DaveyFig
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I would like to apologize to Jordan here. I cannot say that I will not make any more posts, to this thread, as we have seen that backfire many times. I just want to say that my posts to this thread were never an attempt to discredit Jordan. As members made subjective posts, I felt (and I don't know why) that I needed to dig deeper and find out what really went on. I tried to be as objective as possible, and in reading my posts it does seem as though I have some sort of beef with Jordan. I don't. I think Jordan is awesome. As I posted I felt as though I was sharing some grand insight. When others would post, I felt that I had to back up what I said, and would look for more information.
I don't think that either party did more wrong in this than the other. I think it was a perfect storm of miscommunication and misunderstanding mixed with some inflated expectations. I remember when the first post was made on the other thread. I thought "This should be good," as I knew that Jordan was such an important person in our community that many would come to defend him. Then Jordan posted, accepting full responsibility. I remember thinking, "This guy is the real deal!"
I don't want anyone to think that I was backing Tibor. As I mentioned before, I don't know anything about him. If he had treated me the way he treated Jordan, I probably would have told him to take a flying leap. I have never interacted with him in any way, and I would hope that posting this doesn't make him have ill will towards me.
I was backing Jordan, as unbelievable as that seems. I was backing the Jordan that stepped up without the typical BOI pressure. Jordan made the decision to pay in full, to offer more in trade than was needed,and to be the bigger man. I backed that Jordan, that we saw glimpses of in both threads. I know that many said he should just give Tibor what he had and be done. I agree with that, but there were multiple times when Jordan did not. I applaud that Jordan who felt that although he was wrong, he had made a statement (more than once) and was going to stand by it. He had another form of peer pressure. He had people telling him that going above and beyond was wrong. That he didn't owe anything. He didn't owe anything. I agree. Jordan didn't. Jordan saw a case where he had accepted responsibility to sell animals for someone. He would be giving Tibor money that he needed, and would go out of his way to make that happen. Others told him not to.
That Jordan that I supported, and continue to support ultimately lost. The court of public opinion is divided between those that think Jordan did the right thing, and those that think Jordan went against himself. I am not saying that Jordan did the wrong thing. I don't think Jordan did what he felt was right. I think his integrity did suffer here.
I don't think that either party did more wrong in this than the other. I think it was a perfect storm of miscommunication and misunderstanding mixed with some inflated expectations. I remember when the first post was made on the other thread. I thought "This should be good," as I knew that Jordan was such an important person in our community that many would come to defend him. Then Jordan posted, accepting full responsibility. I remember thinking, "This guy is the real deal!"
I don't want anyone to think that I was backing Tibor. As I mentioned before, I don't know anything about him. If he had treated me the way he treated Jordan, I probably would have told him to take a flying leap. I have never interacted with him in any way, and I would hope that posting this doesn't make him have ill will towards me.
I was backing Jordan, as unbelievable as that seems. I was backing the Jordan that stepped up without the typical BOI pressure. Jordan made the decision to pay in full, to offer more in trade than was needed,and to be the bigger man. I backed that Jordan, that we saw glimpses of in both threads. I know that many said he should just give Tibor what he had and be done. I agree with that, but there were multiple times when Jordan did not. I applaud that Jordan who felt that although he was wrong, he had made a statement (more than once) and was going to stand by it. He had another form of peer pressure. He had people telling him that going above and beyond was wrong. That he didn't owe anything. He didn't owe anything. I agree. Jordan didn't. Jordan saw a case where he had accepted responsibility to sell animals for someone. He would be giving Tibor money that he needed, and would go out of his way to make that happen. Others told him not to.
That Jordan that I supported, and continue to support ultimately lost. The court of public opinion is divided between those that think Jordan did the right thing, and those that think Jordan went against himself. I am not saying that Jordan did the wrong thing. I don't think Jordan did what he felt was right. I think his integrity did suffer here.




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