one that is not afraid to get dirty, go under the car and check out the "weird noise" I heard on my way home. Some one who can change the oil in the truck, replace a radiator hose or do a tune up. Not because I drive a junky car, but just because he can :) Sexy sexy sexy is a man under a hood, or all dirty. I want a man that calls me at work to see how my day is going, and if it's going bad, I want a man who'll offer to beat up the person who is making me have a bad day :)
I want a man that comes home and kisses me and askes whats for dinner, and doesn't complain about what I cook!
I want a man who cuts the lawn and does yard work ( without any bitching from me) and helps me carry my flowers and plants from the truck to where I want to plant them, And will stick around for any "heavy" work if I need him.
Someone who will notice if I changed my nail polish, or my perfume.
I'm not looking for someone to clean my house, or do laundry or cook, I can handle all that. Just someone who appreciates what I do for him, and only has eyes for me :)
Oh and if he's happens be a well built sexy fire-fighter type preferably over 6', dark hair, light eyes, has to love dogs and reptiles, that will work too
 
FEENIEE said:
O.k. O.k., I'll go first.. This is what I want in a man...
First off, I want a manly man. You know, one that is not afraid to get dirty, go under the car and check out the "weird noise" I heard on my way home. Some one who can change the oil in the truck, replace a radiator hose or do a tune up. Not because I drive a junky car, but just because he can :) Sexy sexy sexy is a man under a hood, or all dirty. I want a man that calls me at work to see how my day is going, and if it's going bad, I want a man who'll offer to beat up the person who is making me have a bad day :)
I want a man that comes home and kisses me and askes whats for dinner, and doesn't complain about what I cook!
I want a man who cuts the lawn and does yard work ( without any bitching from me) and helps me carry my flowers and plants from the truck to where I want to plant them, And will stick around for any "heavy" work if I need him.
Someone who will notice if I changed my nail polish, or my perfume.
I'm not looking for someone to clean my house, or do laundry or cook, I can handle all that. Just someone who appreciates what I do for him, and only has eyes for me :)
Oh and if he's happens be a well built sexy fire-fighter type preferably over 6', dark hair, light eyes, has to love dogs and reptiles, that will work too
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And then tomorrow comes and everything changes, right? ;)

Griz
 
Wake Up!!

LOL, Then I pass out from holding my breath, waiting for this guy :) And wake up to my lame boyfriend doing CPR ! !
 
Well, I am the guy that opens the doors for her, says "yes mam,no mam,please, and thank you". I work on autos and motorcycles, so I do get dirty, but always shower immediately after work and shaves several times a day. I am the guy that shows respect to her and all others. I don't take any BS, though.
I don't watch sports on TV. This is time to do yard work, planting flowers and trees, cutting the grass. I dress clean when going out because I believe my method of dress is a direct reflection of her. I never try to out dress her, though. She is the star, I am the backup.
Burbing, hiccups, and other noisy bodily functions are not displayed to her. Doing so, in my opinion, degrades respect shown to her. Visits to my personal library are always flushed away and evidence of the visit is immediately showered away.
I call her three times a day. Mid morning checkup, offer for lunch together, and mid afternoon checkup. Sometimes I'll slip her a little note in the lunch she takes to work. Just to let her know I am thinking of her and wishing her a wonderful day.
My cullinary skills lack, but I do occassionally make a decent lunch on weekends and set everything up for a couple hours in the hot tub. Phones all turned off, food and fruit and veggies and drinks surround the hot tub. This is HER weekend. She is to relax. Full body massages are in order here.
She is my queen. She will be treated as such.

How many women here would complain??
 
I think perhaps what people want changes over the course of their lifetime. There are, for me, certain constants: I want integrity, and strength of character. I like people who love animals and who have the ability to be gentle with a puppy yet merciless if defending the home from an intruder. But now in my life I really don't want someone who would devote every available moment to me. I would prefer other people have strong interests as my career and education demand much of my time; those who could give quality time but not demand attention every waking moment.
 
I would have to agree with Lucille to a certain extent. I used to think that it would be wonderful to have a guy call me at work everyday just to see how my day was going. I got one of those and after about a week, it got annoying. I'm working here!
I do want someone who can appreciate the give and take of busy lives. Someone who is willing to make more than a grilled cheese sandwich for dinner if I'm working late. When he's having a bad day, I'm there for him. When I'm having a bad day, I don't want to have to ask for a hug. Just be there. Someone who can engage me in intelligent conversation, but knows how to make me laugh.
And someone who isn't afraid to stand back and let me use power tools, or the snowplow. I know how this stuff works boys - you don't have to take over, or give me a lesson.
In the end it's all about compromise, and trust. If we're happy, and I can trust the process, no matter what we may or may not be arguing about, then it's all good from there.
 
Well, my first reply was serious, so here is a more lighthearted reply:

I want:

Someone that is fine, and I mean DY NO MITE :dgrin:

Someone with enough brains to keep me entertained but enough brains to know when it is no longer time for intellectual games and time for other games :hehe:

Someone fabulously wealthy enough to buy me LOTS of choklit
 
well, I would assume that women want a man that gives her attention. unfortunately for me (since I work 40+ a week) I have no time to do so unless it is scheduled well in advance.
 
handsomeRob said:
Lucille hit the bullseye. women want money. End of story.
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Oh come on now, I was just kidding around.
In this day and age when women, in America anyway, can get their own money, certainly there must be more that a man can offer :raspberry
 
yeah...more money. or is there a female scientist with a masters degree in quantum physics getting married to a man that just got "employee of the month" at taco Bell somewhere out there?
 
first off...rob..i like the sn..it reminds me of the Italian Job..love that movie..second off..i believe that a woman should be in subjection to her man..and as a man..he should not take advantage of that..but treat her with respect..and i want a man that LETS me be in subjection, not forces me to be..hope that makes sense to you guys..doesnt wait for a special occasion to surprise me with something special, LOVES animals and especially snakes...loves taking risks and doing spur of the moment things, and he has to treat me like the princess that i am..and this goes for every woman..and has an intellectual side as well as humorous..i love a guy that can teach me something i dont know..and make me laugh...on a lighter note....tall,dark,hairy, thick eybrows, good dresser, nice arms, not too muscley..(i dont like that) and a good dancer...thats not asking too much is it?
 
i want a woman that is pretty, not overweight, and likes reptiles. That's not too much to ask for, is it? apparently it is because everybody tells me I need to lower my standards.
 
hahaha...i personally think you need to raise your standards...how bout..smart..funny..can hold a conversation..nope..youre probably not interested in any of those things..haha
 
oh a good sense of humor and a bit of brains is good. but not so bad that she would bust out laughing if there was a death in my family and not so "self proclaimed" intelligent that she started telling everyone how to do things and whatnot. you know...the type that actually believe that 2+2=5 and would argue all day long about it.
 
Ok, ladies, now what you want on the surface of a man, what is that you REALLY want? What is that makes a woman want to stay with a man and not stray?
If the man is a faithful, loyal guy who tries hard and works to provide for the family, is that enough? Or is there something else unknown to the typical male?

What is it that our grandparents and great grandparents had that held them together through everything good and bad?

Here, in todays society, people split up because one works long hours, or bills, or infidelity. I have tried to understand this.

How did our forefathers hold it all together through the great depression and famine? Today, people leave relationships for the dumbest of things.

So, tell us guys: What is it we need to do in order to have the relationships before us?
 
what do we have to do? as far as im concerned, the only thing i have to do is be myself. if the woman im with doesnt like me for who i am then the relationship just isnt worth it.
 
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