You're awfully quick to believe the guy who - despite crying like a baby about the injustice of anyone being able to make unsubstantiated claims - absolutely refuses to back that statement up. The context clues tell a different story. In the posted communications, he never once references the PayPal dispute until 4/3. Nearly a month after we first see the OP asking for a refund. No one finds it odd that his refusal wouldn't come with some reference to the dispute that she supposedly already initiated?
His reply:
If - according to his claims - she'd already filed the PayPal dispute, why would he still be asking her to wait "a few days"? Doesn't make any sense to me. Especially considering the tone of the following email, which is his first time referencing the PayPal claim:
It's very easy to understand that it was most likely an admixture of pettiness and simple lack of forethought, in spending money that many would agree isn't actually his until the transaction is completed to the buyer's satisfaction. In your obvious fanboy mentality, you've chosen to ignore aspects that don't present him in the rose-colored light that you clearly perceive to be beaming from the pedestal upon which you've obviously placed him. The most relevant being that PayPal returned the money to him well before he deigned to finally issue the refund. Although he's quick to blame the PayPal claim for his monetary woes, I suspect that the money was spent before she ever initiated it.
It's so easy to play the "for the sake of the animals" card. However, if she's the uncaring person that you'd both like to portray her as being, why would he be so dead set on holding her to the transaction? If it's all for the "sake of the animals," would it not have been best to simply issue a refund and find a buyer who he felt sincerely cared about their welfare? That'd seem to be the most sensible course of action, unless, of course, he really cared about nothing more than the money.
She clearly lacked comprehension of exactly what kind of person she was dealing with. I suspect that many eyes have now been opened, and the view isn't nearly as flattering as the picture you're trying to paint.
I seriously question your definition of propriety, especially in regards to business ethics. I notice you haven't commented on the glaring lack of social skills coming from the guy who's chose to threaten at least one person in this thread. I suppose it's just another example of your comically selective myopia. It's also laughable that you'd bring TOS into this, considering that his own are so extremely vague that they'd allow for an open-ended timetable for shipping, based wholly on whatever arbitrary criteria he'd choose to stipulate, after the sale. From a TOS standpoint, there's nothing for him to righteously hide behind. They're actually more supportive of the OP's position, since he did fail to "produce or supply the animal as agreed upon."
Wow, so somebody you dont even know, that I dont even know, comes on here and posts their opinion, which is all that any of you are doing since none of you have dealt in facts for weeks and have no idea what really happened so you are just throwing your feces on the wall and watching it run down. Lovely. So when somebody outside your click posts on here, you just attack and insult them, even though they have said nothing to harm you, you just attack, like animals. What makesyou so much better than everyone else you self rightious sob??? Who died and made you Jesus Christ? Or even better, God? why is your opinion more valid than anyone elses'? You are so pissed off at me even though you dont know me and have never dealt with me? You have mental problems. you need therapy. If you think you are getting to me, I could care a less. I have had nothing but phone calls and emails the past few days commenting about how bad people think you hyenas behave and echoing the sentiments of what I and others said here about what you are posting in this thread.
On top of all that you are since I breed snakes my tos says clearly, if I fail to produce the snake, as in if I DO NOT MAKE IT. I do not believe outside of a court room that anyone says produce meaning to make something appear. The snakes existed already when she purchased them. I did not fail to produce them, but even by your dated definition that you are only using to drag out this tired garbage, I did nothing to violate my tos. The weather is just slightly out of my hands and for not recognizing that fact you are really cool, right?
1)She sent me a deposit, I held the animals for her.
2)she paid the balance and demanded animals ship immmediately
3)I refused to ship due to weather, she asked for a refund
4)I told her no and it would only be a couple weeks before the weather was good enough to ship the snakes
5) she agreed to wait and then filed a dispute with paypal without discussing it or informing me that she was doing it
6) I am out of town all the time for reptile shows, I was out of town and did not access my email so I had no idea that she had filed the claim until a bill that I have auto paid every month came back unpaid. I used a computer at the hotel to check my paypal account at that point and it was -$800 which paypal took from my account due to her claims.
7)I had monies going in and out of paypal like I do every day, I do thousands of transactions a year on paypal so I worked from a balance of -800.00
8) at this point the buyer and I had exchanged over 29 emails, she accused of me of lying to her about the weather to avoid shipping, I sent her weather.com info as others have posted in this thread, it was too cold to ship live animals. simple.
9)eventually I got sick of her and told her that I would resell the animals and refund her money, which at this point paypal still had for two weeks.
10) since then I have refunded every cent she paid including the non refundable deposit she aggreed to and the fees that I lost because paypal did not release the money back to me until after the period for refunds was over.
simple. it is all done now. even though she has posted mirror images of this thread all over the internet and has not posted on them that she received a refund and in fact I still do not believe she would have posted it here without being pushed just like when she lied and said she had gotten refunded that day when I posted proof from paypal that it was four days earlier. So that is that.
You guys keep posting that you dont understand why I dont post more info, simple, you are nobody to me, I dont owe you anything, you are not a customer and should not even be part of the conversation, so I will continue to do nothing for you. good bye.