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Bad Guy Chad Johnson - Chadscresteds

If that's all of the PM's, I think the 'you were rude to me' thing was a bit overboard. You led her on more than once, and are now playing for sympathy. She was far from rude. You make this right, Broderick, or you're no better than Chad (or any other scammer).
 
laterob said:
If that's all of the PM's, I think the 'you were rude to me' thing was a bit overboard. You led her on more than once, and are now playing for sympathy. She was far from rude. You make this right, Broderick, or you're no better than Chad (or any other scammer).
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:iagree: She was fed up with being taken for a ride. Like I said she wasn't being rude only realistic.
 
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Originally Posted by jerseygirl
6/21/2011 10:37am
Hi Broderick-
Its past 10:30 am on Tuesday, and now I'm getting worried. He's not here yet? Do you have a tracking # or anything?
Thanks, Tara

BRODERICKS RESPONSE 6/21/2011 2:08PM
Shit! excuse my language but I totally forgot. I will absolutly be shipping it out today! I am sooooooo sorry Tara. Ughhhh this probably looks so bad :[ Ill package it up right now and go take her to ship. Im sorry Tara!
If you would do me the HUGEST favor and not say that that i accedentally did this I would extremely appreciate it bc ive tried SOOOOO hard to get these ppl to finally belive me and accidentally forgetting to sent it out would just ruin me.
Thank you, Broderick

6/21/2011 at 5:38PM
Tara please let me know if u can ship her out or not today within the next hour or we will just have to ship tomorrow for thursday. I sincerely apoligize for forgetting yesterday. I do not want to send it out without ur permission
6/21/2011 6:05pm
Anytime this week is fine Broderick, don't worry I won't tell. I think this is a really nice gesture. I know you had a hard enough time getting people to believe you. Just let me know
Thanks so much
Tara
6/23/2011 12:10PM Posted by ME
He's never coming is he ?
6/23/2011 at 2:48pm

Hes DEFINATLY coming, trust me. Im just having trpuble finding time to send him out because of the situation with my grandpa. BUt i garuntee you I have him here to send out. I know this may not helpmy situation any more but in my my family always comes first and I am trying my best to be here for him,my mom, and grandma the most right now. If you dont mind Tara, can I have him forsure shipped out to you tuesday of next week for wednessday arrival? I would seriously appreciate it. My grandpa has 3 blot clots, two in his lungs and one in his leg and they dont think its looking too good for him.
Thank you, Broderick
6/27/2011 7:20am
Hi Broderick~ Hope all is well with your grandfather. I was just confirming tomorrows shipping for wednesdays delivery. Please just let me know.
Thanks, Tara
Hi Broderick~ Hope all is well with your grandfather. I was just confirming tomorrows shipping for wednesdays delivery. Please just let me know.
Thanks, Tara
6/29/2011 at 2:38pm
Im sorry Tara the internet has been out at my house and I tried logging in thru my phone but it would not let me see my messages. I am still dealing with alot of stuff bc of my grandpa, but i do really want to get your geko out to you. All this stress is adding up sorry. its like a million things at once right now.

6/29/2011 2:54pm
Just keep it, I'm tired of the lies, and empty promises and wasting my time.

8/1/2011 at 4:14pm
Can I please just send you your gecko so everybody can stop hating me. I didn't do anything wrongvi was just trying to make things right but have gotten so frustrated with all of the shit pol have given me. Sorry

I ATTEST THAT THIS IS EVERY SINGLE PM OF OUR COMMUNINCATION.
Tara Bowling
 
jerseygirl said:
6/29/2011 2:54pm
Just keep it, I'm tired of the lies, and empty promises and wasting my time.

8/1/2011 at 4:14pm
Can I please just send you your gecko so everybody can stop hating me. I didn't do anything wrongvi was just trying to make things right but have gotten so frustrated with all of the **** pol have given me. Sorry
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Broderick,

Part of inheriting a collection/business/etc. with a bad name previously attached to it is spending some time bending over backwards for potential new customers to get your name severed from the ex owner's.

A good response to her message of "just keep it," where she was very obviously frustrated with your friend screwing her over followed by your lack of communication followed by excuses? A very sincere apology, without any further excuses, and asking her if she could give you a date when you could get the gecko shipped to her. If she said "just keep it" a second time, you could have just apologized one more time and posted in the thread that you wanted to make good but she refused.

No "hate" here, no crap-talking, it's just advice that I hope will come in handy in the future.
 
What kind of phone do you have that you can surf the net yet not look at emails? My Iphone does, as did my old phone which was just a texting phone, as did my old flip phone from eons ago. Now a days phones can support most online websites like fauna to open up their emails. Just curious do you either have he worlds worst phone, or are you someone with a 6 y/o+ phone?
 
Oh almost forgot to add the visitor message I left on his wall...
6/28/2011 at 11:25pm
Hey Broderick~ I sent you a PM on Monday confirming shipping today for tomorrow (wednesdays) arrival...I haven't heard from you, but you must have gotten my message because I see you logged in today 6/28 @ 3:27pm. Do you happen to have a tracking number?
 
vwgeckos said:
Funny things is you all treat me like shit when I for 1, have not even sold a gecko yet to prove that I am legit and 2 seem to be giving me a bad rep when I haventveven sold a damn gecko yet. No I won't take bashing from people that's not right and I have more respect for myself than to let pol think it is ok to do so.
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^^^

If that's true then it explains why no person who bought those leachies has come forward yet... they didn't really sell.
 
Interesting.

I was on Pangea, and he joined there on Saturday. He's poking around now, and I've let Matt Parks know he's involved in this dispute.

He's going by the screen name Broderickvw.

Good luck selling on Pangea, dude!!

Also-I'm a mod at Ciliatus, and I'll be watching for you there, too.

Matt and Anthony Caponetto have zero tolerance for BOI scammers selling on their sites.

Just a little tip for you, Broderick...Gecko breeders are a tight-knit group, and we go to MANY sites to sell...so we know who to look out for.

You might want to get yourself a trench coat and try selling those geckos on the corner of your street.

You'll have better luck there.

"Pssst-hey-buddy! Wanna buy a gecko?"
 
Samanthajane What's your problem? Seriously get a life. I'm over here packaging taras gecko and all u can do is cause me more problems. I'm not a scammed so drop it already. Go cause somebody else unneeded stress.

Tara, I was wondering what the adress was so I could ship your gecko out today for tomorrows arrival. Please Get back to me so I can do so.
 
The way you do business is my problem!! I hate to see fiends get screwed over.

As far as dropping this subject, it will be dropped and allowed to fade into obscurity WHEN we hear that Tara has received the right gecko, in TOP CONDITION, although I think you've pretty much killed your reputation, name and any chance of doing business with 99% of the readers of this thread, just because you have an attitude. So, basically, YOU will fade into obscurity, too, until you're no more than a bad memory.

As I said above, we're a tight-knit group, and we watch out for each other. Which means we get the word out about bad deals and we come to each other's aid when we're needed.

We're funny that way.

PS-Hooked On Phonics can help with your spelling/grammar problem.
 
vwgeckos said:
Samanthajane What's your problem? Seriously get a life. I'm over here packaging taras gecko and all u can do is cause me more problems. I'm not a scammed so drop it already. Go cause somebody else unneeded stress.
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Broderick,

This only highlights a lack of maturity and cool-headedness that will get you far in not only the reptile trade, but in many other avenues. If someone says something that upsets you, prove them wrong. Empty verbal claims and defensiveness account for little.

It usually pays off to befriend people with big reputations instead of pissing them off. People know Donna, people also know Tara, and Ansli. They have been clear-headed, respectful people in the hobby. The more you choose to bicker with them, the more it says about you.
 
I'm not defending the guy but are the jibes about grammar/spelling really necessary? In a situation like this if you want your friend to be helped it might be most helpful not to take jabs at things that really do not matter because all it's going to do is get the guy riled. Who does that help?

I'm trying to keep tabs on what is going on here so the mods on the other forum can make a decision, and wading through all of the petty stuff gets old.

Tara if you could send me a PM if/when you get the gecko I would appreciate it.
 
vwgeckos said:
So her statment saying "PS-Hooked On Phonics can help with your spelling/grammar problem." is okay?
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No, but it can help to let things go, and be the bigger person. Do what you need to do in order for people to take you seriously.
 
vwgeckos said:
As far as tara goes why would I respond and still do a favor for somebody who sends rude messages over not being ably to get a gecko that they feel they are owed.
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I just had come across this one!
How DARE YOU! I never felt I was OWED...I even said it wasnt your fault and that it was a very nice gesture. So for the record...I NEVER EVER thought you OWED me anything!!!!!


As far as your other message...

I will be available to accept the shipment tomorrow.
 
vwgeckos said:
After I received the messages from her stating that she didn't want the gecko a d to keep it I didn't respond, there was no reason toxin my opinion. I tried doing something nice and it failed. Now you need to watch your self and wHat you say about my grandfather. He hAs nothing to do with the gecko nor do u have any right to say anything about it.
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vwgeckos said:
What address would you like me to it to?
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The one I sent you in the very beginning. In case you deleted it, I will PM you the address only now.
 
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